Originally Posted by muslimahimprovin

If can't handle responsibility, don't have sex. Nuff said. Because the consequence of your passionate and uncontrolled hormones is another life

*cough* thats a bit harsh isnt it.

its not quite as easy or as simple as that brother
everyone goes through certain 'phases' in their lives and many do not think about children or responsibilities or consequences for that matter until very later on (even up until when their kids are teenagers, the parents still act like teenagers themselves, what kind of an example is that ?) ....they should but they dont.

brother iqbal_ibn_adam point is very true "our parents have done everything for us except teach us Islam"

we are the next generation
lets hope we do not make these mistakes.