Asalamu Alaikum

I'm guessing that you should then cut down on using those smilies then sister. After all, by using all those smilies kind of shows your personallity to a certain extent to a male on the forum who in turn might get feelings for you. I'm sure that's not what you want do you?

I don't know about this, there's lots of people who say you shouldn't do this and that, but they end up doing it themsevles without realising.

Point number 3, I see that isn't being implemented by you in the General forum is it?

I'm not having a bash at you or anything, but just using you as an example. My intentions were not to hurt or judge you, but just to bring to your attention that we should be the first to act upon such things, and then tell others. Insha Allah may Allah guide us all.