No it is just my culture/tradition. It is very wrong I know. The men don't wear beards and the women don't cover till after they get married. It is a usual thing. So no one ends up being a leader by changing the rules, but following everyone else. I am guilty of that, especially living in the city. However most of us follow the 5 pillars. I know that is not enough, I am just very confused about certain things especially at this point.

We (some people) mostly live in a time where we follow the pack and worry about what everyone else thinks on earth instead of Allah and the afterlife.