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Originally Posted by Halima  Well that's the whole point..to have no attraction whatsoever. Eventually, smaller things will lead to big things then you'd really have something to be concerned about.
In accordance to the segregation of opposite sexes not only applied here on the forums, but this is everywhere unless of course that person is your mahram.
Islam proceeds to prevent something like that from getting into something bigger. A simple scenario is attraction.
If you keep on writing to the person that you are attracted to that definetly wouldn't help the situation..because there has to be a boundary and that is NOT writing to the opposite sex for unnecessary reasons. |
this must happen only in isalm because normally in society people interact and are quite responsible when acting upon their feelings, it is sad that you cannot exercise self-governance. as for islam pre-empting the possibility of attraction, then segregation is in itself half-baked best not have children at all cos one way or another you will still be attracted to someone, and what of lesbians what if they feel attracted how you gonna solve that one?, anyhows attraction is healthy and a part of life a person should embrace all things and live in the moment this is called living, this does not mean you act upon them when you love someone you can embrace that love and let it well-up in youre whole being, being imbued with such natural emotions is what makes us who we are, denying them is not abiding by the will of god, the purest one is one who shines like a radiant pearl whilst situated in the midst of filth, if you cannot do that, then you must live enslaved.
