...And while that old lonely lady marries a person, not neccessary married before, just to have occasional sex thats all whenever he feels convenient or needs a change, what in the mean time when he is not arround ...
ohh yes your scholars have told you women need sex just once a week or twice..uhm whatevers the fatwa is, sheikh's people know better! oh then what happens if he comes once in two months..uhmm she might have gotten sick and died in mean time...so no problem...also she can bear his child and take care of "it" to keep her busy because probably thats all she's allowed to do!!
and ohh yes talking about intentions!! what exactly is the mans intention in all this?
You have made a mockery of your religion thats all! a joke out of the sacred institute of marraige and it's purposes! just a contract for satisfying the lust.
What are you trying to justify?

and call yourself muslims when have gone bellow the level of even common humane values, only blindly following the religion of your forefathers and sheikhs not Islam! Brainwashed not to even think whats right let alone question because all responsibilty of that you have put on the shoulders of your imams!
go ahead keep on living in the world of utopia .. and the worse is still to come on this so called muslim world.
Wake up before it's too late.

may Allah guide us all in the right direction.

Amen