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Originally Posted by Umm_Shaheed  Lol don't worry. No, I didn't know what the islamic ruling was. I didn't know that much about Islam at that time, so I made du'a. And afterwards I found out that i made the right decision. In case you're all wondering... i stopped hanging around with him!  |
I think I had a senior moment then ...
Firstly I thought you were somebody else,
secondly I thought you were saying God told you it was okay to meet with this guy.
Got confused there ...
I still thing people are talking about two different things here.
Meeting secretly with a man, with the potential risk of the meeting developing into a physical relationship may be one thing - having contact with men in a professional or polite social context is another! Isn't it ????
What if as a woman I go into a shop, and the only person around is the man behind the counter? Am I supposed to leave the shop again? Or not be out shopping alone in the first place?? To what extreme are you supposed to take this?
peace.
