i have close friend of mine who is in a delima she is more like a sister to me.She is married with 2 kids 5yrs and2yrs. they have problems husband seperated from her for the past 5 months living in seperate countries. he wants a divorce she doesnt know where to turn because of the kids and she wants to make it work at the end of the day.he says hes feelings are dead for her . recently she hacked in the computer and found that he his emailing a white women ,when confronted he says they are just friends and they knew each other before he got married to this friend of mine.the letter was quite condemning but he swears by allah and he is a hafaz that they just friends. how do i advice her its such a complex situation.