the sunnah regarding waleema...i try anyway inshalah...

A day or so after the newly-weds meet for the first time, to invite one's friends, relatives, family and the poor for the walimah is sunnah. It is not necessary to prepare a great amount of food. A little food prep according to ones means to feed a few realtives or friends will suffice in fulifilling the sunnah.

The worst feeding is tha walimah where only the rich are invited and the poor are left out. (bukhari)

When hosting a walimah make the intention of fulfilling the full sunnah, by inviting the poor, destitute and the pious. One may invite te rich also, while ensuring that the poor are not left out.

There is no reward for that walimah which is hosted for show or to ompress people. Instead, it is feared that such a walimah will invite the wrath and displeasure of Allah(swt)....

okay next question..mayb answered..am not sure...

sunnah when a child is born and raised?