wa alaikum salam and thanks for the response but now see my problem is have a wali sorta, my father but my mother already stated she will not agree to any brother my father gives as a prospect becuz my father is of a different sect.................i know what you are going to say but there is only one ummah how can there be more then one sect, i already tried explaining that to my mother


second my brother in law is also looking for husbands for me but how i can't i meet these brothers if i have no wali