salams bro Ansar
jazak allah khayr for that.. i super agree that our beliefs shouldn't cling to these sorts of incidents, whether or not they may be true.
But one question, i think i read somewhere taht the personw ho washes the dead body should take extra care with the deceased because he feels pain (or the rooh feels pain) if poked and pinched... is that true?
Hence why one of the arguments i read that bodypart donations are haram is because the body feels pain after death, and so orthopsies n things like that will put the person through trouble.
jazak allah khayr!
salamz
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