You can sort of fake it. i have a ton of agnostic friends and atheist friends who go to church simply to satisfy their family. i even have an atheist muslim friend who goes to mosque to satisfy his family. now of course that sort of is wrong lol, but no one will ever know they left islam. and i have an agnostic friend who used to be messianic jewish, and she still doesn't eat pork. so yeah.. i think it is much easier to be an ex muslim then we think lol. --- ex muslim who has the site --- , has family that are mullah's [whatever that is] and they visit all the time.. yet they still don't know that he is an ex muslim! lol