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Default Re: He understands his wife and respects her feelings - 08-15-2005

Most of those who have replied are sisters obviously and that also says something sadly brothers are not paying attention to this stuff and they use the degree giving to them in the quran as a throne or as a big chief thats whats wrong with brothers these days they don't know how to treat thier fellow sisters and there own wives and greed has took over thier lives in money etc.. Most brothers these days also don't know how to control there own anger which leads them to frustrations , confusions and exhaustions as if they wanna be alone and they raise thier voice loudy or yell to be heard in a rage.

The prophet (SAWS) said: The strong man is not the one who wrestles well but the strong man is the one who controls himself when he is in a fit of rage. Sadly anger has also caused if not all most of the divorces among muslims. There are things that happen in this world sadly I sympathize with you sisters that brothers do doesn't coincide with Islam and gives it a twist and its understood backwards subhannallah. Don't you see the beauty of a mother as she carries her baby, nourishes him/her, cares and loves and protects whats the difference of the beauty in sisters, a sister can be so angelic and it is true that she can hold an evil, devilish quality as they say but the angelic outwheighs the evil. The mercy and compassion a mother has amazes me. Allah has given the women an angelic and a devilish quality but that says nothing about the preciousness of a righteous women as the prophet (saws) said" This world is precious but the most precious is a righteous women." Conduct yourselves Islamically brothers and be humble, hold the true meaning of Islam which is love, peace, compassion and mercy for the prophet Muhammad was only sent as a mercy to mankind. May Allah guide all muslims to the true meaning.

The prophet also said that if you dislike a quality in your women it may be that you dislike one thing and Allah has bestowed many good qualities in her.

This hadith shows how the good outwheighs the evil and the angelic outweighs the devilish, a women is a equal human as anyone of us and if you transgess Allah you have transgressed your mother and disobeyed your women for heaven lies under the mothers feet so husbands beware of who you beat.
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