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Originally Posted by Michael  My fiancee has been having trouble with the fasting, and now she says that she doesn't want to be Muslim anymore, and that she doesn't believe in it and doesn't think it is the truth. This has made me extremely sad and hurt and it means that we probably can't get married. Please make du'a that she will return to the truth of Islam and that we can get married. |
Peace brother,
From what I understand Islam is new to you both. If this is so be gentle. The path is new and lots of things have to be learnt by you both. Start slowly with a good intend and a sincere heart and pray to God for His help.
Talk to her and tell her you understand, give her time to adjust and to see the beauty of Islam. Fasting is tough, but with the right attitute it can be done. I really enjoy breaking the fast at the end of the day with brothers & sisters feeling such a sense of acheivement and pleasure.
Be gentle and encourage her step by step, day by day.