you're right some of them are only thinking about worldly things...
But are you sure you are choosing the right muslimah. Seems to me you are approaching only the rich and beautiful muslimah

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Try to find someone who is more humble and has the best akhlaaq, InshaAllah....
In Malaysia, most malays don't want the children marry the western people because of their temper and swearing. The malays are not used to that..... Anyhow, there are still alot of malays getting married to the western...and i even found blogs about their live...MashAllah.
May all the muslims marriage are blessed in every way.
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