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Default Re: Marry a muslim? heck no!!!! - 03-02-2008

Salamun Alaykum bro

I had the same problem. However, it got solved.
Bro you need to travel if you want to marry a Muslim lady. I would suggest looking for a lady that is from Indonesia, a divorced lady, widowed, grew up a orphan.

Parents are a problem at times. They tend to only look for doctors and dentists for their daughters. Thats for sure. Even if you became the imam of masjid al aqsa the people you have been dealing with wouldnt accept you.

Forget them bro. You have been protected from anything superficial. I would advise marrying a Christian or a Jew as i know a brother that was married to one for years and she has only recently converted.

Watch out for the danger of hating the Prophets saws ummah though. That was a illness that crept into my heart. I still wanted to be Muslim but i ended up hating the Muslims, and i still do now to an extent. Its a problem i am trying to deal with. I do not say Salam to them anymore man, jut ignore them and go about my business. And i know thats wrong.

I even have Muslims that have trashed me on this forum man. But there arte many beautiful people here too. Look for the beauty in the ugliness and you will find it.

I wouldnt advice attempting to look for a Pakistani or Indian Muslimah, too many problems there with the culture that will hurt you. They are too stuck up and gems amongst them are very rare BUT DO EXSIST.

I would try Malaysia, Indoneisa, and Somali and even Bangledesh communities.
insha'Allah wish you well
may Allah help you where the Muslims couldnt give a brass monkey about you... trust me i have been there ... You do not need the Muslims .... the reason why we converted to Islam was to worship Allah. Do not worry about makluwq . One important thing though. Learn aqeedah, because you would be supprised how much this will help you in finding a wife. trust me
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