excuse me, but i think you should all RE READ what i wrote and then you will see that what you said is NOT what i was asking for.

I know why he is marrying me, and i him. The issue is HOW do i handle when other people try to accuse us of marrying eachother for papers or for this or for that. I was asking for advice on how to handle these situations as they arise so that my marriage is less stressful.

I guess i asked the wrong people, sorry.