It was an example to the sister not to get pushed when it comes to following Islamic teachings. Even those very close to you sometimes give weird comments about you praying or wearing the hijab or not going to mixed parties.

I laughed at what my grandmother said, 'cause I found it to be so sad she'd think like that. lol

"Oh sweetheart, ok ok, wear the hijab (scarf) at home (finland) but when you return to Kosvo (for vacation), don't wear it... It's not worn here, my darling, you're very beautiful and young!"

Because a girl has to show how pretty she is and make her grandma happy and make her friends jealous that she's got a pretty granddaughter. :okay:

Bless her old heart, she was really sad, I don't hold any grudges or anything, she's not the first to have said it to me. Elhamdulillah after a while, she did kinda understand my reasons.

I think.