Thank you for your advice, i appreciate it.
But he does not want me for my papers, and im sorry to say i am getting a little frustrated that people in this thread keep talking about me being careful of that. I am not a silly little girl who knows nothing, i know what i am doing. This individual has already been to the U.S. on a student visa. He is well educated and has a decent living in Kosova with his family. He doesnt need to come here, if he did, he could have easily years ago and stayed...but he doesnt want to.

So please, just give me advice on how to handle meddlesome relatives and friends thank you.