If ur relatives are a bit 'snobby'

, and have huge egos, for example a very older relative will always expect you to greet them first and will NEVER greet u first, but will simply continue to either stare at you or simply look elsewhere, how should you deal with this?, also if u visit them often and they never bother to, should you stop visiting them??
How does it work in your culture?, do the younger ones greet the elders as a unbendable rule? .What does Islam say ?

JazakAllah!

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