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Originally Posted by anonymous   all,
Our family has been experiencing a problem recently, one that really worries me. My younger sister, about 15 years old, has been troubled. Recently, something happened between her and my friend, something not as bad as Zina, but it could have led to it. She correctly pushed him away, and scolded him later, but as they talked, she sort of became flattered. So, while she was reprimanding him, for some reason she thought she wants to marry him. My father wants him to approach her through his parents, properly, but she wants a person to talk to right now. I am her 17 year old brother, and I have never felt such a need for a person of the opposite gender. And now, because of her, my parents are seperating. What can I do? |
First of all its very noble of you to try to seek advice and help your sister, It shows you care and may Allah SWT help you with the best advice to inshAllah contribute to a solution.
I guess what you sister needs is some motherly advice, She needs someone that she can trust to advise her and want the best for her. At 15 Years of age her total mental development is still building and although she may be quite intelligent her full judgements in certain affairs are still lacking.
Maybe my best advice is to ask a local trusted learned man.
May Allah SWT resolve the issue for you and your family in the best possible manner and keep you all strong together.