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    Default Importance of Hijab

    Asalaamu alaykum,

    Unfortunately, even though I grew up in a Muslim country, not everyone grew up wearing their hijab and I was one of them. However, lately more and more people back home are wearing their hijabs and I have been thinking of wearing one myself.

    I fear that I am thinking of wearing hijab for the wrong reason though. Everytime I imagine myself wearing the hijab, I keep thinking of my parents expressions (and how happy they will be insha Allah) or about how my friends and other pious sisters who are already wearing their hijabs will be happy as well. I keep thinking of the compliments and praise I will receive by wearing my hijab. And I feel like because of all this, I am thinking of wearing my hijab for the wrong reason.

    I know there is nothing wrong with wanting to wear one after seeing your sisters wearing them. I mean, it is common knowledge, that if you surround yourself with pious sisters, you will be more pious and want to be more pious yourself. And there's absolutely nothing wrong at all with making your parents happy too. But I want to feel as if I am doing so because I want to please my God, Allah (swt). I also want to feel as if I am doing so because I fear the consequences I might face if I die before I do wear a hijab.

    I know shaythan might be trying to trick me into thinking that these are the reasons why I should delay wearing a hijab 'until I am ready'. I bought a couple of scarves and have been practicing and today went and bought a pair of trousers too. I have been looking at clothing as well and even though I haven't stuck to all black clothes (insha Allah one day), I am trying to make sure my clothing would be modest. I see too many sisters who wear hijabs but then wear really tight clothes and I am trying to stick to loose clothing that doesn't cling to my body so even though it is not black, it is at least loose fitting and long too, long enough to cover my modesty.

    I am not trying to ask you to convince me to wear the hijab or that it is required in Islam (because I have read the Hadiths, although I also read blogs and peoples' opinions where they stated that it is not required ) but can you please provide me with some information on things like perhaps the consequences of not wearing your hijab? Like things which would make me fear not wearing my hijab and which could help me when I try to convince other sisters to wear theirs as well.

    I am getting worried that I am doing this to get praise from people because I keep thinking of how surprised people home would be when I go in wearing a hijab and how they will be happy to see me do so.... but I want my priority to be that I am wearing one to please Allah (swt).

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    Default Re: Importance of Hijab

    Asalaamu Alaikum, it is clear sister that shaythan is trying everything to try and deter you from wearing the hijaab but as Muslims we must also constantly check our intentions before doing any action. Therefore whatever good action you do always check that you are doing it ONLY for Allah and not for anyone else.

    Here is some materials on hijaab and jilbaab:

    Top Ten Excuses of Muslim Women regarding Hijab and Its Responses

    1. I'm not yet convinced of the necessity of the Hijab..

    We then ask this sister two questions.

    One: Is she truly convinced of the correctness of the religion of Islam? The natural answer is: Yes she is convinced for she responds "Laa ilaaha illallah!" (There is no god but Allah), meaning she is convinced of the aqeedah, and then she says: "Muhammadun rasoolullah!" (Muhammad is the Messenger of Allah), meaning by that that she is convinced of its legislation or law (sharee'ah). Therefore, she is convinced of Islam as a belief system and a law by which one governs and rules their life.

    Two: Is the hijaab then a part of Islamic Law (sharee'ah) and an obligation?

    If this sister is honest and sincere in her intention and has looked into the issue as one who truly wants to know the truth her answer could only be: Yes. For Allah ta'aala, Whose deity (Uloohiyyah) she believes in has commanded wearing hijaab in His Book (Al-Qur'aan) and the nobleŭprophet ('alaihi salaat wa salaam)whose message she believes in has commanded wearing the hijaab in his sunnah.

    What do we call a person who says they believe in and are content with the correctness of Islam but who nonetheless does not do what Allah or His Messenger have ordered? Certainly they can in no way be described as those whom Allah speaks of in this aayah: The only saying of the faithful believers when they are called to Allah and His Messenger to judge between them is that they say 'we hear and obey' and such are the successful. [Soorah An-Noor 24:51]

    In summary: If this sister is convinced of Islam, how then can she not be convinced of its orders?

    2. I am convinced of the Islamic dress but my mother prevents me from wearing it and if I disobey her I will go to Hell..

    The one who has answered this excuse is the most noble of Allah's creation, the Messenger of Allah (sallallahu 'alaihi wa sallam) in concise and comprehensive words of wisdom: There is no obedience to the created in the disobedience of Allah.[Ahmed]

    The status of parents in Islam, especially the mother, is a high and elevated one. Indeed Allah ta'aala has combined it with the greatest of matters, worshipping Him and His tawheed, in many aayaat. He stated: Worship Allah and join none with Him and do good to parents.[Soorah An-Nisaa 4:36] Obedience to parents is not limited except in one aspect, and that is if they order to disobedience of Allah. Allah said: But if they strive with you to make you join in worship with Me others that of which you have no knowledge, then obey them not.[Soorah Luqmaan 31:15] The lack of obedience to them in sinfulness does not prevent being good to them and kind treatment of them. Allah said afterward in the same aayah: But behave with them in the world kindly.

    In summary: How can you obey your mother and disobey Allah Who created you and your mother?

    3. My position does not allow me to substitute my dress for the Islamic dress..

    This sister is either one or the other of two types: She is sincere and honest, or she is a slippery liar who desires to make a showy display of her "hijaab" clamoring with colors to be "in line with the times" and expensive.

    We will begin with an answer to the honest and sincere sister. Are you unaware my dear sister, that it is not permissible for the Muslim woman to leave her home in any instance unless her clothing meets the conditions of Islamic hijaab (Hijaab shar'ee) and it is a duty of every Muslim woman to know what they are? If you have taken the time and effort to learn so many matters of this world how then can you be neglectful of learning those matters which will save you from the punishment of Allah and His anger after death!!? Does Allah not say: Ask the people of remembrance (i.e. knowledgeable scholars) if you do not know. [Soorah An-Nahl 16:43]. Learn therefore, the requirements of proper hijaab.

    If you must go out, then do not do so without the correct hijaab, seeking the pleasure of Allah and the degradation of Shaitaan. That is because the corruption brought about by your going out adorned and "beautified" is far greater than the matter which you deem necessary to go out for.

    My dear sister if you are really truthful in your intention and correctly determined you will find a thousands hands of good assisting you and Allah will make the matter easy for you! Is He not the One Who says:And whoever fears Allah and keeps his duty to Him, He will make a way for him to get out (from every difficulty) and He will provide him from sources he never could imagine[Soorah At-Talaaq 65:2-3]?

    With regards to the 'slippery' one we say: Honor and position is something determined by Allah ta'aala and it is not due to embellishment of clothing and show of colors and keeping up with the trendsetters. It is rather due to obedience to Allah and His Messenger (sallallahu 'alaihi wa sallam) and holding to the pure law of Allah and correct Islamic hijaab. Listen to the words of Allah: Indeed, the most honorable amongst you are those who are the most pious. [Soorah Al-Hujuraat 49:35]

    In summary: Do things in the way of seeking Allah's pleasure and entering His Jannah and give less value to the high priced and costly objects and wealth of this world.

    4. It is so hot in my country and I can't stand it. How will it be if I wore Hijab..

    Allah gives an example by saying: Say: The Fire of Hell is more intense in heat if they only understand. [Soorah At-Taubah 9:81]

    How can you compare the heat of your land to the heat of the Hellfire?

    Know, my sister, that Shaitaan has trapped you in one of his feeble ropes to drag you from the heat of this world to the heat of the Hellfire. Free yourself from his net and view the heat of the sun as a favor and not an affliction especially in that it reminds you of the intensity of the punishment of Allah which is many times greater than the heat you now feel. Return to the order of Allah and sacrifice this worldly comfort in the way of following the path of salvation from the Hellfire about which Allah says: They will neither feel coolness nor have any drink except that of boiling water and the discharge of dirty wounds.[Soorah An-Naba' 78:24-25]

    In summary: The Jannah is surrounded by hardships and toil, while Hellfire is surrounded by temptations, lusts and desires.

    5. I'm afraid that if I wear the Hijab,I will put it off at a later time because I have seen so many others do so..

    To her I say: If everyone was to apply your logic then they would have left the Deen in its entirety! They would have left off salaat because some would be afraid of leaving it later. They would have left fasting in Ramadhan because so many are afraid of not doing it later. etc. Haven't you seen how Shaitaan has trapped you in his snare again and blocked you from guidance?

    Allah ta'aala loves continuous obedience even if it be small or recommended. How about something that is an absolute obligation like wearing hijaab?! The prophet (sallallahu 'alaihi wa sallam) said: The most beloved deed with Allah is the consistent one though it be little. Why haven't you sought out the causes leading those people to leave off the hijaab so that you can avoid them and work to keep away from them? Why haven't you sought out reasons and causes to affirm truth and guidance until you can hold firm to them?

    Among these causes is much supplication to Allah (du'aa) to make the heart firm upon the Deen as did the prophet (sallallahu 'alaihi wa sallam). Also is making salaat and having mindfulness of it as Allah stated:And seek helpin patience and the prayer and truly it is extremely heavy except for the true believers in Allah who obey Allah with full submission and believe in His promise of Jannah and in His warnings (Al-Khaashi'oon).[Soorah Al-Baqarah 2:45] Other causes to put one upon guidance and truth is adherence to the laws of Islam and one of them is indeed wearing the hijaab. Allah said: If they had done what they were told, it would have been better for them and would have strengthened their faith. [Soorah Al-Baqarah 2:66]

    In summary: If you hold tight to the causes of guidance and taste the sweetness of faith you will not neglect the orders of Allah after having held to them.

    6. If I wear the Hijab, then no one will marry me. So,I'm going to put it off till then..

    Any husband, who desires that you be uncovered and adorned in public in defiance of and in disobedience to Allah, is not a worthy husband in the first place. He is a husband who has no feeling to protect what Allah has made inviolable, most notably yourself, and he will not help you in any way to enter Al-Jannah or escape from the Hellfire. A home which is founded upon disobedience to Allah and provocation of His anger is fitting that He decree misery and hardship for it in this life and in the Hereafter. As Allah stated: But whosoever turns away from My reminder (i.e. neither believes in the Qur'aan nor acts upon its teachings) verily for him is a life of hardship and We shall raise him up blind on the Day of Resurrection. [Soorah Ta Ha 20:124]

    Marriage is a favor and blessing from Allah to whom He give whom He wills. How many women who wear hijaab (mutahajibah) are in fact married while many who don't aren't? If you were to say that '..my being made-up and uncovered is a means to reach a pure end, namely marriage', a pure goal or end is not attained through impure and corrupt means in Islam. If the goal is honorable then it must necessarily be achieved by pure and clean method. We say the rule in Islam is: The means are according to the rules of the intended goals.

    In summary: There is no blessing in a marriage established upon sinfulness and corruption.

    7. I don't wear hijaab based on what Allah says: And proclaim the grace of your Rabb [Soorah Ad-Dhuhaa 93:11] How can I cover what Allah has blessed me with of silky soft hair and captivating beauty?

    So this sister of ours adheres to the Book of Allah and its commands as long as they coincide with her personal desires and understanding! She leaves behind those matters when they don't please her. If this was not the case, then why doesn't she follow the aayah:And do not show off their adornment except only that which is apparent[Soorah An-Noor 24:31] and the statement of Allah subhaanah:Tell your wives and your daughters and the women of the believers to draw their cloaks all over their bodies [Soorah Al-Ahzaab 33:59]?

    With this statement my sister you have now made a shari'ah (law) for yourself of what Allah ta'aala has strictly forbidden, namely beautification (at-tabarruj) and uncovering (as-sufoor), and the reason: Your lack of wanting to adhere to the order. The greatest blessing or favor that Allah has bestowed upon us is that of Eemaan (faith) and hidaayah (guidance) and among them is the Islamic hijaab. Why then do you not manifest and talk about this greatest of blessings given to you?

    In summary: Is there a greater blessing and favor upon the woman than guidance and hijaab?

    8. I know that hijaab is obligatory (waajib), but I will wear it when Allah guides me to do so..

    We ask this sister on what plans or steps she will undertake until she accepts this divine guidance? We know that Allah has in His wisdom made a cause or means for everything. That is why the sick take medicine to regain health, and the traveler rides a vehicle or an animal to reach his destination, and other limitless examples.

    Has this sister of ours seriously endeavored to seek true guidance and exerted the proper means to get it such as: Supplicating Allah sincerely as He stated: Guide us to the Straight Path. [Soorah Al-Faatihah 1:6]; Keeping company with the righteous good sisters - for they are among the best to assist her to guidance and to continue to point her to it until Allah guides her and increases her guidance and inspires her to further guidance and taqwaa. She would then adhere to the orders of Allah and wear the hijaab that the believing women are commanded to wear.

    In summary: If this sister was really serious about seeking guidance she would have exerted herself by the proper means to get it.

    9. It's not time for that yet. I'm still too young for wearing hijaab.

    I'll do it when I get older and after I make Hajj!

    The Angel of Death my sister, is visiting and waiting at your door for the order of Allah ta'aala to open it on you at any moment in your life. Allah said: When their term comes, neither can they delay it nor can they advance it and hour (or a moment). [Soorah Al-An'aam 7:34]. Death my sister doesn't discriminate between the young or the old and it may come while you are in this state of great sinfulness disobedience, fighting against the Lord of Honor with your uncovering and shameless adornment. My sister, you should race to obedience along with those others who race to answer the call of Allah tabaaraka wa ta'aala:Race with one another in hastening towards forgiveness from your Lord and Paradise the width whereof is as the width of the heavens and the earth. [Soorah Al-Hadeed 57:21]

    Sister, don't forget Allah or He will forget you by turning His mercy away from you in this life and the next. You are forgetting your own soul by not fulfilling the right of your soul to obey Allah and proper worship of Him. Allah stated about the hypocrites (Al-Munaafiqoon): And be not like those who forgot Allah and He caused them to forget their own selves.[Soorah Al-Hashr 59:19] My sister wear the hijaab in your young age in opposition to the sinful deed because Allah is intense in punishment and will ask you on the Day of Resurrection about your youth and every moment of your life.

    In summary: Stop presuming some future expectation in your life will indeed occur!! How can you guarantee your own life until tomorrow?

    10. I'm afraid that if I wear Islamic clothing that I'll be labeled as belonging to some group or another and I hate partisanship..


    My sisters in Islam, there are only two parties in Islam, and they are both mentioned by Allah Almighty in His Noble Book. The first party is the party of Allah (hizbullah) that He gives victory to because of their obedience to His commands and staying away from what He has forbidden. The second party is the party of the accursed Shaitaan (hizbush-Shaitaan) which disobeys the Most Merciful and increase corruption in the earth. When you hold tight to and adhere to the commands of Allah, and among them is wearing the hijaab - you then become a part of the successful party of Allah. When you beautify and display your charms you are riding in the boat of Shaitaan and his friends and partners from among the hypocrites and the disbelievers and none worse could there be as friends.

    Don't you see how you are running from Allah and to the Shaitaan, trading filth for good? Run instead my sister to Allah and follow His way: So flee to Allah (from His Torment to His mercy). Verily I (Muhammad) am a plain Warner to you from Him.[Soorah Adh-Dhaariyaat 51:50] The hijaab is a high form of worship that is not subject to the opinions of people and their orientations and choices because the one who legislated it is the Most Wise Creator.

    In summary: In the way of seeking the pleasure of Allah and in hope of His Mercy and success in His Jannah and throw the statements of the devils among people and jinn against the wall! Hold tight to the legislation of Allah by your molars and follow the example of the striving and knowledgeable Mothers of the Believers and the female companions (radiallahu 'anhum ajma'een).

    Conclusion


    Your body is on display in the market of Shaitaan seducing the hearts of men. The hairstyles, the tight clothing showing every detail of your figure, the short dresses showing off your legs and feet, the showy, decorative and fragrant clothing all angers the Merciful and pleases the Shaitaan. Every day that passes while you are in this condition, distances you further from Allah and brings you closer to Shaitaan. Each day curses and anger are directed toward you from the heavens until you repent. Every day brings you closer to the grave and the Angel of Death is ready to capture your soul.

    Everyone shall taste death. And only on the Day of Resurrection shall you be paid your wages in full. And whoever is removed away from the Hellfire and admitted to Al-Jannah, is indeed successful. The life of this world is only the enjoyment of deception (a deceiving thing).[Soorah Aale 'Imraan 3:185]

    Get on the train of repentance my sister, before it passes by your station. Deeply consider my sister, what is happening today before tomorrow comes. Think about it, my sister - Now, before it is too late!

    Author: Unknown

    Courtesy: www.everymuslim.com


    Tips how to begin wearing the Hijaab

    By A Revert Muslim Sister who dorns Hijab

    One of the most difficult decisions many Muslim sisters face is the decision to start wearing hijab. This is certainly true for reverts, but may also be true for sisters whose families or even whose cultures are not particularly observant. As a revert myself, I have been through the whole thing. I would like to offer some advice that I hope inshallah will be helpful to sisters who are considering wearing hijab but find that something is holding them back.

    The first step is to learn about hijab. There is so much information out there. Many Muslim sisters who will assist you in this regard.

    Deciding to wear Hijab

    This is where the difficulties usually come in. For many sisters, it truly is a jihad. I remember very vividly how scared I was the first day I put on the headscarf and went out into public. As long as you are just wearing the modest clothes, nobody has to know that you are a Muslim. Once you complete your hijab with the headscarf, you are suddenly announcing to everyone who sees you that "I am a Muslim". Here is some advice based on my own experiences.
    Wear it for the sake of Allah SWT

    Various statements are made about why you should wear hijab, such as for modesty or for protection, but the real reason that we wear hijab is that Allah SWT has commanded it. Whenever anyone asks you, why do you dress like that, that's the only answer you need to give them.

    Allah SWT is the source of everything we have, our existence, our life, our capability, even our goodness. If He ever stopped sustaining us, we would vanish in that instant. If He ever took away what he gives us, we would never have even a speck of it. If we worked for millions of years, we could never repay Him for all that He has given us. And yet He does give it to us, and all He asks in return is that we do our best to obey what He has commanded us. Surely wearing hijab is a very small thing that you can do for Him compared to what He does for you!


    Wear it for the hope of Jannah

    Allah SWT makes tests for us in this world. He makes things difficult for us. He wants to see if we will remember Him, if we will have faith in Him, and if we will trust in Him. These qualities are what is meant by "sabr".

    Allah SWT does not lose the work of anyone, ever (see Surah Ali Imran ayah 195). Even if it seems like nobody is paying attention to you or notices or appreciates good things that you do, Allah SWT has seen them, and He will not forget them. Even when it seems like the whole world is against you, Allah SWT is always there for you when you turn to Him. Remember this.

    Allah SWT always wants the best for us and in His wisdom He knows why each thing that happens to us is in fact best for us. When it seems like everything is going wrong and life is just one disaster after another, it is easy to forget this and to become bitter and skeptical. Yet we must remember always to have faith that Allah SWT knows best why He has willed this for us, and we must always ask Him only "Make me pleased with what You have willed for me".

    This world we live in, although it seems at times to be the only real thing, is actually fleeting compared to the Hereafter, which is better and more abiding. The trials of this world will seem as fleeting as a nightmare when seen from the Hereafter, and the pleasures of this world will also seem as fleeting as a dream when seen from the Hereafter. It's our happiness in the Hereafter that we should be most worried about attaining, because it is what will last forever; and it's our suffering in the Hereafter that we should be most worried about avoiding, because it also will last forever.

    Allah SWT has promised Jannah to those who remain steadfast in their faith in Him and who trust in Him. The more difficult it is for you to have sabr, the greater the reward for it. So what will it be? Ease in this world, and perhaps the eternal sufferings in Hell? Or difficulty in this world, and inshallah the eternal bliss of Jannah? Let's face it, the old cliches are true: there's no such thing as a free lunch and you can almost never have your cake and eat it too. We've all got to face difficulties some time. Better by far that they be in the world than in the Hereafter.

    So that's what you should set your mind to. Yes, it's difficult to wear hijab. You may be rejected by your family or your friends, you may face harassment and persecution or be fired from your job. These are very scary thoughts. But if you have sabr and keep trusting in Allah SWT, I swear to you sister, this is the path to Jannah, and when you look back on the Day of Qiyamah you will know that it was worth it and have no regrets.


    Wear it today and trust in Allah SWT for tomorrow

    What do I mean by that? What I mean is that you should take it one day at a time, or even one outing at a time. Sometimes the future seems to stretch on forever and ever and you don't think you can make it that long. You want to give up before you even begin.

    So sometimes the best thing to do is to keep you mind focused on what is immediately at hand. Allah SWT will take care of the future. If you have to go out to the market, then concentrate on being able to wear hijab just for this activity and on getting through it. If you do get through it and nothing bad happened, then give thanks to Allah SWT for making it easy for you, and turn your mind to your next outing.

    Or if you have to go out to school or work, then concentrate on being able to wear hijab just for this one day and on getting through it. And give thanks to Allah SWT when you have made it, and turn your mind to the next day.

    Eventually the outings will turn into days and the days into weeks, and the weeks into months. One day you will realize that you have been wearing hijab for quite a long time and it isn't really as bad as you feared, and Allah SWT helped you get through it. Don't be ashamed. Sometimes it is like this. The most important thing is to have sabr and keep your trust in Allah SWT always.


    Wear it and spite the shaytan

    My dear sister, the worries and fears in your mind are the whisperings of the shaytan. He wants to talk you out of obeying Allah SWT.

    It is very easy to keep going around in circles in your mind and to dwell on all the things that could go wrong. I know that I myself have a tendency to do this, I put it off and I dither and I wait for "the perfect time". If I let myself, I would never do anything at all!

    So the thing you have to remember is that you do not need to be perfect in iman to wear hijab. If perfection were a qualification, where is the sister who could wear it??

    You must also not fall into the trap of thinking that you should wait until all your worries and fears have disappeared. They never will! Trust me on this, sister.

    True courage is going ahead to do what's right even though you are still nervous and scared. So don't listen to the shaytan. Ignore the worries and fears he whispers into your mind. Tell him that you will not let him keep you from obeying Allah SWT and you will not let him rule your life.

    Make the decision to wear it

    Once you have come to know in your heart that you must wear hijab, then you have to set a day and

    JUST DO IT !!

    This is the only way. Set a day and when that day comes, you have to do it. Don't back down. Don't give up. Do it.

    Offer salat al-istikhara. Make du'a. Make lots of du'a. Do not stop making du'a. Ask Allah SWT to give you strength. Ask Him to make it easy for you. Ask Him to help you. He will, I swear it to you. He is always there for you when you turn to Him. Remember how much He has given you, how everything that you have, even your very existence, is due to Him. Remember that He deserves this from you. Remember the promise of Jannah. Remember that remaining patient and faithful through difficulty now may lead to Jannah, inshallah. Even if bad things happen, keep these thoughts in your mind. Don't worry about tomorrow. Just concentrate on getting through today, and leave tomorrow to Allah SWT until it gets here.

    That's how you do it.

    Final Words of Encouragement

    I have been wearing hijab since September 1999. I do not regret it. I have never for one instant regretted it. I do not regret it even one iota. Inshallah, you will discover that you feel the same. Even within a few months I came to feel that I would not be properly dressed if I went out not wearing hijab. This is when you know that you have made it!

    Never feel that you are alone, or that you are the only one who is scared and worried and nervous. Just about every other sister who has travelled down this road has gone through the same things. I know I have. Your sisters are here for you. We have been where you are. We are encouraging you and cheering you on. We know what it takes because we had to find that in ourselves too. We are praying for your success just as we prayed for our own.
    Come and join us.

    Allah does not burden a soul except what it can bear. For it is what it has earned, and upon it is what it has made due. "Our Lord and Sustainer, do not condemn us if we forget or do wrong. Our Lord and Sustainer, do not put a burden on us like the burden You put on those who were before us. Our Lord and Sustainer, do not put a burden on us that we cannot endure. And blot out (our sins) and forgive us, and be gentle to us. You are our Protector. So help us against the rejectors." (Surah al-Baqarat ayah 286)

    Source Reference: Al-Muhajabah

    Courtesy: www.everymuslim.com



    The Virtues of Hijaab


    1. An act of obedience.

    The hijab is an act of obedience to Allah and to his prophet (pbuh), Allah says in the Qur'an: `It is not for a believer, man or woman, when Allah and His messenger have decreed a matter that they should have an option in their decision. And whoever disobeys Allah and His Messenger, has indeed strayed in a plain error.' (S33:36).

    Allah also said: 'And tell the believing women to lower their gaze (from looking at forbidden things) and protect their private parts (from illegal sexual acts, etc) and not to show off their adornment except what must (ordinarily) appear thereof, that they should draw their veils over their Juyubihinna.'(S24:31).

    2.The Hijab is IFFAH (Modesty).

    Allah (subhana wa'atala) made the adherence to the hijab a manifestation for chastity and modesty. Allah says: 'O Prophet! Tell your wives and your daughters and the women of the believers to draw their cloaks (veils) over their bodies (when outdoors). That is most convenient that they should be known and not molested.' (S33:59). In the above Ayaah there is an evidence that the recognition of the apparent beauty of the woman is harmful to her. When the cause of attraction ends, the restriction is removed. This is illustrated in the case of elderly women who may have lost every aspect of attraction. Allah (swt) made it permissible for them to lay aside their outer garments and expose their faces and hands reminding, however, that is still better for them to keep their modesty.

    3.The hijab is Tahara (Purity)


    Allah (swt) had shown us the hikma (wisdom) behind the legislation of the hijab: `And when you ask them (the Prophet's wives) for anything you want, ask them from behind a screen, that is purer for your hearts and their hearts.' (S33:53).

    The hijab makes for greater purity for the hearts of believing men and women because it screens against the desire of the heart. Without the hijab, the heart may or may not desire. That is why the heart is more pure when the sight is blocked (by hijab) and thus the prevention of fitna (evil actions is very much manifested. The hijab cuts off the ill thoughts and the greed of the sick hearts:

    `Be not soft in speech, lest he in whose heart is a disease (of hypocrisy or evil desire for adultery, etc) should be moved with desire, but speak in an honourable manner.' (S33:32)

    4.The hijab is a Shield


    The prophet (pbuh) said: "Allah, Most High, is Heaven, is Ha'yeii (Bashful), Sit'teer (Shielder). He loves Haya' (Bashfulness) and Sitr (Shielding; Covering)." The Prophet (pbuh) also said: "Any woman who takes off her clothes in other than her husband's house (to show off for unlawful purposes), has broken Allah's shield upon her. "The hadith demonstrates that depending upon the kind of action committed there will be either reward (if good) or punishment (if bad).

    5. The hijab is Taqwah (Righteousness)


    Allah (swt) says in the Qur'an: `O children of Adam! We have bestowed raiment upon you to cover yourselves (screen your private parts, etc) and as an adornment. But the raiment of righteousness, that is better.'(S7:26). The widespread forms of dresses in the world today are mostly for show off and hardly taken as a cover and shield of the woman's body. To the believing women, however the purpose is to safeguard their bodies and cover their private parts as a manifestation of the order of Allah. It is an act of Taqwah (righteousness).

    6.The hijab is Eemaan (Belief or Faith)


    Allah (swt) did not address His words about the hijab except to the believing women, Al-Mo'minat. In many cases in the Qur'an Allah refers to the "the believing women". Aisha (RA), the wife of the prophet (pbuh), addressed some women from the tribe of Banu Tameem who came to visit her and had light clothes on them, they were improperly dressed: "If indeed you are believing women, then truly this is not the dress of the believing women, and if you are not believing women, then enjoy it."

    7. The hijab is Haya' (Bashfulness)


    There are two authentic hadith which state: "Each religion has a morality and the morality of Islam is haya'" AND "Bashfulness is from belief, and belief is in Al-Jannah (paradise)". The hijab fits the natural bashfulness which is a part of the nature of women.

    8.The hijab is Gheerah


    The hijab fits the natural feeling of Gheerah, which is intrinsic in the straight man who does not like people to look at his wife or daughters. Gheerah is a driving emotion that drives the straight man to safeguard women who are related to him from strangers. The straight MUSLIM man has Gheerah for ALL MUSLIM women In response to lust and desire, men look (with desire) at other women while they do not mind that other men do the same to their wives or daughters. The mixing of sexes and absence of hijab destroys the Gheera in men. Islam considers Gheerah an integral part of faith. The dignity of the wife or daughter or any other Muslim woman must be highly respected and defended.

    Source Reference: islamworld- University of Essex Islamic Society

    Courtesy:
    www.everymuslim.com



    Hijabed Like Me
    by Kathy Chin- A Chinese American

    I walked down the street in my long white dress and inch-long, black hair one afternoon, and truck drivers whistled and shouted obscenities at me. I felt defeated. I had just stepped out of a hair salon. I had cut my hair short, telling the hairdresser to trim it as she would a cut a man's hair.I sat numbly as my hairdresser skillfully sheared into my shoulder-length hair with her scissors, asking me with every inch she cut off if; I was freaking out yet. I wasn't freaking out, but I felt self-mutilated.


    I WAS OBLITERATING MY FEMININITY

    It wasn't just another haircut. It meant so much more. I was trying to appear androgynous by cutting my hair. I wanted to obliterate by femininity. Yet that did not prevent some men from treating me as a sex object. I was mistaken. It was not my femininity that was problematic, but my sexuality, or rather the sexuality that some men had ascribed to me based on my biological sex. They reacted to me as they saw me and not as I truly am.

    Why should it even matter how they see me, as long as I know who I am? But it does.

    I believe that men who see women as only sexual beings often commit violence against them, such as rape and battery. Sexual abuse and assault are not only my fears, but my reality.

    I was molested and raped. My experiences with men who violated me have made me angry and frustrated.

    How do I stop the violence? How do I prevent men from seeing me as an object rather than a female? How do I stop them from equating the two? How do I proceed with life after experiencing what others only dread? The experiences have left me with questions about my identity. Am I just another Chinese-American female? I used to think that I have to arrive at a conclusion about who I am, but now I realize that my identity is constantly evolving.


    MY EXPERIENCE OF BEING “HIJABED”

    One experience that was particularly educational was when I “dressed up” as a Muslim woman for a drive along Crenshaw Boulevard with three Muslim men as part of a newsmagazine project. I wore a white, long-sleeved cotton shirt, and a flowery silk scarf that covered my head, which I borrowed from a Muslim woman. Not only did I look the part, I believed I felt the part. Of course, I wouldn't really know what it feels like to be Hijabed-I coined this word for the lack of a better term-everyday, because I was not raised with Islamic teachings.

    However, people perceived me as a Muslim woman and did not treat me as a sexual being by making cruel remarks. I noticed that men's eyes did not glide over my body as has happened when I wasn't Hijabed. I was fully clothed, exposing only my face. I remembered walking into an Islamic center and an African-American gentleman inside addressed me as “sister”, and asked where I came from. I told him I was originally from China. That didn't seem to matter. He respected me and assumed I was Muslim. I didn't know how to break the news to him because I wasn't sure if I was or not.

    I walked into the store that sold African jewelry and furniture and another gentleman asked me as I was walking out if I was Muslim. I looked at him and smiled, not knowing how to respond. I chose not to answer.


    BEING HIJABED CHANGED OTHERS' PERCEPTION OF ME

    Outside the store, I asked one of the Muslim men I was with, “Am I Muslim?” He explained that everything that breathes and submits is. I have concluded that I may be and just don't know it. I haven't labeled myself as such yet. I don't know enough about Islam to assert that I am Muslim.


    HIJAB AS OPPRESSION: A SUPERFICIAL AND MISGUIDED VIEW

    I consciously chose to be Hijabed because I was searching for respect from men. Initially, as both a Women's Studies major and a thinking female, I bought into the Western view that the wearing of a scarf is oppressive. After this experience and much reflection, I have arrived at the conclusion that such a view is superficial and misguided.

    THE MOST LIBERATING EXPERIENCE OF MY LIFE

    I covered up that day out of choice, and it was the most liberating experience of my life. I now see alternatives to being a woman. I discovered that the way I dress dictated others' reaction towards me. It saddens me that this is a reality. It is a reality that I have accepted, and chose to conquer rather than be conquered by it. It was my sexuality that I covered, not my femininity. The covering of the former allowed the liberation of the latter.

    by Kathy Chin

    This article was originally published in Al-Talib, the newsmagazine of the Muslim Students' Association of the University of California in Los Angeles (UCLA) in October 1994. At the time of its publication, Kathy Chin was a senior at UCLA majoring in Psychobiology and Women's Studies.

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    Poem on Hijaab

    It's so hard to get away from it all, because everywhere I go there I am........

    What do you see when you look at me?
    Do you see someone limited , or someone free?
    All some people can do is just look and stare,
    Simply because they can't see my hair.
    Others think that I am controlled and uneducated.

    They think that I am limited and not liberated,
    They are so thankful that they are not me,
    Because they would like to remain "free".
    Well free isn't exactly the word I would've used,
    Describing women who are cheated on and abused.

    They think that I do not have opinions or a voice ,
    They think that being hooded isn't my choice,
    They think that the hood makes me look caged,
    That my husband or dad are totally outraged,
    All they can do is look at me in fear,
    In my eye there is a tear.

    Not because I have been stared at or made fun of,
    But because people are ignoring the One up above.
    On the day of judgement , they will be the fools,
    Because they were too ashamed to play by their own rules.

    Maybe the guys won't think I am a cutie,
    But at least I am filled with more inner beauty.
    See I have declined from being a guy's toy,
    Because I won't let myself be controlled by a boy,
    Real men are able to appreciate my mind,
    They aren't busy looking at my behind..

    Hooded girls are the ones really helping the Muslim cause,
    The role that we play definitely deserves applause.
    I will be recognized because I am smart and bright,
    Some people are inspired by my sight.

    The smart ones are attracted by my tranquilty,
    In the back of their minds they wish they were me,
    We have the strength to do what we think is right,
    Even if it means putting up a life long fight,

    You see we are not controlled by a mini skirt and tight shirt,
    We are given only respect , and never treated like dirt,
    So you see, we are the ones that are free and liberated,
    We are not the ones that are sexually terrorized and violated.

    We are the ones that are free and pure,
    We're free of STD's that have no cure,
    So when people ask you how you feel about the hood,
    Just sum it up by saying "baby it's all good"

    Submitted by a Muslim sister who is proud to be wearing Hijaab.

    Article taken (with Thanks) from Al-Islaah Publications



    The Obligatory conditions for An Islamic Hijaab


    1. Covering ALL Of The Body

    It is an agreed position by many respected scholars that the face and hands of the woman must be covered. Some scholars say it is permissible to uncover the face and the hands of the woman as long as there is no fitna (infatuation) caused by this action. Two things must be taken into consideration

    a) if she is beautiful and beautifies her face and hands with external substances, or
    b) the society around her is corrupt where men do not lower their gaze, then it is prohibited for her to uncover her face and hands.

    On the authority of the wife of the prophet (pbuh), Umm Salama (RA) said:

    "When the verse was revealed that they should cast their outer garments over their bodies' was revealed, the women of Ansar came out as if they had crows over their heads by wearing outer garments.

    2.The hijab must not be a display

    The hijab itself must not be a display. Allah ordained it so as to cover the beauty of women and not for showing off. Allah (swt) says `And not show of their adornment except only that which is apparent.' (S24:31).

    AND `And stay in your houses and do not display yourselves like that of the times of ignorance.' (S33:33).

    It is in no way logical that the hijab itself be a source of display.

    3. The hijab must not be transparent

    The purpose of wearing hijab must be achieved. In order for the hijab to be a cover, it must not be made of transparent material making the woman covered only by name, while in reality she is naked. The prophet (pbuh) is quoted as saying: "In the latest part of my Ummah (nation of Muslims) there shall be women who would be naked in spite of being dressed, they have their hair high like the humps of the Bukht camel, curse them, for they are cursed. They will not enter Al-Jannah and would not even perceive its odour, although it's fragrance can be perceived from a distance of 500 years travelling by camel" This indicates that a woman could cause herself a grave and destructive sin if she puts on a garment that is thin and transparent and which clearly shapes her body's features.

    4.Hijab must be roomy, and not tight.

    The hijab is a safeguard against fitna. If it is tight, it will be descriptive of the woman's body and this violates and defeats the whole purpose of hijab.

    5.The hijab must not be perfumed

    On the authority of Ad'Diya Al-Maqdisi, the prophet (pbuh) said:

    "Any woman who perfumes herself and passes by some people that they smell her scent, then she is a Zaniyah (adulteress)."

    6. The hijab shouldn't resemble the dress of a man

    Imam Ahmed, an-Nissa'ee reported the prophet (pbuh) to have said: "Women who assume the manners of men are not from us and also those of men who assume the manners of women." Abu Huraira narrated that: "The Prophet (pbuh) CURSED the man who wears the dress of a woman and the woman who wears the dress of a man."

    7.The hijab must not resemble the garments of the kuffar

    Abu Dawoud and Ahmed have related the prophet (pbuh) said: "The one who take the similitude (manner) of a certain people, then he/she becomes one of them."

    Abdullah bin Ummar (RA) said: "The Prophet (pbuh) saw me wearing two garments dyed in saffron (orange), whereupon he said: these are the clothes (usually worn) by the kuffar, so do not wear them."

    8.The hijab should not be for fame

    Abu Dawoud and Ibn Majah have related the prophet to saying: "The one who wears a garment designed for a worldly fame, Allah will make them wear a garment of humility on the Day Of Resurrection then he will be set ablaze." The garment of fame is any garment a person wears to make themselves look famous. This applies whether the garment is highly precious and shows admiration to the life of this world or if it is chosen of a low quality to show lack of interest to this worldly life. The person may put on clothes with distinct colours so as to draw attention, act proudly and/or arrogantly.

    9.Concealed ways of display

    Examining the various conditions about the hijab one can clearly recognise that many of the young Muslim women are not fulfilling these conditions. Many just take "half-way" measures, which not only mocks the community in which she lives, but also mocks the commands of Allah (swt). They consider what they put on now wrongly as "hijab" So, O muslimoon, be mindful to Allah (swt) and His Messenger (pbuh), and do not deceived by those who "bless" this action of yours and conceal their true intentions. Do not be deceived, and there is no excuse to follow the evil.

    If you are sincere in achieving Al-Jannah, then be mindful of these things, insha'allah

    Source Reference: islamworld- University of Essex Islamic Society

    Courtesy: www.everymuslim.com


    Article taken (with Thanks) from Al-Islaah Publications


    The Status of Jilbaab (outer garment)

    In the name of Allah, Most Compassionate, Most Merciful,

    Allah Most High says:

    'O Prophet! Tell your wives and daughters and believing women that they should cast their outer garments over their persons. That is most convenient that they should be known (as such) and not molested. And Allah is Most Forgiving and Most Merciful'. (Surah al-Ahzab, 59).

    The above verse is clear in determining that it is obligatory (fard) upon a woman to cover herself with a jilbab. This leaves us with a question, what is a jilbab?

    It is stated in Lisan al-Arab:

    'Jilbab, plural of Jalabib: an outer garment or a cloak with it a woman covers her head and chest. And it is said: It is a long cloak that covers a woman completely'. (Ibn Manzur, Lisan al-Arab, 2/317).

    Sayyiduna Ibn Abbas (may Allah be pleased with him) states:

    'Jilbab is long cloak that covers a woman from her head to her feet'. (Ruh al-Ma'ani, 22/88).

    The above and other interpretations of Jilbab are clear that a jilbab is the outer garment that women must wear when emerging in front of strangers. This garment must be wide, loose, and modest and covers the body completely.

    After the revelation of this verse, many female Companions (Allah be pleased with them all) used to emerge outside their homes with complete reticence as though birds were sitting on their heads. They used to cover themselves with long black cloaks. (See: Ruh al-Ma'ani, 22/89).

    Therefore, a woman must cover her self with a loose and modest cloak when emerging in front of strangers. This may be a tradition veil (burqa) or some other garment.
    And Allah knows best

    Muhammad ibn Adam al-Kawthari, UK


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    http://qa.sunnipath.com/issue_view.asp?id=1909


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    Quote Originally Posted by Aileen View Post
    I fear that I am thinking of wearing hijab for the wrong reason though. Everytime I imagine myself wearing the hijab, I keep thinking of my parents expressions (and how happy they will be insha Allah) or about how my friends and other pious sisters who are already wearing their hijabs will be happy as well. I keep thinking of the compliments and praise I will receive by wearing my hijab. And I feel like because of all this, I am thinking of wearing my hijab for the wrong reason.

    Actually the concerns itself is a good sign that you are going to wear hijab actually for the sake of Allah. But do not keep overthinking it, because it will become waas waas and you will never do it.
    This reminds me of my friends who refuse to offer shalah in jamaah because they claim their motivation could be that they want to be seen as offering shalah (so they don't want any riya' while doing ibada).
    But in the end, they never perform shalah fard.

    Even though in the beginning your niyat may not be so pure (for the sake of Allah SWT), it could be corrected later when you are already wearing hijab Insha Allah.

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    wa alaykum us-Salaam
    you have to wear the hijab its too trendy not to wear :P people who dont wear the hijab dont know what they're missing out on

    dont worry, sometimes we get scared of people and their reactions, only to find out that there is nothing to worry about i.e that they dont care.


    besides:
    The Rulings of Hijab

    This is a command from Allah to the believing women, and jealousy on His part over the wives of His believing servants. It is also to distinguish the believing women from the women of the Jahiliyyah and the deeds of the pagan women.
    http://www.tafsir.com/default.asp?sid=24&tid=35857

    This is the Ayah of Hijab, which includes several legislative rulings and points of etiquette. This is one of the cases where the revelation confirmed the opinion of `Umar bin Al-Khattab, may Allah be pleased with him, as it was reported in the Two Sahihs that he said: "My view coincided with that of my Lord in three things. I said, `O Messenger of Allah, why do you not take Maqam Ibrahim as a place of prayer' Then Allah revealed:

    [وَاتَّخِذُواْ مِن مَّقَامِ إِبْرَهِيمَ مُصَلًّى]

    (And take you (people) the Maqam (place) of Ibrahim as a place of prayer) (2:125)

    And I said, `O Messenger of Allah, both righteous and immoral people enter upon your wives, so why do you not screen them'
    [..]
    http://www.tafsir.com/default.asp?sid=33&tid=42027

    so really, the hijab is for your own good.
    Last edited by Ummu Sufyaan; 01-04-2011 at 09:51 AM.


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    Asalaamu alaykum,

    I cannot believe it. This is the third time I am writing this message because something keeps happening before I press submit, like my laptop dying out and whatnot haha.

    Thank you so much for your help and support.

    Brother Hamza, I read through your posts last night and some of it today as well. They were so inspiring, especially the following phrases.


    Quote Originally Posted by Hamza81 View Post
    Keeping company with the righteous good sisters - for they are among the best to assist her to guidance and to continue to point her to it until Allah guides her and increases her guidance and inspires her to further guidance and taqwaa.
    This does make me feel better and make sense because initially I wanted to wear the hijab after I started seeing more of my friends wear it back home and more sisters wear it in UK. It made me feel sad when I was on the road and I saw these women who were so proud to be a Muslim and that I wasn't there yet. I guess wanting to do something after seeing pious sisters do so isn't a bad thing because we do practice better when keeping good company after all.


    Quote Originally Posted by Hamza81 View Post
    I covered up that day out of choice, and it was the most liberating experience of my life.
    This is truly beautiful and sure opposed people's views that women are having to do this because they are oppressed or whatever... I was watching the videos and debates on the French ban on the niqab and it truly shocked me last night, the views the president seemed to have.

    Quote Originally Posted by naidamar View Post
    Actually the concerns itself is a good sign that you are going to wear hijab actually for the sake of Allah.
    Insha Allah, I hope this is true.


    Quote Originally Posted by naidamar View Post
    Even though in the beginning your niyat may not be so pure (for the sake of Allah SWT), it could be corrected later when you are already wearing hijab Insha Allah.
    I was thinking, if I was truly doing it for the sake of people then I would see myself wearing it for a few days and taking it off because people wouldn't express their happiness all the time. Allah (swt) never forgets our good deeds but humans obviously will. But I can't see myself ever taking off the hijab just because I want to now do something new to get approval. I want to wear the hijab and do it proudly because it is the right thing to do!

    Quote Originally Posted by Ummu Sufyaan View Post
    its too trendy not to wear
    LOL

    Quote Originally Posted by Ummu Sufyaan View Post
    so really, the hijab is for your own good.
    Insha Allah, I can see this view as well. At first, I was thinking of doing it because I saw other sisters do so and because I knew it was obligatory in Islam but I never thought of it from the point of view of respect I would receive and so on. I was thinking of how wearing the hijab would change my life, and to be honest I can't see anything bad in any of the changes. I might miss letting my hair out but wearing the hijab doesn't mean I can't do it at home with my family or insha Allah, in front of my husband when/if I am blessed and get married one day insha Allah.

    Plus like brother Hamza included in his post, wearing the hijab is not going to be an obstacle to marriage because that just makes no sense at all. Without Allah's will, nothing can happen and so it makes no sense to then suggest that by us following Allah's orders and commands, we would be creating ourselves an obstacle to marriage.

    I am confused still as to why so many women seem to think it is just a Sunnah and nothing more then to wear the hijab. Does anyone have any material on the consequences of not wearing a hijab? I would love to read through them if so and use them to try and convince my own sister and family members of the need to do so as well insha Allah if such an opportunity arises. I think perhaps fear of having to face the consequences would insha Allah work. Please pray for my family to be guided to wearing the hijab as well because I worry about this a lot.

    Hence another worry that I might be wanting to wear the hijab to be in a better position to try and convince my family to follow suit.....

    I don't know if I can post this here but this is a beautiful video I found last night and it was on one of the websites brother Hamza has posted as well. Not everyone is wearing the right hijab but it it truly inspiring. To the best of my knowledge, it is accompanied by a nasheed and not a song but I apologise if I am wrong.

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=58jpmpT_wco

    May Allah bless all of you for your continued support and help. Please pray for my family to be guided as well (and me too). Ameen.

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