i just wanted to know..

~Mischa~ · 03:14 PM

is it wrong to sit next to the opposit sex on the bus/train?
ive always tried to avoid it.

but its like yesterday... on my way home from hammersmith, which is a bit of a journey... this boy came and sat next to me on the bus.. and since i was really tired and there were no other seats available, i didnt get up.
anways lookin back at it now, i feel kinda bad cuz whilst i was sitting next to him, his arm brushed pass mines a few times by accident.. and its been buggin me cuz i could have easily avoided that.

Nawal89 · **Re: i just wanted to know.. -** 01-23-2006

I guess if you could avoid it then you shouldnt. But someitmes on their isnt any way out of this situation..it happens to me to

Mainul_Islam · **Re: i just wanted to know.. -** 01-24-2006

what about for a guy??

since my buses are usually crowded, so it doesnt matter for me... becuz even if i stand up i'd be standing next to a girl/woman

women in numbers are increasing and outnumbering men!

aZn_pLayGurL · **Re: i just wanted to know.. -** 01-24-2006

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Originally Posted by Mainul_Islam

what about for a guy??

since my buses are usually crowded, so it doesnt matter for me... becuz even if i stand up i'd be standing next to a girl/woman

women in numbers are increasing and outnumbering men!

aNd that is a sign of *JuDgeMeNT DaY***

**Al Habeshi** · **Re: i just wanted to know.. -** 01-24-2006

ALhamdulilah, man I hope Isa comes already, peace be upon him, argh, whao nice to see someone from london, but anyhow, a brother was talkin to me aboutthis just today, he was just stating how a girl came sat next to him and he felt like moving but couldnt, but what he did was jus put a bag between their bodies.

He didnt give me no reference or proof or anything as such, but i admire his actions.

samina1 · **Re: i just wanted to know.. -** 01-24-2006

So Wht Abt A If A Major Of Da State Want To Shake Ur Hand, N Iam A Muslimiah, Wht Am I Suppose To Do??

hemoo · **Re: i just wanted to know.. -** 01-31-2006

well sister samina1 you can shake the hands of the major only if she is a woman otherwise you can refuse it and also stating that you are obeying the commands and laws of islam.
ok

salam

Tasneem · **Re: i just wanted to know.. -** 02-01-2006

Its harram to sit next to the opposite sex

But Allah knew how you felt sis.

Tasneem · **Re: i just wanted to know.. -** 02-01-2006

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mainul_Islam

what about for a guy??

since my buses are usually crowded, so it doesnt matter for me... becuz even if i stand up i'd be standing next to a girl/woman

women in numbers are increasing and outnumbering men!

There is a punishment for men to touch the opposite sex

Men are punished for that in the hearafter

SaLaMz

Nawal89 · **Re: i just wanted to know.. -** 02-01-2006

But sometimes you cant actually do anything about the situation can you? Like once i was on the LRT in KL and it was crowded..we had to stand and there was a man standing next to me, really close and i couldnt move.

afriend · **Re: i just wanted to know.. -** 02-01-2006

There's not much that you can do in those types of situations.

"Actions are indeed by intention"

This means that if you st next to some1 of the opposite sex intentionally then you will be held accountable for it, and vice versa.

aZn_pLayGurL · **Re: i just wanted to know.. -** 02-01-2006

i aLWaYz Sut nxt 2 the opposite SeX on the bus

haWwwW

But i got no choice am not gna stand up

Faizah · **Re: i just wanted to know.. -** 02-01-2006

Quote:

Originally Posted by aZn_pLayGurL

i aLWaYz Sut nxt 2 the opposite SeX on the bus

haWwwW

But i got no choice am not gna stand up

Well sis it's better for you to stand up for the sake of Allah instead of sitting down and obeying the shaytaan. Also I don't think it's funny to joke about stuff like that... sorry if i seem rude

!

:rose:

aZn_pLayGurL · **Re: i just wanted to know.. -** 02-01-2006

No itz all good, but if itz a *MaJBooRi** then itz permissable

nEways the guya shud have common sence 2 stand n let the ladies SiT

afriend · **Re: i just wanted to know.. -** 02-01-2006

Quote:

Originally Posted by Fenix-Angel

Well sis it's better for you to stand up for the sake of Allah instead of sitting down and obeying the shaytaan. Also I don't think it's funny to joke about stuff like that... sorry if i seem rude

!

:rose:

That's true sis, but if you are too tired to stand then Allah will overlook, but not if it is just out of laziness.

(BTW ur Avatar looks dangerous.....lol......)

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~Mischa~ LI Senior Member Status: Offline Posts: 144 Reputation: 114 Rep Power: 18 Join Date: Jan 2006 Gender: Way of Life: Muslim	i just wanted to know.. - 01-23-2006 is it wrong to sit next to the opposit sex on the bus/train? ive always tried to avoid it. but its like yesterday... on my way home from hammersmith, which is a bit of a journey... this boy came and sat next to me on the bus.. and since i was really tired and there were no other seats available, i didnt get up. anways lookin back at it now, i feel kinda bad cuz whilst i was sitting next to him, his arm brushed pass mines a few times by accident.. and its been buggin me cuz i could have easily avoided that. __________________ Last edited by ~Mischa~; 01-23-2006 at 03:14 PM..

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Nawal89 LI Oldskool Status: Offline Posts: 1,821 Reputation: 9435 Rep Power: 31 Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: in a village. Gender: Way of Life: Muslim	Re: i just wanted to know.. - 01-23-2006 I guess if you could avoid it then you shouldnt. But someitmes on their isnt any way out of this situation..it happens to me to

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Mainul_Islam LI Oldtimer Status: Offline Posts: 764 Reputation: 360 Rep Power: 21 Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: NY, USA Gender: Way of Life: Muslim	Re: i just wanted to know.. - 01-24-2006 what about for a guy?? since my buses are usually crowded, so it doesnt matter for me... becuz even if i stand up i'd be standing next to a girl/woman women in numbers are increasing and outnumbering men! __________________ LÂ ILÂHA ILLA ALLÂH! THERE IS NO GOD BUT GOD!

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Al Habeshi Eesa Abdullah Status: Offline Posts: 5,784 Reputation: 22602 Rep Power: 51 Join Date: Jan 2006 Gender: Way of Life: Muslim	Re: i just wanted to know.. - 01-24-2006 ALhamdulilah, man I hope Isa comes already, peace be upon him, argh, whao nice to see someone from london, but anyhow, a brother was talkin to me aboutthis just today, he was just stating how a girl came sat next to him and he felt like moving but couldnt, but what he did was jus put a bag between their bodies. He didnt give me no reference or proof or anything as such, but i admire his actions.

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samina1 Simply The Best! Status: Offline Posts: 157 Reputation: 54 Rep Power: 20 Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: Near Heaven Gender: Way of Life: Muslim	Re: i just wanted to know.. - 01-24-2006 So Wht Abt A If A Major Of Da State Want To Shake Ur Hand, N Iam A Muslimiah, Wht Am I Suppose To Do??

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hemoo Proud Muslim Status: Offline Posts: 310 Reputation: 723 Rep Power: 21 Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: Somewhere in EGYPT Gender: Way of Life: Muslim	Re: i just wanted to know.. - 01-31-2006 well sister samina1 you can shake the hands of the major only if she is a woman otherwise you can refuse it and also stating that you are obeying the commands and laws of islam. ok salam

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Tasneem LI Oldtimer Status: Offline Posts: 643 Reputation: 393 Rep Power: 19 Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: Colorado Gender: Way of Life: Muslim	Re: i just wanted to know.. - 02-01-2006 Its harram to sit next to the opposite sex But Allah knew how you felt sis. __________________ ~!My hijab is my crown!~ ~For My past will for ever be a part of my present and my future!~ I know i look diffrent--im going through something.Make dua for me

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Nawal89 LI Oldskool Status: Offline Posts: 1,821 Reputation: 9435 Rep Power: 31 Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: in a village. Gender: Way of Life: Muslim	Re: i just wanted to know.. - 02-01-2006 But sometimes you cant actually do anything about the situation can you? Like once i was on the LRT in KL and it was crowded..we had to stand and there was a man standing next to me, really close and i couldnt move.

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afriend Account Disabled Status: Offline Posts: 10,730 Reputation: 26435 Rep Power: 0 Join Date: Dec 2005 Gender: Way of Life: Muslim	Re: i just wanted to know.. - 02-01-2006 There's not much that you can do in those types of situations. "Actions are indeed by intention" This means that if you st next to some1 of the opposite sex intentionally then you will be held accountable for it, and vice versa.

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aZn_pLayGurL LI Senior Member Status: Offline Posts: 443 Reputation: 198 Rep Power: 18 Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: MaNcHe$Ta Ma$$iVe :P Gender: Way of Life: Muslim	Re: i just wanted to know.. - 02-01-2006 i aLWaYz Sut nxt 2 the opposite SeX on the bus haWwwW But i got no choice am not gna stand up __________________ :okay: SuM WaR WiTh gOd aNd sUm wAr wItH ThE BeAsT... SuM WaR FoR WaR BuT We WaR FoH PeAcE RiShpEcT* :okay: :okay:

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aZn_pLayGurL LI Senior Member Status: Offline Posts: 443 Reputation: 198 Rep Power: 18 Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: MaNcHe$Ta Ma$$iVe :P Gender: Way of Life: Muslim	Re: i just wanted to know.. - 02-01-2006 No itz all good, but if itz a MaJBooRi* then itz permissable nEways the guya shud have common sence 2 stand n let the ladies SiT __________________ :okay: SuM WaR WiTh gOd aNd sUm wAr wItH ThE BeAsT... SuM WaR FoR WaR BuT We WaR FoH PeAcE RiShpEcT* :okay: :okay: