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Default Re: Trouble sleeping - 04-27-2008

Maybe it is your worries/stress/thoughts that are bothering you? Don't think about anything before going to sleep, really relax.
It is not good to play video games or watch TV or surf the Net before going to sleep. Rather take 15-30 minutes time-out and just relax, clear your mind and then go to sleep. Avoid coffeine during the day, and rather eat yourself full at least 2 or more hrs before you go to sleep, 'cause it's not good to eat right before going to sleep. Drink a lot of water. Sometimes to take some fresh air before going to sleep helps. Keep it quite. The ideal room to sleep in is sligthly cool..


If nothing helps and you are sure about it, go see a doctor. Seriously, it might be something else, Allah knows best, but checking is never a bad move. Also it is not preferable to use sleeping pills without consulating a doctor first so, inshaAllah, do go see a doctor ASAP.

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Default Re: Trouble sleeping - 04-27-2008

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its been a long term problem. i've tried ghusl, wudhu, playing games (which actually keeps me awake for longer seeing as i get into it - not to mention i like strategic games - ), reading books, listening to talks, staying up 24 hrs so i can sleep the following night, slept late and forced myself to get up early to sleep early the following night, eating and drinking, contemplating, work...errmm i can't think of anything else at the mo.

nothing helps.......*sigh*


hmmm.. it could be due to a deficiency of folic acid in the body [Found in fresh fruit, Green veggies, especially beet greens]

Also low levels of vitamin B12, which can happen as a result of stress/tension/ worry etc.

vitamin B12 can be found in yeast extract, soya milk, cereals n I think potatoe and chappati also.

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hmm....jazakAllah khair for the help.
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Arrow Re: Trouble sleeping - 04-27-2008

bismillah...

There were all kind of solutions posted except Du`aa.

Khalid bin Waleed [radiallahu `anh] also had trouble sleeping and thus he went to the prophet [salallahu `alayhe wassallam ] who advised him to make the following du`aa:

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Allahu rabbus samaawaatis sab’I wa maa adh-dhal-lat, wa rabbul ardaynin wa maa aqallat wa rabbush shayaateeni wa maa adallat kulli jaarun min sharri khalqika jamee’un ay yafrata alayya ahadun minhum aw yabghayiii alayya azza jaarukan wa jalla thanaa ooka wa laa ilaaha ghayruka* 1

O Allah you are the Lord of the Seven Heavens and what they shelter, and the two earths and the lives they support. Your power can surely control and restrain the devils who mislead the faithful. Lord, be you my Protector and neighbour. Shelter me from any evil that may spur from Your creation, so that none of them may assail me in my rest, or infringe upon my privacy. Indeed your neighbours are strong and safe in Your Protection. What You command is unassailable. Indeed you alone are God.
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1]: Medicine of the Prophet [Chapter on Insomnia] by Ibn al-Qayyim rahimahullah
   
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Default Re: Trouble sleeping - 04-27-2008

I have trouble sleeping quite frequently.
Today I was reading about the potential benefits of listening to 'white noise'.
Sounds like this: http://whitenoise.talior.cnchost.com/1-minute-fan.wav
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For some people with insomnia, any sound at all during sleep—or rather, during those times when one is trying to get to sleep—drives them crazy. But for others, “white noise” is the cure. “White noise” ranges from the steady sound of a fan blowing to the soft hum of an air filter or even a computer that doesn’t get shut off at night. The noise can be used to mask or over-ride other noises that may be disturbing to sleep—outside traffic, sounds and voices from a street below—or it can be used to create a gentle, constant, soothing—some say hypnotic—ambiance of sound. But if you haven’t tried it, you won’t know which type of person you are.
Source: http://www.dreamdoctor.com/better/insomnia/3.shtml

My hubby copied 30 minutes worth onto a CD, and I will try it tonight!
(I'll let you know)

Free download here.

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@ Wmin_ISoc; beautiful, barak Allaahu feeki!
   
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Default Re: Trouble sleeping - 04-29-2008

asalam alaikum

One of the major causes of insomnia is eating too much before bedtime. Also could be due to constipation, dyspepsia, excessive caffiene, smoking, hunger and also the worry about falling asleep can keep you awake.

Supressed anger, bitterness can also cause insomnia; as can over excitement, worries, overwork all the result of mental tension.


Vitamin B is helpful in the treatment of insomnia as a body starved of this vitamin will be unable to relax and fall asleep naturally. As suggested already warm milk with honey is beneficial as it acts as a tranquiliser.

InshaAllah a good balanced diet, exercise and stress eliminating techniques will all help achieve a good nights sleep.

Finally, make wudhu, recite Surah Yasin or any other Surah before you sleep. You'll feel relaxed and also feel you have done something to please Allah which in turn will help your mind to relax and be free of worries, since it'll help increases your imaan too. Finish by reciting bedtime duaas as recommended by the prophet (PBUH). And inshaAllah you will find it becomes easier to sleep and probably harder to wake up. Lol, jk!

wa alaikum asalam.
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Default Re: Trouble sleeping - 04-29-2008


It soundz like you've tried pretty much everything!.. And every1s been giving some god advie..Im tempted to try a few myself!.. Especially the du'a! I heard that sometimes it can help if u lie down concentrate on ur breathing, and tense and relax each of muscles groups...breathing in when tensing and out when relaxing.. You should start from neck/shoulders and work down to the toes, and to keep doing this untill you feel you body relax.. and inshaAllah fall asleep. Take care
   
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bismillah...

There were all kind of solutions posted except Du`aa.

Khalid bin Waleed [radiallahu `anh] also had trouble sleeping and thus he went to the prophet [salallahu `alayhe wassallam ] who advised him to make the following du`aa:



* I do not have a arabic keyboard and thus could not type up the du`aa in arabic. Apologies.
1]: Medicine of the Prophet [Chapter on Insomnia] by Ibn al-Qayyim rahimahullah


To be honest this du'a is the only piece of advice thats worked.

SubhanAllah, when this was posted I read it and around 10 pm (or 11pm) that night I felt so sleepy I just couldn't keep my self awake. Even though I had two courseworks to give in the next morning and I wasn't finished. Yet that concern couldn't keep me awake!

JazakAllah khair for the du'a, and thank you to all for your advice and help.

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Default Re: Trouble sleeping - 05-02-2008

I haven't read other people's responses so do forgive me if this is a repeat.
Do this exactly as I describe
wake up tomorrow at 4:00Am no matter what.. run one mile which should take you any where between 7-12 minutes depending on how fast/slow you are.. come back take a shower, make fajr prayer and then have breakfast.. carry out your daily duties.. then assign a time to sleep at night right after isha'a

stick with this routine even on the weekend and DON'T SWAY from it. Fact is keeping a routine will help you establish sleep habits without the need for meds..
if all else fails go for a sleep study.. there might be an anatomical or physiological problem plaguing you which I highly doubt..

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Default Re: Trouble sleeping - 05-02-2008

no to sleeping pills.

work hard during the day
read surah mulk before going to sleep, sleep on your right and read duaas while trying to sleep.
   
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What advice can you give to someone who has trouble sleeping?
I like to listen to music before I go to sleep. I find it very relaxing and comforting. Some people like to sleep with noise in the background, so try leaving a radio on or a TV on a timer, something like that.
   
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Default Re: Trouble sleeping - 05-04-2008

i find it hard to sleep sometimes like i'm on my bed for bout three to four hours before i fall assleep but i don't find that sleeping pills work at all
try reading quran or praying Tahajud at least u'll be doing something benaficial with that time inshallah
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try to listen to Quran instead of Music sis iliketosmile
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I like to listen to music before I go to sleep. I find it very relaxing and comforting. Some people like to sleep with noise in the background, so try leaving a radio on or a TV on a timer, something like that.


JazakAllah khair, it's appriceated but you should know that music is haram.

Allah says;

"And of mankind is he who purchases idle talks (i.e. music, singing) to mislead (men) from the path of Allaah…"

[Luqmaan 31:6]

Qur'an is the best thing to listen to. Its speech is truthful, its constant recitation brings about the remembrance of Allah and brings peace to ones heart. Whereas music is one of the tools of shaytan that he uses to lead you astray from the rememberance of Allah.


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Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):

"Do you then wonder at this recitation (the Qur’aan)?

And you laugh at it and weep not,

Wasting your (precious) lifetime in pastime and amusements (singing)"


[al-Najm 53:59-61]

‘Ikrimah (may Allaah have mercy on him) said: it was narrated from Ibn ‘Abbaas that al-sumood [verbal noun from saamidoon, translated here as “Wasting your (precious) lifetime in pastime and amusements (singing)”] means "singing", in the dialect of Himyar; it might be said “Ismidi lanaa” [‘sing for us’ – from the same root as saamidoon/sumood] meaning “ghaniy” [sing]. And he said (may Allaah have mercy on him): When they [the kuffaar] heard the Qur’aan, they would sing, then this aayah was revealed.

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