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yeh but she lives in turkey n.. well i dunt knw her shez older.. but tht cud be a gud idea actually..


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What's hasish? Sorry if it seems like a stupid question..
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Lol sis zaara wd.

It might be abit inappropriate for you to help him sis, you being female and him being male. You also mentioned that your not really a friend of his, so do you think he will accept your help? Is there any brother you know that could help him, maybe one of his friends? I dont know how you would go about advising this brother though, I dont personally know any drug abusers. He might require professional help.
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I know A lot of brothers who is in this bussines but what can you do except making Dua.
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What's hasish? Sorry if it seems like a stupid question..
Hash, Its like in the same catagorie as weed, not that I am a professional but I live in Holland
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edit Sorry cannot help..

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Default Re: when a muslim uses drugs.. - 05-11-2008

muezzin,

yeh i guezz he does knw wat it iz.. why?


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It might be abit inappropriate for you to help him sis, you being female and him being male. You also mentioned that your not really a friend of his, so do you think he will accept your help? Is there any brother you know that could help him, maybe one of his friends? I dont know how you would go about advising this brother though, I dont personally know any drug abusers. He might require professional help.
we have a kinda complicated hiztory, da 2 of uz.. he doez kinda listen but my insecurity abt da situation makes all my tries worthlezz.. n yeah i guezz he doesnt listen much but i am keepin da faith tht my words to reach him at some level.. insha Allaah

yeh but he is da only muslim i almost see daily n i cant stand the fact someone so intelligent just does dis i dunno.. im equally worried abt his non muzlim friendz..

sigh... i thot he myte need profezzional help too..



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I know A lot of brothers who is in this bussines but what can you do except making Dua.
but.. i knw, yet.. sigh.. seriouz if i was a bro i wud do anythin i cud to help em..
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Default Re: when a muslim uses drugs.. - 05-11-2008

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Hash, Its like in the same catagorie as weed, not that I am a professional but I live in Holland
yeh.. it's the resin of cannabis kinda..
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I say inform his parents or an authority figure..
Hashish is not a hard core drug but chances are if he is doing this, he is doing other things on the side.. this is a downward spiral .. very few people come off of it..

Hasish isn't addictive, it will just do away with his mind, and if his base line is stupid which I suspect it is for doing drugs to begin with, then he'll be so fried he won't even be able to bag groceries at tesco and I know in England they leave the bagging to the customers anyway so really he is looking at wiping cars, or cleaning toilets with no prospect of improvement?

it is his choice, you can only offer advise or be pro-active in getting some authority figure in to help him out..

p.s excuse my judgement of the fellow... I have very low tolerance for self-imposed stupidity..


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I say inform his parents or an authority figure..
truth iz i just wud wish he didnt knw it iz me who said but he aint tht stupid im sure he wud figure it out n then hate me for da rest of hiz life.. but maybe i shudnt care.. cuz afterall i just wanna make sure he does da right thing..

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Hasish isn't addictive, it will just do away with his mind, and if his base line is stupid which I suspect it is for doing drugs to begin with, then he'll be so fried he won't even be able to bag groceries at tesco and I know in England they leave the bagging to the customers anyway so really he is looking at wiping cars, or cleaning toilets with no prospect of improvement?
rofl i got to admit ur hilariouz n i agree wid u serioz.. he just made it sound as if it doeznt change him any way he still studies right n it goes well for him..


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it is his choice, you can only offer advise or be pro-active in getting some authority figure in to help him out..

p.s excuse my judgement of the fellow... I have very low tolerance for self-imposed stupidity..
i knw it iz hiz choice i guess i just am a bit too.. um.. protectin..

serioz, i needed tht kind of anzwer jazaaki Allaah khayr.. and to all of ya, i wud appreciate more anzwerz but im now already gunna say jazaak Allaah khayroon everyone..
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Sis I knew alotttaaa people who were on drugs and still are..many quit and some are still on it...well if you are a respected person to the person then i think you should talk to him and bring the facts on the table..tell him tht he's way smarter then a person using drugs and that what's the point of it?? why is he using and selling it?? Recommend him to go to a masjid and tell him that drugs are all worthless used for temporary pleasure or happiness..once addicted to weed it's really hard to get off and only a person's self-determination will drag them away from it and the fact that it's hard to buy it..

Tell him stories of deaths that have happened because of these drugs and it is basically suicide in other words because it's slowly killing you inside..and suicide is haraam so he shouldn't be doing it...Why waste his time doing something like this when he could use his time doing something beneficial..if you can even recommend him to this forum..manyy broz and sisters here can help him..K inshallah i hpe i helped..Salamualikum
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Sis I knew alotttaaa people who were on drugs and still are..many quit and some are still on it...well if you are a respected person to the person then i think you should talk to him and bring the facts on the table..tell him tht he's way smarter then a person using drugs and that what's the point of it?? why is he using and selling it?? Recommend him to go to a masjid and tell him that drugs are all worthless used for temporary pleasure or happiness..once addicted to weed it's really hard to get off and only a person's self-determination will drag them away from it and the fact that it's hard to buy it..

Tell him stories of deaths that have happened because of these drugs and it is basically suicide in other words because it's slowly killing you inside..and suicide is haraam so he shouldn't be doing it...Why waste his time doing something like this when he could use his time doing something beneficial..if you can even recommend him to this forum..manyy broz and sisters here can help him..K inshallah i hpe i helped..Salamualikum
Sis Its not so easy to bring them back to the right pad I know I see them every day they went even worse and now little kids selling cocaine.....COCAINE( I only saw it in Scarface But now its a childplay) Its because of their parents did nothing Allahu Aliem maybe this brother Is different but you have to be fast Inshallah he will understand
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Sis I knew alotttaaa people who were on drugs and still are..many quit and some are still on it...well if you are a respected person to the person then i think you should talk to him and bring the facts on the table..tell him tht he's way smarter then a person using drugs and that what's the point of it?? why is he using and selling it?? Recommend him to go to a masjid and tell him that drugs are all worthless used for temporary pleasure or happiness..once addicted to weed it's really hard to get off and only a person's self-determination will drag them away from it and the fact that it's hard to buy it..

Tell him stories of deaths that have happened because of these drugs and it is basically suicide in other words because it's slowly killing you inside..and suicide is haraam so he shouldn't be doing it...Why waste his time doing something like this when he could use his time doing something beneficial..if you can even recommend him to this forum..manyy broz and sisters here can help him..K inshallah i hpe i helped..Salamualikum

jazaaki Allaah khayr so much sizter.. serioz ur post helped but it also made me scared, i really dunt have much time innit? if i really wanna do sumethin abt it..

once i said to him why he iz doin it he said why shudnt he n said it dusnt do anythin bad to him n as he awaited my answer i went away... cudnt handle it, i was abt to cry..


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Sis Its not so easy to bring them back to the right pad I know I see them every day they went even worse and now little kids selling cocaine.....COCAINE( I only saw it in Scarface But now its a childplay) Its because of their parents did nothing Allahu Aliem maybe this brother Is different but you have to be fast Inshallah he will understand
insha Allaah he is different i believe tht but then again i may judge him wrongly n he aint nuthin what i thot.. allahu aliim, i will think abt this, either i talk to him myself or contact his sister, i dunno im confuzed.. sigh.. Allaah Allaah..

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jazaaki Allaah khayr so much sizter.. serioz ur post helped but it also made me scared, i really dunt have much time innit? if i really wanna do sumethin abt it..

once i said to him why he iz doin it he said why shudnt he n said it dusnt do anythin bad to him n as he awaited my answer i went away... cudnt handle it, i was abt to cry..




insha Allaah he is different i believe tht but then again i may judge him wrongly n he aint nuthin what i thot.. allahu aliim, i will think abt this, either i talk to him myself or contact his sister, i dunno im confuzed.. sigh.. Allaah Allaah..

make dua for him n me, plz
But your Anonymous so how could I make dua for you, Just kiddin I will make dua for you inshallah
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im gonna take drugs. where can i get drugs from. ive had enough of life, maybe drugs will make it better for me
   
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