LI Islamic Forum  

Advice & Support Seek advice for simple problems from fellow members. Help and console each other during times of trial.

Reply

 

LinkBack Thread Tools Search this Thread Display Modes
Old
  (#1 (permalink))
AnonymousGender
Anonymous Account
 
AnonymousGender's Avatar
 
Status: Offline
Posts: 60
Reputation: 1455
Rep Power: 14
AnonymousGender has much to be proud ofAnonymousGender has much to be proud ofAnonymousGender has much to be proud ofAnonymousGender has much to be proud ofAnonymousGender has much to be proud ofAnonymousGender has much to be proud ofAnonymousGender has much to be proud ofAnonymousGender has much to be proud ofAnonymousGender has much to be proud ofAnonymousGender has much to be proud of
Join Date: May 2006
Gender:
Default when a muslim uses drugs.. - 05-09-2008



i kno a muslim boy who uses drugs.. shud i do something about it? im a sister. the boy is not practicing but i dunno, i have always thot he has strong faith cuz we have known each other for a few yearz.. but we aint friendz in its real sense, more strangers who knw each other as friendz but still aint.. hard to explain

but now im not sure if i can or SHUD do anything abt it, da drugs issue.

i havent done anythin yet n i am always distant frm this boy, i always make dua for him for in the end he is my bro in islam, but i feel i shud do more than duaz.. his friendz use drugs too..

long tym ago i chose to not talk to him n not be around him, n the thing is we never ever even were togetha or close but i did have thot n gotten da impression he was gud muslim n jut needed tht push to pray n fast but now im lost as to in which position he is.. shud i do anythin?
__________________
Anonymous account
   
Reply With Quote
Old
  (#2 (permalink))
AnonymousGender
Anonymous Account
 
AnonymousGender's Avatar
 
Status: Offline
Posts: 60
Reputation: 1455
Rep Power: 14
AnonymousGender has much to be proud ofAnonymousGender has much to be proud ofAnonymousGender has much to be proud ofAnonymousGender has much to be proud ofAnonymousGender has much to be proud ofAnonymousGender has much to be proud ofAnonymousGender has much to be proud ofAnonymousGender has much to be proud ofAnonymousGender has much to be proud ofAnonymousGender has much to be proud of
Join Date: May 2006
Gender:
Default Re: when a muslim uses drugs.. - 05-11-2008

bump..
__________________
Anonymous account
   
Reply With Quote
Old
  (#3 (permalink))
noorahmad
LI Senior Member
 
noorahmad's Avatar
 
Status: Offline
Posts: 118
Reputation: 203
Rep Power: 6
noorahmad has a spectacular aura aboutnoorahmad has a spectacular aura aboutnoorahmad has a spectacular aura about
Join Date: Aug 2007
Location: Mauritius
Gender:Brother In Islam
Way of Life: Muslim
Default Re: when a muslim uses drugs.. - 05-11-2008

well do make du'aa for him and as do try to get him to perform his swalaats,and slowly inshaAllah, he will be ok
__________________
Hadith - Bukhari's Book of Manners #313, Ahmad, Ibn Hibban, and Hakim

... 'Abd Allah reported that the Prophet of Allah, upon him be peace, said, "A believer is not a fault-finder and is not abusive, obscene, or course."
   
Reply With Quote
Old
  (#4 (permalink))
Alpha Dude™
LI Oldskool
 
Alpha Dude™'s Avatar
 
Status: Offline
Posts: 3,982
Reputation: 42554
Rep Power: 70
Alpha Dude™ has a reputation beyond reputeAlpha Dude™ has a reputation beyond reputeAlpha Dude™ has a reputation beyond reputeAlpha Dude™ has a reputation beyond reputeAlpha Dude™ has a reputation beyond reputeAlpha Dude™ has a reputation beyond reputeAlpha Dude™ has a reputation beyond reputeAlpha Dude™ has a reputation beyond reputeAlpha Dude™ has a reputation beyond reputeAlpha Dude™ has a reputation beyond reputeAlpha Dude™ has a reputation beyond repute
Join Date: Mar 2006
Gender:Brother In Islam
Way of Life: Muslim
Default Re: when a muslim uses drugs.. - 05-11-2008

You could pray istikarah, perhaps?
   
Reply With Quote
Old
  (#5 (permalink))
AnonymousGender
Anonymous Account
 
AnonymousGender's Avatar
 
Status: Offline
Posts: 60
Reputation: 1455
Rep Power: 14
AnonymousGender has much to be proud ofAnonymousGender has much to be proud ofAnonymousGender has much to be proud ofAnonymousGender has much to be proud ofAnonymousGender has much to be proud ofAnonymousGender has much to be proud ofAnonymousGender has much to be proud ofAnonymousGender has much to be proud ofAnonymousGender has much to be proud ofAnonymousGender has much to be proud of
Join Date: May 2006
Gender:
Default Re: when a muslim uses drugs.. - 05-11-2008

Oh please everyone teks drugs these days weva u tel him or not it may not mek a difference myt azwel go for it thou.in r skul dey had to put a bryt blur lyt in the bro's loo so dey cnt find der veins to juice emselves, bt dey stil do.Der aint realy no way to go around ths but the person decidin emselves that dey dun wana do it.
__________________
Anonymous account
   
Reply With Quote
Old
  (#6 (permalink))
AnonymousGender
Anonymous Account
 
AnonymousGender's Avatar
 
Status: Offline
Posts: 60
Reputation: 1455
Rep Power: 14
AnonymousGender has much to be proud ofAnonymousGender has much to be proud ofAnonymousGender has much to be proud ofAnonymousGender has much to be proud ofAnonymousGender has much to be proud ofAnonymousGender has much to be proud ofAnonymousGender has much to be proud ofAnonymousGender has much to be proud ofAnonymousGender has much to be proud ofAnonymousGender has much to be proud of
Join Date: May 2006
Gender:
Default Re: when a muslim uses drugs.. - 05-11-2008

Quote:
Originally Posted by AnonymousGender View Post
Oh please everyone teks drugs these days weva u tel him or not it may not mek a difference myt azwel go for it thou.in r skul dey had to put a bryt blur lyt in the bro's loo so dey cnt find der veins to juice emselves, bt dey stil do.Der aint realy no way to go around ths but the person decidin emselves that dey dun wana do it.
serioz? honestly i dunt think everybody takes drugz these dayz, but i may just be naive ey...
__________________
Anonymous account
   
Reply With Quote
Old
  (#7 (permalink))
AnonymousGender
Anonymous Account
 
AnonymousGender's Avatar
 
Status: Offline
Posts: 60
Reputation: 1455
Rep Power: 14
AnonymousGender has much to be proud ofAnonymousGender has much to be proud ofAnonymousGender has much to be proud ofAnonymousGender has much to be proud ofAnonymousGender has much to be proud ofAnonymousGender has much to be proud ofAnonymousGender has much to be proud ofAnonymousGender has much to be proud ofAnonymousGender has much to be proud ofAnonymousGender has much to be proud of
Join Date: May 2006
Gender:
Default Re: when a muslim uses drugs.. - 05-11-2008

Quote:
Originally Posted by AnonymousGender View Post
Oh please everyone teks drugs these days weva u tel him or not it may not mek a difference myt azwel go for it thou.in r skul dey had to put a bryt blur lyt in the bro's loo so dey cnt find der veins to juice emselves, bt dey stil do.Der aint realy no way to go around ths but the person decidin emselves that dey dun wana do it.


Can you repeat the above in english

__________________
Anonymous account
   
Reply With Quote
Old
  (#8 (permalink))
Al-Zaara
LI's Hanafi
 
Al-Zaara's Avatar
 
Status: Offline
Posts: 2,997
Reputation: 27025
Rep Power: 50
Al-Zaara has a reputation beyond reputeAl-Zaara has a reputation beyond reputeAl-Zaara has a reputation beyond reputeAl-Zaara has a reputation beyond reputeAl-Zaara has a reputation beyond reputeAl-Zaara has a reputation beyond reputeAl-Zaara has a reputation beyond reputeAl-Zaara has a reputation beyond reputeAl-Zaara has a reputation beyond reputeAl-Zaara has a reputation beyond reputeAl-Zaara has a reputation beyond repute
Join Date: Feb 2006
Location: Finland
Gender:Sister In Humanity
Way of Life: Muslim
Default Re: when a muslim uses drugs.. - 05-11-2008

Wow, this was freaky... *i'll translate*

Quote:
Originally Posted by AnonymousGender View Post
Oh please everyone teks drugs these days weva u tel him or not it may not mek a difference myt azwel go for it thou.in r skul dey had to put a bryt blur lyt in the bro's loo so dey cnt find der veins to juice emselves, bt dey stil do.Der aint realy no way to go around ths but the person decidin emselves that dey dun wana do it.
Oh please everyone takes drugs these days wether you tell him or not it may not make a difference might aswell go for it though. in our school they had to put a bright blur light in the bro's loo so they cant find their veins to juice themselves, but they still do. there aint really no way to go around this but the person deciding themselves that they dont wanna do it
__________________
islamastic.wordpress.com
© 2008
coming soon





Innamal A'malu binniyaat

- Actions are according to intentions
   
Reply With Quote
Old
  (#9 (permalink))
barney
Question EVERYTHING!
 
barney's Avatar
 
Status: Offline
Posts: 2,027
Reputation: 5695
Rep Power: 17
barney has a reputation beyond reputebarney has a reputation beyond reputebarney has a reputation beyond reputebarney has a reputation beyond reputebarney has a reputation beyond reputebarney has a reputation beyond reputebarney has a reputation beyond reputebarney has a reputation beyond reputebarney has a reputation beyond reputebarney has a reputation beyond reputebarney has a reputation beyond repute
Join Date: Mar 2007
Location: England
Gender:Brother In Humanity
Way of Life: Agnostic
Default Re: when a muslim uses drugs.. - 05-11-2008

Sure can.

Oh please everyone teks drugs these days weva u tel him or not it may not mek a difference myt azwel go for it thou.in r skul dey had to put a bryt blur lyt in the bro's loo so dey cnt find der veins to juice emselves, bt dey stil do.Der aint realy no way to go around ths but the person decidin emselves that dey dun wana do it.

Oh Please, it is my considered opinion that everyone in the world participates in recreational pharmacology, this remains so, wether you advise them to continue or discourage them from the practice. In balance, to advice against such "Snorting sum Choice Snow", would be preferable.
In my educational establishment, they installed a Blue light in the male toilets to dissuade the gentlemen from such "Juicing the main line..PHAT!", but it was of little avail.




All in all I feel that it is a personal choice to give up.


Bah beaten to it ^^
__________________
Occupation: The term of control of a territory by foreign military forces: Iraq 2003-2005
Liberation:when something or someone is freed: Operation Telic 2003
   
Reply With Quote
Old
  (#10 (permalink))
AnonymousGender
Anonymous Account
 
AnonymousGender's Avatar
 
Status: Offline
Posts: 60
Reputation: 1455
Rep Power: 14
AnonymousGender has much to be proud ofAnonymousGender has much to be proud ofAnonymousGender has much to be proud ofAnonymousGender has much to be proud ofAnonymousGender has much to be proud ofAnonymousGender has much to be proud ofAnonymousGender has much to be proud ofAnonymousGender has much to be proud ofAnonymousGender has much to be proud ofAnonymousGender has much to be proud of
Join Date: May 2006
Gender:
Default Re: when a muslim uses drugs.. - 05-11-2008

Quote:
Originally Posted by Alpha Dude View Post
You could pray istikarah, perhaps?
done it several tymz bro, it didnt give any help dis time n im confuzed abt it cuz usually i get answerz yet nt dis tym..
__________________
Anonymous account
   
Reply With Quote
Old
  (#11 (permalink))
Ali.
اللهُ اكبر
 
Ali.'s Avatar
 
Status: Online
Posts: 715
Reputation: 4264
Rep Power: 10
Ali. has a reputation beyond reputeAli. has a reputation beyond reputeAli. has a reputation beyond reputeAli. has a reputation beyond reputeAli. has a reputation beyond reputeAli. has a reputation beyond reputeAli. has a reputation beyond reputeAli. has a reputation beyond reputeAli. has a reputation beyond reputeAli. has a reputation beyond reputeAli. has a reputation beyond repute
Join Date: Oct 2007
Location: UK
Gender:Brother In Islam
Way of Life: Muslim
Default Re: when a muslim uses drugs.. - 05-11-2008

Hmm...

Does he have a sister that you could talk to to get through to him? Which drugs by the way?
__________________
   
Reply With Quote
Old
  (#12 (permalink))
AnonymousGender
Anonymous Account
 
AnonymousGender's Avatar
 
Status: Offline
Posts: 60
Reputation: 1455
Rep Power: 14
AnonymousGender has much to be proud ofAnonymousGender has much to be proud ofAnonymousGender has much to be proud ofAnonymousGender has much to be proud ofAnonymousGender has much to be proud ofAnonymousGender has much to be proud ofAnonymousGender has much to be proud ofAnonymousGender has much to be proud ofAnonymousGender has much to be proud ofAnonymousGender has much to be proud of
Join Date: May 2006
Gender:
Default Re: when a muslim uses drugs.. - 05-11-2008

Quote:
Originally Posted by AnonymousGender View Post
serioz? honestly i dunt think everybody takes drugz these dayz, but i may just be naive ey...
it cud be our area difference bt serious who doesn't tek drugs.muslim or not everyones tried tht stuff am sho.and if dey havent there family members have.sori about crap writing.
__________________
Anonymous account
   
Reply With Quote
Old
  (#13 (permalink))
Muezzin
Why so serious?
 
Muezzin's Avatar
 
Status: Offline
Posts: 8,767
Reputation: 22968
Rep Power: 55
Muezzin has a reputation beyond reputeMuezzin has a reputation beyond reputeMuezzin has a reputation beyond reputeMuezzin has a reputation beyond reputeMuezzin has a reputation beyond reputeMuezzin has a reputation beyond reputeMuezzin has a reputation beyond reputeMuezzin has a reputation beyond reputeMuezzin has a reputation beyond reputeMuezzin has a reputation beyond reputeMuezzin has a reputation beyond repute
Join Date: Jun 2005
Gender:Brother In Islam
Way of Life: Muslim
Default Re: when a muslim uses drugs.. - 05-11-2008

Everyone takes recreational drugs?

Contrary to appearances, I don't. I can't even swallow pills. I have to chew them and they taste atrocious. Bleurgh.

As to the topic, how much does this guy's habit cost him? Harsh economic reality might turn him cold turkey. That, or a detox.
__________________
   
Reply With Quote
Old
  (#14 (permalink))
AnonymousGender
Anonymous Account
 
AnonymousGender's Avatar
 
Status: Offline
Posts: 60
Reputation: 1455
Rep Power: 14
AnonymousGender has much to be proud ofAnonymousGender has much to be proud ofAnonymousGender has much to be proud ofAnonymousGender has much to be proud ofAnonymousGender has much to be proud ofAnonymousGender has much to be proud ofAnonymousGender has much to be proud ofAnonymousGender has much to be proud ofAnonymousGender has much to be proud ofAnonymousGender has much to be proud of
Join Date: May 2006
Gender:
Default Re: when a muslim uses drugs.. - 05-11-2008

Quote:
Originally Posted by Ali. View Post
Hmm...

Does he have a sister that you could talk to to get through to him? Which drugs by the way?
yeh but she lives in turkey n.. well i dunt knw her shez older.. but tht cud be a gud idea actually..


hashish..

Quote:
Originally Posted by Muezzin View Post

As to the topic, how much does this guy's habit cost him? Harsh economic reality might turn him cold turkey. That, or a detox.
i cant remember what he said exactly, but a very small amount abt 20 euro if it aint gud quality n gud quality abt 50 euro.. n da thing is he iz pretty rich kid actually..

he also sellz it, n i dont knw tht much abt his businezz cuz i was so sad..
__________________
Anonymous account
   
Reply With Quote
Old
  (#15 (permalink))
Muezzin
Why so serious?
 
Muezzin's Avatar
 
Status: Offline
Posts: 8,767
Reputation: 22968
Rep Power: 55
Muezzin has a reputation beyond reputeMuezzin has a reputation beyond reputeMuezzin has a reputation beyond reputeMuezzin has a reputation beyond reputeMuezzin has a reputation beyond reputeMuezzin has a reputation beyond reputeMuezzin has a reputation beyond reputeMuezzin has a reputation beyond reputeMuezzin has a reputation beyond reputeMuezzin has a reputation beyond reputeMuezzin has a reputation beyond repute
Join Date: Jun 2005
Gender:Brother In Islam
Way of Life: Muslim
Default Re: when a muslim uses drugs.. - 05-11-2008

Gotta be the detox then. Does he know what an enema is?
__________________
   
Reply With Quote
Reply

Thread Tools Search this Thread
Search this Thread:

Advanced Search
Display Modes

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are On
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are On




Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.7.1
Copyright ©2000 - 2008, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.
LinkBacks Enabled by vBSEO 3.0.0
vBulletin Skin developed by: vBStyles.com

Page generated in 0.26923 seconds with 10 queries