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| Full Member Status: Offline Posts: 62 Reputation: 191 Rep Power: 3 Join Date: Jul 2008 Gender: Way of Life: Muslim | I suggest that you should read about Death, the grave punnishment, the hellfire in islam, i mean how its explained is like really scary, and i suggest that you watch Lectures/speaches by DR zakir naik AND Ahmed deedat, they are good proving Islam to be the true religion, For christians... the best choice is to watch Ahmed Deedat, for Atheists and unsure muslims.... Zakir naik! .. Brother, remember Allah alot and Allah will guide you InshAllah, Buy books, hangout with muslim brothers who will explain stuff, and go to live speaches / lectures, dont do research by your self only! Go to the masjid and pray in congretion, fast some days, make your self close to Allah(swt), take some steps to him and he will speed to you! And read the book "Quran and science, compatible or incompatible" and visit www.quranmiracles.com and InshAllah, InshAllah these doubts will go away, as the brother above said, its only the Shaytan wanting to lead you astray, fight him, show him you are stronger then him, imagine you fighting him with all your streanght and whenever he maybe says "Surely this is maybe just fake" then say "Allahu Akbar, this way of life is as true as it can be" |
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| iwannagetmarried.com Status: Offline Posts: 6,817 Reputation: 50170 Rep Power: 91 Join Date: Mar 2005 Gender: Way of Life: Muslim | This is a trap that many people fall into - which is occupying oneself with matters and knowledge of other creeds without first solidifying ones own foundation and the primary cause of this is not having a relationship with the Qur'aan. So this is the cause for the doubts and whisperings of Shaytan. An individual needs to be balanced and he first and foremost must solidfy his foundations. Has anyone built a building without first making sure the base and foundation is strong enough to withstand the different tests and trials that will be put up against it? Likewise, our Imaan is also a building. To be able to stand through the different ideological attacks, it needs to first have solid roots. The roots of a tree need water to become strong right? Just like this, the roots of our imaan needs water, and its water is the Qur'aan because the Qur'aan contains everything that a believer needs. It contains the proofs and evidences for Imaan which form the base, it refutes the falsehood of shirk which is the foundation of every other religion and this strengthens the base, and it softens the heart by constant reminders of the aakhirah and Paradise and the Fire which causes the Imaan to rise. Allaah says: {Have you not considered how Allah presents an example, [making] a good word like a good tree, whose root is firmly fixed and its branches [high] in the sky? It produces its fruit all the time, by permission of its Lord. And Allah presents examples for the people that perhaps they will be reminded.}[Ibrahim; 24-5] The good word is 'La illaaha Illallaah" and the good tree refers to the believer whose Imaan is firmly rooted in his heart. So you need to form a relationship with the Qur'an. Recite it, listen to it, memorize it, ponder upon it and make lots of Dua' that Allaah strengthen your Imaan. Do not bother yourself at this stage about learning about other religions, especially the intricate details. Learn Islamic theology and soon you will come to the realization that every other creed falls short. {Our Lord, let not our hearts deviate after You have guided us and grant us from Yourself mercy. Indeed, You are the Bestower.}[ale-Imran; 8] هَلْ جَزَاء الْإِحْسَانِ إِلَّا الْإِحْسَانُ؟ Is there any reward for good other than good? [ar-Rahman: 60] "However, keep in mind that you must instruct the people with kindness and mercy. Don’t take this answer and shove it in their faces. Be kind, gentle and patient." - Imam Suhaib Webb, advising after giving an answer. O Allah, Lord of Jibril, Mika'il and Israfil, Creator of the heavens and the earth, Knower of the unseen and the seen, You will judge between Your servants concerning that wherein they differ. Guide me with regard to that wherein there is dispute concerning the truth by Your leave, for You guide whomsoever You will to the straight path. Oh Allah, I seek refuge in You lest I misguide others, or I am misguided by others, lest I cause others to err or I am caused to err, lest I abuse others or be abused, and lest I behave foolishly or meet with the foolishness of others. |
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| nusrat fanatic Status: Offline Posts: 6,243 Reputation: 28381 Rep Power: 59 Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: California Way of Life: Agnostic | if possible, try to be around believing muslims as much as you can. the re-enforcement can be a very helpful support when the doubts come. (and as far as i know they almost always do at times, for everyone).
__________________as for strengthening your faith in god in general - for me it is helpful to spend some time in nature & appreciate the awesomeness of his creations. each man thinks of his own fleas as gazelles question authority |
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| LI Addict Status: Offline Posts: 7,067 Reputation: 14251 Rep Power: 42 Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: Penang Island, Malaysia Gender: Way of Life: Muslim | keep going on with the research works and discuss it with a Muslim scholar/theologian near you... at least you can compare those research with Islam.
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| To Him I return Status: Offline Posts: 329 Reputation: 931 Rep Power: 10 Join Date: Jul 2007 Gender: Way of Life: Muslim | First thing first - dont give up dont give up dont give up dont give up dont give up dont give up dont give up dont give up dont give up dont give up dont give up dont give up dont give up dont give up dont give up dont give up dont give up dont give up dont give up dont give up dont give up dont give up dont give up dont give up dont give up dont give up dont give up dont give up dont give up I'm 16 and almost 17. and I was suffering with doubts all last year. It was extremely painful to deal with and even more frustrating. At one point Astagfiruallah, I somewhat apostated because of my weak faith at the time. My doubts had come from reading some out of my league debate about evolution and the world..atheism and etc. It got to a point where I just would stop what I was doing and ponder: what am I doing? How do I know Islam is right? a) Allah (swt) is the one who opens our hearts to the Light and Guide Us. He Makes the ones who pray to Him, wise. - pray to God. He opens hearts!! to understanding! slowly you will see the wonders around you. How perfectly Islam fits. I'll try my best InshaAllah to find some links to threads on this site I found helpful to help you. |
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| BanGuLLy Status: Offline Posts: 428 Reputation: 746 Rep Power: 10 Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: Toronto Gender: Way of Life: Muslim | Quote:
A simple message muslims and christians use that affects us: Most muslim scholars say: Fear Allah (Negative) Christians say: God Loves you (Positive) Love conquers hate. ![]() | |
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Online Posts: 369 Reputation: 1247 Rep Power: 11 Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: buuuurmingham Gender: Way of Life: Muslim | I disagree with you bangully, brother i think you should have a balance of both, the christians talk about love all the time, but you need fear inside of you to be a god person... I was watching a programme yesterday, it showed the sufis. they all seemed happy praising allah, but i couldnt see the fear inside of them, |
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