inshaAllah everything will go well for you, and remember you cant please everyone. Do what you believe is right, as you said in the nicest way possible. If you wear the clothes this aunt wants you to, therell be someone else in the family calling you immodest because you dress in such and such a way. Dont give up your beliefs for others, theres too many people to please. So long as you and ur immediate family and your fiance and his family are happy thats enough..

inshaAllah it all goes well for you

thank you

I really did not want to offend you, and I don't think you're an silly little girl. You didn't state so much about the man in question, so I thought maybe I should add an little warning, but no way do I think you wouldn't know that already. InshaAllah, I didn't upset you, if so please forgive me!

About the man in question, he seems very decent mashaAllah! Education, has been to the U.S. and an decent living.. I really see no need for you to get frustrated over what people say. You know the truth, ignore the rest. There might be even a bit of jealousy going on, who knows. Oh they will talk and talk. Just turn an deaf ear. As sister amani said, you can't please everybody.

Make dua, that always helps, elhamdulillah.

InshaAllah, they'll stop talking. Don't worry about being a bad wife or you two having trouble... That's in the future, Allah only knows. What's important is that you are committed and try your best. You'll get to know each other better in time and the best advice is to have patience and always turn to Allah during difficult times.

Oh no you didnt make me angry lol! thank you for your advice, i appreciate it very much!