This is the one question I ask to scholars, Muslims, etc. No one ever gives me a straight answer to this, they always come up with the usual:
"Everyone is beautiful to Allah"
While this may be true, why is it that good looking Muslims have much easier life than ugly Muslims.
I am a physically unattractive Muslim. My friend from Iraq, he is Muslim, and handsome. He gets treated by people differently than I do, he is desired by women, while women say "eww" when they see me.
I can understand that a kafir or unbeliever who is good looking, is in a worse position than me. I can understand that and respect that.
But what I dont understand is, why does Allah make some Muslim men handsome like Yusuf and The Prophet Muhammad. Also I have a few handsome friends. THEY DO NOT COMMIT ADULTERY. They are complimented by women here in the USA, they reject the women and smile but say thank you. THEY FEEL DESIRED AND HAPPY.
Me and my Iraqi friend went to a dance night club one time (I know, haram, I did not do it again)
But anyways, all the women danced with him and even tried kissing him, being so nice to him etc. He was so happy after the club.
Me on the other hand, I couldn't even get a dance, a girl called me "ewww" and I was completely ignored and rejected the whole night.
Why does Allah make some people handsome and others ugly? It may be true, that my good looking Muslim friends are not getting these women anyway because they are rejecting them for the sake of Allah, but they still get the validation that they are attractive, that people like them, I will never get this.
So please, answer my main question, I will put it in bold here:
Why does Allah make some Muslims physically attractive and other Muslims not?