Originally Posted by Abdullahii

Inalillahi wa ina ilayhi raji3oon

absolutely shocking

Sabr brother, Sabr, allah loves those who are patient and they ask, why do men get Hur al een in jannah?? Ok, it's time hide

edit.........

As-Salāmu `Alaykum (السلام عليكم):

Sahih Bukhari Volume 4, Book 55, Number 548:

Narrated Abu Huraira:

Allah 's Apostle said, "Treat women nicely, for a women are created from a rib, and the most curved portion of the rib is its upper portion, so, if you should try to straighten it, it will break, but if you leave it as it is, it will remain crooked. So treat women nicely."

^Masha`Allaah indeed!

Surah Baqarah 2:228

228. And divorced women shall wait (as regards their marriage) for three menstrual periods, and it is not lawful for them to conceal what Allâh has created in their wombs, if they believe in Allâh and the Last Day. And their husbands have the better right to take them back in that period, if they wish for reconciliation. And they (women) have rights (over their husbands as regards living expenses, etc.) similar (to those of their husbands) over them (as regards obedience and respect, etc.) to what is reasonable, but men have a degree (of responsibility) over them. And Allâh is All-Mighty, All-Wise.

As-Salāmu `Alaykum (السلام عليكم):

Surah An Nisa 4:19

19. O you who believe! You are forbidden to inherit women against their will, and you should not treat them with harshness, that you may take away part of the Mahr you have given them, unless they commit open illegal sexual intercourse. And live with them honourably. If you dislike them, it may be that you dislike a thing and Allâh brings through it a great deal of good.
(Dr. Muhammad Muhsin Khan translation)

Salaamz!

Awww all these posts are making me wanna get married now!

Originally Posted by Neelofar

Salaamz!

Awww all these posts are making me wanna get married now!

It's "ideal", not real. ^^

Originally Posted by **muslimah**

It's "ideal", not real. ^^

it can be real!!

Originally Posted by Abdullahii

it can be real!!

Insha'Allah. Allah blesses whom wills.

how do women like to be shown appreciation? lol is it simply telling them "I appreciate what you do" or does it involve buying them something to show your appreciation?

its both...............

like complimenting food she cooks/ if she dressed up, for u to notice, how she keeps home clean etc...just a few small words can mean alot n melt a heart

Originally Posted by **muslimah**

It's "ideal", not real. ^^

As-Salāmu `Alaykum (السلام عليكم):

**muslimah**:

Hopefully you can only speak on your own behalf. You have no idea what is going on in the households of Millions of Muslims worldwide.

As-Salāmu `Alaykum (السلام عليكم):

When your outlook on life in general is confronted with never ending obstacles you don't realize you are the cause and your mind continues to create these false barriers. The type of person no one desires to share the same space.

A pessimist sees the difficulty in every opportunity; an optimist sees the opportunity in every difficulty.

As-Salāmu `Alaykum (السلام عليكم):

Wrong Concept of an Ideal Husband

A look at the matrimonial section of an Islamic magazine will quickly demonstrate that many Muslim men and women do not know what an ideal Muslim husband is. Muslim men looking for wives advertise themselves as doctors, engineers, and financially secure. Muslim women appear to be on the lookout for an established professional or more likely a handsome MD. Rarely do Muslim men and women even mention character, religious convictions, and attitudes as a priority. At most, they might be mentioned as a sidebar. It seems that many of us believe that a man is an ideal Muslim husband if he is handsome, makes a lot of money, and comes from an influential family. And the divorce rate among Muslims continues to rise.

Standard of Judging an Ideal Husband

As Muslims, we must base our judgment on what makes an ideal Muslim husband on the guidance of Allah () and the example of Prophet Muhammad (SAWS), not on the standards of a TV sitcom, the culture in which we were born, or our own materialistic mentality.

source: http://www.soundvision.com/Info/Isla...iage.ideal.asp

As-Salāmu `Alaykum (السلام عليكم):

What is your view of an Ideal Muslim husband?