Re: Help... I'm driving myself to a unhealthy path
This doesn't always mean that when you face a difficulty the relief comes after. It says WITH difficulty there is relief see? Meaning, there must be something ur not seeing, the relief is right there. If you can see or feel something is difficult and is causing you hardship, surely there is ease and good as well because we cannot see good without bad. You cannot see black without white.
Originally Posted by flowergarden
What I'm trying to say is, it's NOT all bad, there is good there, you just have to learn to see it. Take the pain and frustration and grow from it sister. Allah tests those he loves, every experience we have is an opportunity to come close to HIM. If you are hurting, ask yourself why. It's usually because we refuse to accept what IS, living in the past, or are worried about what everyone else may think (ie: cultural pressures etc), things that are out of your control. You can only change yourself and your mind, you can choose to be upset or see your situation in a different light. You alive now, Alhamdullilah, every day is an opportunity to correct a wrong we've done, the past is the past and that's where it belongs, the future is unknown to you so no sense in worrying about that either. Youc an only do something about right now.
Hope this helps in some way insha Allah.
May Allah Make it easy for you. Ameen.
Last edited by cOsMiCiNtUiTiOn; 11-16-2012 at 03:23 PM.
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