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| LI Senior Member Status: Offline Posts: 372 Reputation: 529 Rep Power: 15 Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: Canada Gender: Way of Life: Muslim | Were not really gaining anything from saying "Oh I saw a Hijabi with tight clothes on the street" or "I saw a brother with such and such a clothes".
__________________If you know someone who doesn't wear the proper Islamic clothing take them aside and advise them, show them where you are getting your daleel from. You'd be suprised at how many people just don't know what is proper Islamic clothing and think it is okay to wear t-shirt and a Hijab they just haven't been taught or the people around them are too scared to say it because they think the person will get angry. And I'm sure many of us have been guilty of not wearing proper Islamic clothes at one point or another. So for everyone here I am sure you know some people in your life whether it be your friend, mother/father..etc that does not dress properly. Did you advise them? Or do you wait to go on the internet and talk about seeing an improperly dressed person on the street. ![]() This dunya is like a shadow. If you try to catch it, you will never be able to do so. If you turn your back towards it, it has no choice but to follow you. Ibn Qayyim Al-Jawziyyah |
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| LI Senior Member Status: Offline Posts: 271 Reputation: 1639 Rep Power: 11 Join Date: Aug 2007 Gender: Way of Life: Muslim | read this Khutbah delivered by Sheikh Saud Ash-Shuraim in Masjid Al-Haram in Makkah. It is called Save The Women. http://www.khalidmosque.com/en/modul...rtid=64&page=1 Masha'Allah its awesome and definetly authentic! |
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| LI Oldtimer Status: Offline Posts: 613 Reputation: 2281 Rep Power: 5 Join Date: Jun 2008 Gender: Way of Life: Muslim | Quote:
and sitting here tslking about them on this forum is backbiting!!! Ya Allah swt have mercy on all the sisters and brothers of our ummah for backbiting!!!! | |
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| Hanafi Status: Offline Posts: 3,847 Reputation: 37291 Rep Power: 66 Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: Finland Gender: Way of Life: Muslim | Quote:
Selam aleykum we rahmetallahu we berekathu, Bismillahi rahmani rahiim! Quote:
Imam al-Barkawi said in his masterpiece on the operationalization of taqwa, al-Tariqa al-Muhammadiyya,But in any case, it is not good to join in an discussion fiercly/a lot or at all, when talking about the defects of others, even though it [the discussion] isn't included in the sin of backbiting. It is an error in judgment to engage in such discussion. We know nothing about the hearts of those persons. We gotta ask ourselves, who is worse, the one who made the fire or the one who let it burn even though it could have been stopped [by this person]? And would you want someone talking about your mistakes and flaws, while you away from the eyes of people constantly ask for forgiveness and guidance from the Lord? "Safety lies is holding fast to the counsel of the Prophet (Allah bless him and give him peace), "Whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day should say that which is good or remain silent." And he said, "Whoever is silent is saved." And, "From the excellence of a man's Islam is to leave that which does not concern him." The scholars explain "that which concerns him" as being anything in which there is a real worldly or next-worldly benefit."Rather just ask each other to pray for the people to get guided and to keep you guided aswell, inshaAllah. Standing in the middle of a tornado, feeling serenity inside of me. Around me there's chaos, Yet I remain at peace. | ||
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