sweetheart

we have this saying, my mum says it

when their is a fire raging, ur cant expect the rain to fall miraculously from the sky!

meaning, things have to burn, get worser, alot worser before they get better, a bit like a phonix burning and rising anew from its ashes (HARRY POTTER hmmm lol).

Ur father...what can i say.....

lol sis ur cute crazy not mean crazy
shaitan doesnt leave anyone alone
and like u said...allah never ignores, he listens........*coughcoughtoeveryonebutmecough*
aw noway he doesnt ignore me either actually, he sits there setting up my grave punishment and my hell seat with a beautful hot glass of boiling water. how kind

yeh but its liek hellfire, never turns off until allah wants it to.
meaning allah right now could be making me stray away from islam completely.

after all....

he is the all seeing all hearing, all forgiving and patient, and powerful and has everything under HIS control...

whoah :|



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*digests info*

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so, your feeling neglected because you get blamed for anything that goes wrong and get shouted at and stuff and things just aint working out.

your making dua' to Allaah and Allaah aint sending you those miracles you wanted oh so badly. So now you reckon Allahs sittin their brewin some hell up for ya.


sis im sure most people at some point of their lives go through a blaming spree. I know i , as the youngest of the family, got blamed LOOOAAADS, heck i didnt even care most of the times coz i mighta deserved it :| but even when i didnt i just cried about it n thought "no biggie".

personally if my parents got divorced and blamed me for it i would just crack up thinking "LOL AND BUSH AINT STUPID" ie could you be anymore off target?

ok i might be sounding mean and im sorry for that but what im trying to say is as long as YOU know what YOU are and how YOU feel inside and act, thats what matters ! just keep ourself straight and flip others if they wanna twist you up !


and about Allah not listening....


ok check this you know LUT alaihissalaam right. He had to deal with the fags, rememba? Allah sent three angels to hear his testimony against his people before letting them be destroyed. So Lut alaihissalaam had to say in front of these three angels that all of his people are mislead evil people. So what happened is Lut's daughter saw the three angels who appeared to be three beautiful handsome man (Bound to attract some homo's) so she quickly called her father who came rushing to them and invited them to his home (out of fear that some homo's might want a piece o them if they wonder around). So on the way home Lut alaihissalaam kept telling these three angels how evil his people are and how he never met anyone worser in his life (hoping to repel them from staying any longer, he didnt wanna be rude and just tell them to go away coz they'd think his such a rude man who doesnt want to host them, but he was hoping they would fear the town from his warnings... but these are angels who were recording the evil... so that they could get Allah's consent to deal with them !)

Anyway so they all sit for a meal, when all of a sudden the gays come marching, calling out the beautiful men, banging on the door trying to force their way in. Lut alaihissalaam resisted and resisted to the point where he said

"If only i had a power to lean on"

*PAUSE*

just hold on a second, ALL this time Lut alaihissalaam had 3 powerful angels with him. Jibrail was one o them ! But... he didnt know? the help of Allah was ALWAYS NEAR!!! He just couldnt see it! how much near could it be then three angels right next to him???

sis do you have any idea how close the help of ALlaah is to you? Just because its not in visible effect right now DONT MEAN NOTHING!

ALLAHS HELP IS ALWAYS NEAR>>> ALWAYS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!




inshaAllaah read the lives of the prophets, i read em every night.... it gives so much strength and understanding.

Assalamu Alaikum

oh wow i never actually read the entire story of lut (as) jazakallah khair
but he's a prophet.
ok i'll continue, repenting, bla bla, all that stuff thats never worked, and i'll sit here hoping for something of that to work...like istikhaarah, forgiveness , all that.

Jazakumallah khair..

and serene , i told u i give up easily, i dont even care if the shaitan wins anymore, considering i have doubt about the shaitan hmslef....

^ not the "but his a prophet" excuse again *smack*

ok if you compare your ordeals to that of a prophets your one is NOTHING, so yeah he was a prophet and your not. HE HAD TO DEAL WITH MUCH MORE THEN YOU DO!

so now that we got things in perspective, realise that your reeeaaally over exagerrating, problems happen in life but we suppose to find strength to get through em !!

please please please read the lives of the prophets!!!! its aaalll over the place even on this forum!


aaand... CHILL OUT! i can feel your heat wave from your hot head aaaalll the way from there.

seriously, just sit down wiv a glass of water (If u can chill in your house then chill in the park) and just be CALM! think ! trust me, it'll get better


when things go down they come up, ia int being corny ITS TRUE! so relax, it'll get better !

yeh i kno , see the prophets had to go thru things because theyr prophets and ther goal was to spread islam and peace.
not me. im nothing compared to them.
yeh and right when i get that glass of water my dad wil tell me to call my mum an aall..and there ya go. i jus ended a phone call like two seconds ago, and my mum is so mad, and my dad is so annoyingly crazy. goddd. im glad my mum got to get away from him for once in her 18 horrible years of staying with him. how do she deal wit him/>????


and dont say "trust me itll get better" because i cant trust nobody. and nothing does get better.

jazakallah khair

You know, there is actually a dua you can read for doubt. Here:

Why should I pray when Allah doesn't help? There was a time a couple of years ago, when I was thinking the same things as you. I wasn't practicing then, Astaghfirullah... even though I always knew that I had to pray salah and try and be a good muslim, I persistantly kept on delaying it.

So, after living a mostly obedience-less life... back in 2006, I reached a rock bottom of sorts... everything seemed hopeless. I had nothing in life.

The only thing I could think of doing, was submitting to the will of Allah. I knew that it was due to Allah that I was in that position, so thought to myself, why not just give it my all? Pray sincerely and humbly and with as much faith and trust that I could muster. I had nothing to lose anyway.

What I found, was that the time when I was the most sincere in my worship and trust, things really went my way, Alhamdulilah. Allah got me out of that pit I was in and Alhamdulilah, my life has changed for the better.

Unfortunately, I have since lost that sincerity that I used to enjoy back then and you know what? Things don't go my way so much. What does that tell me? It tells me that it is up to ME to be as good a worshiper of Allah, for good to happen to me.

Believe me, Allah DOES help. You just need to TRUST Allah, no matter WHAT the odds are.

Do you know that one of the criterion for your duas being accepted is that when you make dua, you have to believe FIRMLY that Allah has listened and WILL answer it? After all, what's the point in making dua, when you think it's not going to be answered?

EVEN if on the surface, it seems that the dua has not been answered, you should hold on to the attributes of Allah, that he is ALL-WISE and realise that he is withholding on it for your own benefit and that it will be answered in a manner that is more beneficial for you.

You know, I really can emphasise with you and the pain you are feeling. My upbringing hasn't exactly been that rosy either, but Alhamdulilah, I realise that if I hadn't had the upbringing that I did, I wouldn't have been half as mindful of Allah as I am now. I wouldn't be nearly as patient as I am now.

I believe that by constantly testing you, Allah is teaching you patience. Consider yourself blessed, there are a loot of people who wouldn't have the patience to bear what you do, MashaAllah. Allah doesn't burden a soul more than it can bear.

Before coming on this forum, I used to think it was very rare that people had difficult lives. But from the time that I've been here till now, sooo many people have posted their problems and I've seen people who have experienced MUCH worser lives than me, YET they have stronger iman and are better muslims than I am. Makes you think...

From my experience, Allah helped me most when I turned to him whole-heartedly. I honestly believe that if you do the same, never ever doubting him, then he WILL make things easy for you, inshaAllah.

If you have doubt when turning to Allah, then OF COURSE your duas will be worthless!

That's why, when you make dua, you make it as though you are in front of Allah and that Allah is listening. DON'T just say words and believe that's all there is to it.

From my experience, Allah helped me most when I turned to him whole-heartedly. I honestly believe that if you do the same, never ever doubting him, then he WILL make things easy for you, inshaAllah.

If you have doubt when turning to Allah, then OF COURSE your duas will be worthless!

That's why, when you make dua, you make it as though you are in front of Allah and that Allah is listening. DON'T just say words and believe that's all there is to it.[/quote]

true............

i think alot of poeple think that they are the only ones with the problems but once they share their problems with others thats wen they realise that the whole world is drowned in problems....

some of them they share and find a salution (like you masha allah#~) and some just keeps it n their hearts and live with it.....

share your problem with some one and make it half share it with 3 and make it a third...

<---- first true smile in 5 monthes.

Jazakallah khair both of u
InshAllah i can be more "islamic" and all.
and showing a real example bro alpha, that actually is so ...em...i duno the word. u kno what i mean though
I will try and not give up , all that... yeh
ok jazakallah khair

Alhamdulillah



^ cheer up and be happy
smile

ohh god i hate life.
and yes i m bearing with it.
boiling water splashed in my eye, burnt my skin, i have a huuuuuuge headache, i feel sickkk...which is bad because i will break my record of people knowing when i get sick!! five years and now it about to break. NOOOO!! we have a MIDNIGHT to pack all the luggage to go to yemen all because my dad sucks at listening to people and goes either his way or his way.
everyone is being annoying
im very very very very very very very very very... very angry.
i cannooooooooooooooooot take anger!!
but thank god i let it out in my tears instead of peoples blood.
and its freakin drivin me crazy i swear!!! i wanna kill someone, break something, do something, leave something, get ouuuuuuuuuutttttttttt!!!

ayat al kursi isnt working, non of that angel stuf isnt working. whyyy ya allah!

Allah creates the solution first and then gives the problems, Alhamdulillah.
Shaitan challenged about the prophet Ayyub alaihiwasallam but he could not win no matter what the shaitan did. When there is love for Allah in heart Shaitan can never win over the person no matter how biggggggggggggg the problem is.
We should learn from the story of Ayyub alaihiwasallam.
Allah tests us to higher our status in heaven.
We will soon die, and this dunya and everything else with it is gonna vanish.
If u cant bear this tests of life then think how much worser than ur problem is hell, hell is not even comparable.
U want to let Shaitan win over you and let him take u to hell wid him or u want to be patient till the sun shines in ur life and expect heaven? The choice is yours...
I can only pray with my heart open and from the core of my heart I pray for u so that u can B patient at this harsh moment of your life and seek for only Allah's satisfaction.
Love you only for the sake of Allah.
Making dua so that your problems go away just like the dark clouds in the sky of your life and so that the golden linings (not silver) appears. Ameen

you know enough to get you through this..