Umm Hakim 
Umm Hakim bint al-Harith, the wife of `Ikramah ibn Abu Jahl accepted Islam on the day of the Conquest of Makkah. Her husband had already fled to Yemen. The Prophet salAllahu `alayhi wa sallam ordered his death because of the actions he carried out against Islam and the Muslims.
She requested his safe passage from the Noble Prophet salAllahu `alayhi wa sallam and met with him, ordering him to go before the Messenger of Allah and accept Islam. She did not leave him until, by the grace of Allah, he died as he wanted.
al-Hafidh ibn `Abdul Barr said, 'She accepted Islam on the day of the Conquest of Makkah and requested safe passage for her husband `Ikramah from the Prophet; at that time he fled to Yemen, so she left to search for him and stayed with him until he accepted Islam, and they continued with their marriage.' [1]
In some narrations there are details on how she encouraged her husband to accept Islam and what she warned him of if he turned away. Among these narrations is that she said to him, 'O son of my uncle! I come to you from the most pious of people, the best of people, do not destroy yourself!' [2]
In another narration, 'So I caught up with him and he had just boarded a ship so I called him, "O son of my uncle! This is an agreement with me from the Messenger of Allah! If you accept Islam and accept the protection of the Messenger of Allah, then I will be your wife. If not, then the bond of marriage will be broken between us.'[3]
In another narration, '`Ikramah began to request the presence of his wife; he wished to sleep with her and she refused and said, "You are a disbeliever and I am a Muslimah." [4]
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Among the points of benefit from this story:The great importance that Umm Hakim placed on the entry of her husband into Islam. She proved this by asking the permission of the Messenger of Allah first, and then leaving to search for her husband in Yemen. Another point is the kindness and counsel she showed in her husband's acceptance of Islam and the way she encouraged him to enter into Islam by describing the great character of the Noble Messenger. She also demonstrated her seriousness through the warning she gave to her husband about seperation and her refusal of allowing him to touch her before he accepted Islam.
Another great demonstration of 'unity with the believers and seperation from the disbelievers', as Umm Hakim told her husband she would only be his if he accepted Islam and there would be no relationship between them if he continued his disbelief and oppression.
Her steadfastness and firmness in the religion of Allah, shown by her refusal to allow her desire and emotions overcome her and let `Ikramah touch her while he remained a disbeliever.
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[1] al-Isti`ab fi Ma`rifah al-Ashab (4/1932). See also Asad al-Ghaba fi Ma`rifah as-Sahabah by Ibn al-Athir (2/321), and Tarikh al-Islam by Adh-Dhahabi, al-Maghazi pp. 560, and al-Isabah fi Tamyiz as-Sahabah (8/225).
[2] Tarikh ibn `Asakir (11/755-756)
[3]ibid. (11/754)
[4] ibid. (11/756)