Ok, sis mawaddah,
hadeeth jaabir when the prophet entered upon umm saa'ib and she had a fever and the prophet alayhi salaatu wassalam said, whats wrong with you? she replied the fever may Allah digrace it, the prophet said don't say that for verily it removes the faults of the muslim...rawaahu muslim.

ok hadeeth Aisha radhiyaAllahu anhaa that when her father Abu Bakr radhiyaAllahu anhu would feel ill she would ask how are you o my father, and when the fever overtook him he would say:
everyone enters the morning with his family
and death is under his shoe laces

and Bilaal in the same hadeeth would raise his voice and say a poem, talking about the valleys of medina (they were homesick)

Bukhaari made a chapter in adab al mufrad (chapter: is the saying of the sick one: "verily i am in pain" complaining?
Then under that he mentioned hadeeth when asmaa bint abee bakr was sick and it was 10 days before her son Abdullahi bin zubair was killed, abdullah said to her, how are you, she said, verily i am in pain.

als hadeeth abee sa3eedin alkhudhree, that when he entered upon the prophet alayhi salaatu wasslam, he had a blanket on him, abu sa3eed put his hand on him, then he said o messenger of Allah what a strong fever you have, the prophet alayhi salaatu wasssalam said, verily we are like that (prophets) our trials are greater and rewards are doubled...alhadeeth
This shows us that Bukhaari rahimahullah sees its permissable to do this as he mentioned ahadeeth answering the heading positively, and didn't bring ahadeeth that showed we can't. (let me knoe if you get what i'm saying)
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Hadeeth aisha too, when she cried over the prophet (when he was dying) he alayhi salaatu wassalaam said, laa ilaaha illa laah inna fil mawti lasakaraat.
There is no God but Allah, verily in death theres agony.

Like bro mentioned it can't involving complaining about fate (tassakhut bi agdaarillaah), and saying things like o why me etc.

I hope that answered your question sis maw.

ass salaamu alaykum

yeah sis, i guess you're right..

give the next question inshaAllah

Nah you ask sis, araash ba3dayn anee khaarija, wassalaam.

wa alaykum ass salaam

joker!! ....okay i'm abit busy i'll post one up in a tik inshaAllah!!

Masha'allah umm_sulaim that's a great answer!! ( I would've said jawaaban mumtaazan but amirah said that there's no arab talking in the thread )

So Princess!! you take your sisters place and post up a question!!

I'm waiting.........dont keep me waiting too long.......

ma3asalaamh guys, save a question for me, lol thx mawaddah!

so much for a tick, one hour :rant:

I'll put up the next Question since Princess is not here Insha'allah


Give me a daleel which states that it is Haram to point at a fellow Beleiver with a sharp object

ass salaamu alaykum

..EDITED...no probs maw!!...we'll answer yours instead

sorry bout that guys!! ( the lateness)

ass salaamu alaykum

if i can recall it ...i think it was hadeeth ibn 3abbaas....the prophet salalaahu 3alayhi wassalam prohibited us to point @ someone with a sharp object *it said hadeed in the hadeeth*

and it's in the saheehayn

.............right

Well the hadeeth that I know is not from Ibn Abbas but it's from Abi Hurairah and it goes :

One of you should not point towards his brother with a weapon, For verily he does not know that maybe the Shaitaan will Jerk in from his hand (thus harming his brother) And he will land himself into a hole of fire

And for Muslim it says :

Whoever points towards his Muslim brother with a weapon then verily the angels curse him until he lowers his weapon, Even if it is his brother from his mother or father

Ok you get the next go Princess

ASS SALAAMU ALAYKUM

ok kool inshaAllah!!!....

next question guys ..would be...
.Give me a hadeeth that mentions you should say bismillah when you start to eat or drink??

`Umar bin Abu Salamah (May Allah be pleased with him) reported: Messenger of Allah (PBUH), said to me, "Mention Allah's Name (i.e., say Bismillah before starting eating), eat with your right hand, and eat from what is near you.''
[Al-Bukhari and Muslim].

Now give me one which says that u shud love for your brother what u love for yourself

ass salaamu alaykum

mahsaAllah akhee...you should cum one here more often then ey??

i'm on to it...*your question*

lol...I should come on here more