LI Islamic Forum  
 
Powered by: MuslimPages
Add your business
 


Notices
Manners and Purification of the Soul Islamic manners, etiquettes and character; seeking repentance, supplication and drawing closer to Allah

Reply
 
LinkBack Thread Tools Display Modes
Old
  (#1 (permalink))
chacha_jalebi
 
chacha_jalebi's Avatar
 
Status: Offline
Posts: 4,252
Reputation: 31756
Rep Power: 59
chacha_jalebi has a reputation beyond reputechacha_jalebi has a reputation beyond reputechacha_jalebi has a reputation beyond reputechacha_jalebi has a reputation beyond reputechacha_jalebi has a reputation beyond reputechacha_jalebi has a reputation beyond reputechacha_jalebi has a reputation beyond reputechacha_jalebi has a reputation beyond reputechacha_jalebi has a reputation beyond reputechacha_jalebi has a reputation beyond reputechacha_jalebi has a reputation beyond repute
Join Date: Apr 2006
Location: Ambala Boxes :(
Gender:Brother In Islam
Way of Life: Muslim
Default Manners Of Sitting Down - 05-02-2007

salaam

Diggidy Diggidy Ya Best Check Yaselfs Before Wreck Yaselfs

Islam mashallah is complete, like it tells us how to do everything

And these are the manners of how we should sit

Ibn `Umar (May Allah be pleased with them) reported: I saw Messenger of Allah (PBUH) sitting in the compound of the Holy Ka`bah, with the thighs against the stomach and arms around his legs.
[Al-Bukhari]

Qailah bint Makhramah (May Allah be pleased with her) reported: I saw the Prophet (PBUH) seated with his arms enfolding his legs; and when I saw him in such a state of humble guise I trembled with fear due to the awe (he showed in that posture).
[At-Tirmidhi]

Ash-Sharid bin Suwaid (May Allah be pleased with him) reported: Messenger of Allah (PBUH) passed by me when I was sitting with my left hand behind my back and leaning on my palm. On seeing me in this posture he said, "Do you sit like those upon whom the Wrath of Allah has descended?''
[Abu Dawud]

Ibn `Umar (May Allah be pleased with them) reported: Messenger of Allah (PBUH) said, "Do not ask someone to give up his seat in order to take it, but make accommodation wide and sit at ease.'' It was Ibn `Umar's habit that if a person left his seat for him, he would not take it.
[Al-Bukhari and Muslim]

so when our aunties and uncliess stand infront of us and wait for us to get up, we should tell them this hadiths

Abu Hurairah (May Allah be pleased with him) reported: Messenger of Allah (PBUH) said, "If someone leaves his seat (for one reason or another) and returns to it, he is better entitled to it.''
[Muslim]

This is propa common nowadays lol, like in the mosque you might go to put the Quran back on the shelf and when you come back some uncles taken your seat , so we shouldn’t do it and we should make others aware in a nice way aswell, like don’t switch just tell them nicely

Salman Al-Farisi (May Allah be pleased with him) reported: Messenger of Allah (PBUH) said, "If a man takes a bath on Friday, purifies himself thoroughly, uses oil and perfume which is available in the house, sets forth for the mosque, does not (forcibly) sit between two persons, offers the prayer that is prescribed for him and listens to the Imam silently, his sins between this Friday and the previous Friday will be forgiven.''
[Al-Bukhari]

Amr bin Shu`aib on the authority of his father and grandfather reported: Messenger of Allah (PBUH) said, "It is not permissible for a person to sit between two people without their permission.''
[At-Tirmidhi]

Again, we might do this when theres not a lot of space somewhere, again we should ask them then sit, and there is a warning for this . . . .

Hudhaifah bin Al-Yaman (May Allah be pleased with him) reported: Whosoever takes seat in the midst of an assembly has been cursed by Messenger of Allah (PBUH) The Messenger of Allah curses the one who sits in the middle of people's circle.
[Abu Dawud]

Abu Sa`id Al-Khudri (May Allah be pleased with him) reported: I heard Messenger of Allah (PBUH) saying "The best assemblies are those in which people make room for one another.''
[Abu Dawud]

hope this is useful
__________________
Jaa-Ro-Nee-Mo!!!


"they ask you when will the help of Allah (swt) come! Certainly Allah (Swt) help is always near"

Surah al Baqarah v214



SMILE
   
Reply With Quote
Old
  (#2 (permalink))
skhalid
The One and Only
 
skhalid's Avatar
 
Status: Offline
Posts: 604
Reputation: 840
Rep Power: 13
skhalid is a splendid one to beholdskhalid is a splendid one to beholdskhalid is a splendid one to beholdskhalid is a splendid one to beholdskhalid is a splendid one to beholdskhalid is a splendid one to beholdskhalid is a splendid one to behold
Join Date: Jan 2007
Gender:Sister In Islam
Way of Life: Muslim
Default Re: Manners Of Sitting Down - 05-02-2007

hey...cross your legs...have some manners!!!
   
Reply With Quote
Old
  (#3 (permalink))
Pk_#2
Account Disabled
 
Pk_#2's Avatar
 
Status: Offline
Posts: 8,738
Reputation: 37754
Rep Power: 0
Pk_#2 has a reputation beyond reputePk_#2 has a reputation beyond reputePk_#2 has a reputation beyond reputePk_#2 has a reputation beyond reputePk_#2 has a reputation beyond reputePk_#2 has a reputation beyond reputePk_#2 has a reputation beyond reputePk_#2 has a reputation beyond reputePk_#2 has a reputation beyond reputePk_#2 has a reputation beyond reputePk_#2 has a reputation beyond repute
Join Date: Dec 2005
Location: UK
Way of Life: Undisclosed
Cool Re: Manners Of Sitting Down - 05-02-2007

AsalamuALaykum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh,

That was good you know
   
Reply With Quote
Old
  (#4 (permalink))
Fighting4Iman
Fighting4Emaan
 
Fighting4Iman's Avatar
 
Status: Offline
Posts: 15,934
Reputation: 47861
Rep Power: 91
Fighting4Iman has a reputation beyond reputeFighting4Iman has a reputation beyond reputeFighting4Iman has a reputation beyond reputeFighting4Iman has a reputation beyond reputeFighting4Iman has a reputation beyond reputeFighting4Iman has a reputation beyond reputeFighting4Iman has a reputation beyond reputeFighting4Iman has a reputation beyond reputeFighting4Iman has a reputation beyond reputeFighting4Iman has a reputation beyond reputeFighting4Iman has a reputation beyond repute
Join Date: Feb 2006
Location: Fighting4Emaan
Gender:Brother In Islam
Way of Life: Muslim
Default Re: Manners Of Sitting Down - 05-02-2007

Abu Hurairah (May Allah be pleased with him) reported: Messenger of Allah (PBUH) said, "If someone leaves his seat (for one reason or another) and returns to it, he is better entitled to it.''
[Muslim]


: D


hehe
__________________
-Fighting for my Emaan-
-You Cant Hurt Me . I Can Only Hurt Myself -
   
Reply With Quote
Old
  (#5 (permalink))
Al Habeshi
Eesa Abdullah
 
Al Habeshi's Avatar
 
Status: Offline
Posts: 5,784
Reputation: 22602
Rep Power: 51
Al Habeshi has a reputation beyond reputeAl Habeshi has a reputation beyond reputeAl Habeshi has a reputation beyond reputeAl Habeshi has a reputation beyond reputeAl Habeshi has a reputation beyond reputeAl Habeshi has a reputation beyond reputeAl Habeshi has a reputation beyond reputeAl Habeshi has a reputation beyond reputeAl Habeshi has a reputation beyond reputeAl Habeshi has a reputation beyond reputeAl Habeshi has a reputation beyond repute
Join Date: Jan 2006
Gender:Brother In Islam
Way of Life: Muslim
Default Re: Manners Of Sitting Down - 05-02-2007

Quote:
Originally Posted by IbnAbdulHakim View Post
Abu Hurairah (May Allah be pleased with him) reported: Messenger of Allah (PBUH) said, "If someone leaves his seat (for one reason or another) and returns to it, he is better entitled to it.''
[Muslim]


: D


hehe
Shame some people will take your seat even when your sitting in it!
__________________
إتبعوا ولا تبتدعوا، فقدكفيتم، وكل بدعة ضلالة
Follow (the Sunnah) and do not innovate (into it), for verily you have been sufficed.
And every innovation is a misguidance.



Confused about which religion is true? How can I know?

Come and check out some proposed fundamental principles (#1 , #2) to aid you in making a decision.
   
Reply With Quote
Old
  (#6 (permalink))
Mawaddah
Patience is the Key
 
Mawaddah's Avatar
 
Status: Offline
Posts: 4,253
Reputation: 15120
Rep Power: 41
Mawaddah has a reputation beyond reputeMawaddah has a reputation beyond reputeMawaddah has a reputation beyond reputeMawaddah has a reputation beyond reputeMawaddah has a reputation beyond reputeMawaddah has a reputation beyond reputeMawaddah has a reputation beyond reputeMawaddah has a reputation beyond reputeMawaddah has a reputation beyond reputeMawaddah has a reputation beyond reputeMawaddah has a reputation beyond repute
Join Date: Dec 2005
Location: Currently in Malaysia
Gender:Sister In Islam
Way of Life: Muslim
Default Re: Manners Of Sitting Down - 05-02-2007

^ Tell me about it! I've had some people actually push me over out of my place! Allah Yahdeena wa iyyahum Ameen.

Brother Chacha I loved this post Masha'allah. However i'm wondering now about this hadeeth:

Quote:
Ash-Sharid bin Suwaid (May Allah be pleased with him) reported: Messenger of Allah (PBUH) passed by me when I was sitting with my left hand behind my back and leaning on my palm. On seeing me in this posture he said, "Do you sit like those upon whom the Wrath of Allah has descended?''
Isn't that like when you put your hands behind you and lean back? Does this hadeeth mean prohibition I wonder....
__________________
   
Reply With Quote
Old
  (#7 (permalink))
chacha_jalebi
 
chacha_jalebi's Avatar
 
Status: Offline
Posts: 4,252
Reputation: 31756
Rep Power: 59
chacha_jalebi has a reputation beyond reputechacha_jalebi has a reputation beyond reputechacha_jalebi has a reputation beyond reputechacha_jalebi has a reputation beyond reputechacha_jalebi has a reputation beyond reputechacha_jalebi has a reputation beyond reputechacha_jalebi has a reputation beyond reputechacha_jalebi has a reputation beyond reputechacha_jalebi has a reputation beyond reputechacha_jalebi has a reputation beyond reputechacha_jalebi has a reputation beyond repute
Join Date: Apr 2006
Location: Ambala Boxes :(
Gender:Brother In Islam
Way of Life: Muslim
Default Re: Manners Of Sitting Down - 05-02-2007

^ the romans i.e christians used to sit like that, like its kind of arrogrant and a proud way to sit like your body pushed out, its kind of like your proud, so thats why i think its prohibited and we should differ ourselfs from the kuffar innit, the wrath of Allah (swt) is on the people, i think these people implies the jews and christians, so we shouldnt imitate them or be like them,


and it also depends on your niyyah innit, like you might jus be sitting like that normally without thinkin anythin of it, so im not sure whether its prohibited and Allah hu Alim
__________________
Jaa-Ro-Nee-Mo!!!


"they ask you when will the help of Allah (swt) come! Certainly Allah (Swt) help is always near"

Surah al Baqarah v214



SMILE

Last edited by chacha_jalebi; 05-02-2007 at 06:12 PM.
   
Reply With Quote
Reply

Thread Tools
Display Modes

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are On
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are On




Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.7.3
Copyright ©2000 - 2008, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.
LinkBacks Enabled by vBSEO 3.0.0
vBulletin Skin developed by: vBStyles.com

Page generated in 0.62145 seconds with 10 queries