Interaction between Men and Women on the Internet – Some Guidelines - Page 5

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Quote:

Originally Posted by HumbleServant

FRIENDSHIP AND LOVE BETWEEN A MAN AND A WOMAN

Question :

I know keeping girlfriend will destroy the family and so on but what if we were just friends secretly were no one knew. this way we will we will stay togethr until marraige and we can garentee we wont perform any zinna. are there any cases in the old times of love .

Answer :

Praise be to Allaah.

Firstly:

Taking a girlfriend does not only destroy the family, it destroys society, and those who do this are threatened with the punishment and wrath of Allaah. Love is a sickness that destroys the heart and leads to evil and immorality. The Shaytaan will keep tempting them and pushing them until they commit immoral actions and thus each gets what he or she wants from the other.

Thank you for your post. Now i know what should i do with my love life

XxFaithxX

Thats a very informative post!
I personally think that opposite genders should only talk if there is a need to.
Things can sometimes get out of hand even if your intentions were good to begin with.
I know this from personal experience.

'If any two people of the opposite sex are together in a closed space, then the 3rd person is shaytaan'

Jazakallah

Laila100

We humans are making mistake every now and then, and following the footsteps of shaitan without even knowing dat. Shaitans footsteps are everwhere around us.
May Allah help all of us.
Ameen

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XxFaithxX Limited Member Status: Offline Posts: 15 Reputation: 159 Rep Power: 0 Join Date: May 2008 Location: Resting in the Shade..~ Gender: Way of Life: Muslim	Re: Interaction between Men and Women on the Internet – Some Guidelines - 4 Weeks Ago Thats a very informative post! I personally think that opposite genders should only talk if there is a need to. Things can sometimes get out of hand even if your intentions were good to begin with. I know this from personal experience. 'If any two people of the opposite sex are together in a closed space, then the 3rd person is shaytaan' Jazakallah

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Laila100 LI teens Status: Offline Posts: 64 Reputation: 352 Rep Power: 1 Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: in dunya...worshipping only Allah Subhaanua ta'ala Gender: Way of Life: Muslim	Re: Interaction between Men and Women on the Internet – Some Guidelines - 4 Weeks Ago We humans are making mistake every now and then, and following the footsteps of shaitan without even knowing dat. Shaitans footsteps are everwhere around us. May Allah help all of us. Ameen