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| Wal Qu'raanil Hakeem Status: Offline Posts: 395 Reputation: 548 Rep Power: 23 Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: New York Gender: Way of Life: Muslim | Your parents need to realize something: In Islam, we give up ALOT of things that we would normally love to do for the sake of Allah. In return, he gives us what he owes us and 1000x the pleasure in paradise. Music may be prohibited here, but in paradise, it is rampant. The hoors in paradise sing all day long. The same can be thought of other things. There are two reasons why something is prohibited- either it causes us a great deal of harm (smoking) or because Allah wants to test us (music). Let's give it up in this life so we can get it in the next life.
"It will be said to the pious believers in Islamic Monotheism: 'Oh you, the one in complete rest and satisfaction! Come back to your Lord well rested and well pleased! Enter you among my honored servants! And enter you my paradise! Al-Fajr, 27-30 |
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| Account Disabled Status: Offline Posts: 8,738 Reputation: 37754 Rep Power: 0 Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: UK Way of Life: Undisclosed | Quote:
Just when stating that you agree 100% with his parents sounded harsh, but you don't have to disagree with them, i just dunno why you said that, Fishmans nice so he didn't reply, but it kinda ticked me off nevermind peace! | |
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| Return to Quran Status: Offline Posts: 639 Reputation: 620 Rep Power: 16 Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Islamabad, Pakistan Gender: Way of Life: Muslim | Quote:
I'm afraid if i am trying to prove to everyone that whatever is prohibited in islam has a scientific explanation, it's not really going to work. The earlier the people get the message that islam is based on words of Allah and teaching of prophet (sallallahu alaihe wasallam), the better. Quote from Sura Ahzab Ayah 36.... It is not for a believer, man or woman, when Allāh and His Messenger have decreed a matter that they should have any option in their decision. And whoever disobeys Allāh and His Messenger, he has indeed strayed in a plain error. I'm pretty sure this answer won't satisfy many inquisitive minds, but the prohibitions and allowances are primarily based on Allah and His Messenger's orders, not on scientific advantages or disadvantages. You have shown great courage in your quest to embrace islam...MashAllah. May Allah help us all be guided on the straight path. Ameen | |
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| Account Disabled Status: Offline Posts: 8,738 Reputation: 37754 Rep Power: 0 Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: UK Way of Life: Undisclosed | Well you know the reason i included effects of music was because his rents are non-Muslims and might find it hard to understand that 'Music is haraam (forbiddon) full stop' And the fact that he won't have reasons to back it up, they might say stuff to reassure him that Islams not the right religion for him and stuff, but really it should be the other way round, he should now be trying to convince them that Islam is the true religion, because he sees the truth in it, and inshaAllah if they also see the truth it will be easier for them to practice, ya know as a family, if you get what i'm saying. You can't expect a non Muslim to follow everything so easily without back-up, for us the Quran and Sunnah are enough but maybe not for them, so you have to use other factors science etc to help them have a better understanding. Allhu alum (And Allah knows best), AsalamuAlaykum. |
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| Return to Quran Status: Offline Posts: 639 Reputation: 620 Rep Power: 16 Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Islamabad, Pakistan Gender: Way of Life: Muslim | Quote:
I really appreciate your concern and you are trying to help bro Fishman, like us all. I agree with you that to start off for a new muslim isn't easy and needs a lot of help with queries regarding Halal and Haram. I also agree that most of the things in Islam are very congruent with Modern Science. For satisfaction of heart it's all fine. What I won't endorse is something like "i left music because it has following disadvantages" and "i pray because it gives me good excercise and i fast because is good for my health". "i keep a beard because it has these advantages" etc. Please i'm not condemning anyone's effort to help new muslims. I'm very sure you all are doing much better than i am. I'd end on this ayah from sura baqara: The Messenger (Muhammad ) believes in what has been sent down to him from his Lord, and (so do) the believers. Each one believes in Allāh, His Angels, His Books, and His Messengers. They say, "We make no distinction between one another of His Messengers" - and they say, "We hear, and we obey. (We seek) Your Forgiveness, our Lord, and to You is the return (of all)." Jazakellaha | |
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| Human Agent Status: Offline Posts: 2,215 Reputation: 5243 Rep Power: 29 Join Date: Jul 2005 Gender: Way of Life: Atheist | Greetings, Sorry - I didn't mean to. Please accept my apologies. Let's discuss the issue rather than attacking people who hold different views from us. Quote:
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| Wal Qu'raanil Hakeem Status: Offline Posts: 395 Reputation: 548 Rep Power: 23 Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: New York Gender: Way of Life: Muslim | Quote:
We're not trying to convince you that music is bad for the soul. In fact, it probably is good for you in some ways. That doesn't mean it isn't prohbitied by God as a means of testing the ones he loves- if they pass the test, Lo! They get the music forever in the herafter. If they fail the test, well then they don't get to listen to the music in the hereafter. Do you want a pleasureable thing for 40 years or 4,000 years?
"It will be said to the pious believers in Islamic Monotheism: 'Oh you, the one in complete rest and satisfaction! Come back to your Lord well rested and well pleased! Enter you among my honored servants! And enter you my paradise! Al-Fajr, 27-30 | |
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| Administrator Status: Offline Posts: 5,161 Reputation: 13017 Rep Power: 45 Join Date: Dec 2004 Gender: Way of Life: Muslim | Quote:
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| Human Agent Status: Offline Posts: 2,215 Reputation: 5243 Rep Power: 29 Join Date: Jul 2005 Gender: Way of Life: Atheist | Greetings, The writer of this ludicrous article says exactly that. Greetings Ansar, Quote:
I'm also saying that I've never seen an argument about "why all music is bad" from a Muslim that is at all convincing. See, for example, the article I've linked to above. I don't know how anyone could take nonsense like that seriously for a split second. Peace | |
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| Extremophile Status: Offline Posts: 6,655 Reputation: 24549 Rep Power: 57 Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: Swimming with thermus aquaticus in Yellowstone National Park Gender: Way of Life: Muslim | czgibson,
__________________Yes well they are just people trying to explain why something is bad isnt it? they are doing their best, but they dont have God's wisdom- God knows best why music was made illegal for us and that should be good enough for a muslim. We place our trust in Allah swt. ![]() |
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| الأ ثرية Status: Offline Posts: 7,363 Reputation: 30194 Rep Power: 65 Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: ~ Daar as-Sa'aadah ~ Gender: Way of Life: Muslim | Quote:
I really couldn't care less if you were part of an orchestra. To me, the laws of Allah are sacred. And I accept them without question. That is part of Iman. But since you neither believe in Islam, or the existence of God, I suppose this of little concern to you. ![]() ![]() | |
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| stare at stars.. Status: Offline Posts: 4,653 Reputation: 13782 Rep Power: 39 Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: Solar System Gender: Way of Life: Muslim | Quote:
1. Nevermind what they think. 2. Not all music might have unislamic words, but most of it does. One neat thing about Islam is that it cuts of all ways to haram... Most people who get hooked onto techno eventually get hooked onto the songs as well. 3. Music is awesome at driving you into fantasy. Islam doesn't want you to live on fantasy and out of reality, it wants you to stick to reality and not get carried away by emotions. 4. The Hadith clearly says its haram and one day it will be regarded as halal (along with alchohol and fornication), no need for rationalism or philosophisism. commenthere: ليس بعلم ما حواه القمطر، ماالعلم إلا ما وعاه الصدر ![]() .::.....sabr Ayyoub.....::. | |
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| Eesa Abdullah Status: Offline Posts: 5,784 Reputation: 22602 Rep Power: 51 Join Date: Jan 2006 Gender: Way of Life: Muslim | Whao sis tatasmiya...
__________________mashallah good info. The first poster should have seen the video on brother Ahmeds page. See this is exactly what the video speaks about, but in the context of debating women's rights. With most issues if you debate little matters like these because most people's view point changes alot they will jus state something then state something else. But if you say to your parents, I believe it because G-d prophibited it, then you can open a door to introducing them to islam which is the greater dawa, for example: Marge and Homer : Yo dude why you not listening to Music mannn.. Bart: Cos my religion says it has bad effects.. Marge and Homer: Oh what effects are those.. And the arguement goes off away from the message of G-d But look at what smart Lisa would say, Marge and Homer : Yo dude why you not listening to Music mannn.. Lisa: Because G-d prohibited it.. Marge and Homer: Hmmm, He did? Do you just obey Him? Lisa: well once you find the straight path it is only logical you obey your Creator for dont you think the Creator knows better than His creation? Marge and Homer: Hmm, I guess He does, but how do you know your on the straight path? Lisa: Well......it is a long story.. Homer: runs to get donoughts.. Lisa: *tells the story* dawa given. And so the dawa is given and the attention is diverted from the problem of listening to music to a talk about why Islam is the right path. إتبعوا ولا تبتدعوا، فقدكفيتم، وكل بدعة ضلالة Follow (the Sunnah) and do not innovate (into it), for verily you have been sufficed. And every innovation is a misguidance. Confused about which religion is true? How can I know? Come and check out some proposed fundamental principles (#1 , #2) to aid you in making a decision. |
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| stare at stars.. Status: Offline Posts: 4,653 Reputation: 13782 Rep Power: 39 Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: Solar System Gender: Way of Life: Muslim | Isa Abdullah.. honestly.. whatever.. lol just be nice to your parents and tell them that our life is a test.. and Allah set the rules, and the rules can be found in quran and hadith.. and that's all you need to do. (And be really sweet and polite about it)
__________________ps: lol bro zubair ur the best hehe, jazaks 4 that. commenthere: ليس بعلم ما حواه القمطر، ماالعلم إلا ما وعاه الصدر ![]() .::.....sabr Ayyoub.....::. |
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