Wow brother, I love your enthusiasm and passion. May Allah give you the children of your dreams. Ameen.

Not to burst your bubble or anything but having children as got to be the toughest job ever! Especially when they vomit and you have to clean it up. Otherwise, InshaAllah, kids are adorable.

for real man, that is disgusting, i mean like changing nappies and all but man, i mean, ur seed growing before your eyes, watchin him or her prayin in their tiny feet, educating them, teachin them how to write, playing games with them and teaching them and so on, given them everything we never had, by allah's will, man its gonna be hard, but i hope it goes well.

lol u aint burst my bubble, i think the hardestthing may be the birth, thats some disgusting phase.

That made me go awwww so sweet mashaAllah. Then I scrolled down and I saw...

>That's so typical of many men. Even my son who's only seven (mashaAllah) told me that he will never change his kids nappies. He said it was disgusting. But he did say that he will play with them all the time

Oh well there's still hope...

As the scroll down the posts I wish some of the brothers and sisters here were with me atttending the courses on child abuse. It's a mandatory course for prospective foster parents.

I got the impression that when you're rich, your life's will be all gay and dandy. I hope you're right. Of course, you gotta live how you want to live.

I'm glad some of us are living in the real world. Oh ya, one question, for those teenagers, do your parents know that you're online responding to strangers' posts? [you don't have to answer this]

Love and desire. What a laugh.

I'll pray for YOUR kids.

Who knows, when I see them at the welfare office or DHS, they'll tell me, "momma used to be on the computer all day" and "daddy hit momma and yelled at us"

Quoting Ripley: "I hope you're right. I really do"

I have deleted all off topic posts from this thread. If you disagree with an argument which a member has presented, you are not obliged to accept it, and you are more than welcome to offer a response. However personal attacks on fellow members in unacceptable,

barakallahu feekum.

Ahki i like your style, but like u said there are kids here so i think u should chill out a bit with them.

We dnt know they might be here to learn, so dnt discourage them pls.

Chill out? I've chilled out with them so many times that I feel I'm in the North Pole now.

Thanks for the advice. I'll heed it.

You are blunt, straightforward and you go for the kill.

I like that.

lol

I mean changing nappies is gonna be disgusting but it is part of the package so imma have to do it.

and I really dont get all this abuse stuff, erm, I dont, I dont see what ya gettin at bro

:sister:

first calm down and say i seek refuge in Allah (swt) from iblis. inshA

second, why do u hate love?lol

heartbroken people start to hate love kind of get put off.....(i think)...and tht smiley looks like a burnt tomato.....

wel salam firstable bro, and seconly i hope ur in da highest spirit of islam.
iam calm down alhumdoliah. sorry to say this, but i dont really wna talk abt love... i have family experience with love n i hate it bcz of tht.. so i rather sty away from tht topic..
:sister: ma salam

jk, point taken.
if that's the case than it doesn't mean u have to be like this for rest of your life. my little adive to you is that spk to sum sisters and inshA fings will work out for u one day.
do not be depressed, life is too short

JAZAKALLAH KHAIR YA KHEE FOR DA ADVICE..
INSHALLAH I WIL THINK ABT THT.. IAM SURE I WILL BE ABLE TO LOVE ONE DAU.. BUT IM NOT SURE WHO.. ALLAH KNWS WHTS RIGHT FOR ME.. SO I WIL WAIT ALHUMDOLIAH.
FI AMANI ALLAH

good joke

anyway it depends how hurt they are/were?