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Default Re: Love or Desire - 01-24-2006

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JAZAKALLAH KHAIR YA KHEE FOR DA ADVICE..
INSHALLAH I WIL THINK ABT THT.. IAM SURE I WILL BE ABLE TO LOVE ONE DAU.. BUT IM NOT SURE WHO.. ALLAH KNWS WHTS RIGHT FOR ME.. SO I WIL WAIT ALHUMDOLIAH.
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Default Re: Love or Desire - 01-25-2006

Salam all!

Nice topic !
although i don't find time to watch movies but i agree... the influence they have on people is quite big!
At this is a point i would just like to emphasise on the role of media and it's effects that you'll all agree are no doubt great!
why don't we use this to promote the true islam then, in a way that is halal and has effect on youth too!
But for this we need to have a different approach towards deen and technology and purpose it serves instead of indulging over useless things about that is haram and that is halal ....
same thing that can be used to make people astray can be used to put them on the right path!
but instead what are we doing still stuck in the past not getting over it and still fighting over minor things, making sections and promoting OUR point of veiws and forgetting the true religion and most of all ALLAH!!

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Default Re: Love or Desire - 01-25-2006

Asslamu Alaikum

Jazakallah Khair for that article Sister taebah!!!

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Default Re: Love or Desire - 01-25-2006

....and about love...uhmm i guess people loved when there were no movies,got married had kids raised them..right or wrong they knew and Allah SWT knows the best so He gave us the guidelines..
i don't think any harm in love it's just another emotion and everyone loves according to their own capacity and restrictions which only they allow themselves to be bound to, thats how the world is surviving!
can't really say much on it.
   
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Default Re: Love or Desire - 01-25-2006

assalamou 3alaykou
wajazakoum allah khayren for this article it is very intrsting, ana a want to say that now the effect of media is more dangerous that the magie , with all those fitan we ask, allah atabat. alaso i want to say that love it is not someting bad but it chould be in the right moment whith the right person
   
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Default Re: Love or Desire - 01-31-2006

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The brother can not get married to a hindu. he can either get married to a muslim, christian or jew and no other faith
I know this is not ur personal opinion, but I disagree with it regardless.

The mufti in the link given said, that Christians and Jews both claim that they believe in one God, therefore marriage to them is permissable (for men), but it is better to marry a muslim.

But surely if a Christian is instilling their belief of the Trinity in their child, or a Jew is denying that Jesus was not the Messiah as 'The Messiah' will be born of natural birth (according to jews) while the muslim is yet claiming both to be wrong, then that alone will be enough to cause conflict between couples where religion comes in. The belief in one God as the scholar said, is not enough.

I am saying this because of the following:

In the Quran Jesus is called the Messiah.

Yet, Judaism says that the Messiah will be born of human parents, and possess normal physical attributes like other people. He will not be a demi-god, and will not possess supernatural qualities. (e.g will not be able to perform miracles as Jesus did) In fact, an individual is alive in every generation with the capacity to step into the role of the Messiah. (see Maimonides - Laws of Kings 11:3)

The Messiah must be descended on his father's side from King David (see Genesis 49:10 and Isaiah 11:1). According to the Christian claim that Jesus was the product of a virgin birth, he had no father -- and thus could not have possibly fulfilled the messianic requirement of being descended on his father's side from King David.

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Quran 9:30: The Jews call 'Uzair a son of Allah, and the Christians call Christ the son of Allah. That is a saying from their mouth; (in this) they but imitate what the unbelievers of old used to say. Allah's curse be on them: how they are deluded away from the Truth!


[Quran 98:6] Those who disbelieved among the people of the scripture, and the idol worshipers, have incurred the fire of Gehenna forever. They are the worst creatures.

[Quran 98:1] Those who reject (Truth), among the People of the Book and among the Polytheists, were not going to depart (from their ways) until there should come to them Clear Evidence,-

[Quran 98:6] Those who reject (Truth), among the People of the Book and among the Polytheists, will be in Hell-Fire, to dwell therein (for aye). They are the worst of creatures.

If you look at the verses of the Quran, it tells us amongst other things, that rejectors are the worst of creatures & that they will be condemned to Hellfire. Therefore, again, how is marriage to them allowed?

Judging from the ayahs I have quoted, I do not believe that marriage to Christians & Jews is allowed. Unless someone can provide undisputable evidence to refute what I said, I will continue to stand by my statement.
As marriage to the rejectors and the cursed does look permissable from where I'm standing.

Furthermore, as I said in another post, If I being a muslim were to enjoin partners with Allah (as in christian trinity) na'uthubillah, or reject Quranic teachings, would I be deemed a believer still? Even if I insisted that the Book was given to me too? Would I still be deemed suitable for marriage to a muslim male? I should think not. I'd be a rejector. Isn't that what christians and jews are today? Yet scholars say that marriage to them is permissable!? It doesn't make sense to me.

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whew very interesting article thanx for sharing it with us sis
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Default Re: Love or Desire (A good article to read Insh'Allah) - 02-27-2008

I keep emphasizing this! they are out there to make life hard for us,the media,the government,the aim is to make people have minimal or no time spending at practising their religion so thats why they produce all these shows,celebrity gossip,soaps,love stories for the girls and pornography for the boys.what they want is and this is a proven fact is for you to be brain dead from watching pointless garbage so they can control you.
Let them keep saying "ohh! you are missing out religion is restricting you"
just answer them with "NAH religion is restricting me from falling into hell"
   
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