Is it?...........I don't mean like just any kind of girl...........and thing but like if u like/love her though.........isit haram to have her as a girlfriend?

salamualikum.
this has been dealt with SEVERAL times just use 'search engine'
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You have no right to talk to her, write to her and etc unless you speak with their parents first...and if their parents approve...
Khalid Yasin said this in "From the root to the fruit" lecture..

Originally Posted by Bangsta

You have no right to talk to her, write to her and etc unless you speak with their parents first...and if their parents approve...
Khalid Yasin said this in "From the root to the fruit" lecture..

Their parents???...what u on about?

yes.. you have to talk to the parents of the person you love to get their approval.. b4 you can start doing things with him/her.... didnt understand the 2nd question.. I think its weird too.. but thats what I heard Khalid Yasin say..

it is haram to have any kind of relationship outside of marriage no matter how much people love each other.

bangsta you HAVE to be married. a girls parents aproval of you dating her is not enough.

Originally Posted by amani

it is haram to have any kind of relationship outside of marriage no matter how much people love each other.

bangsta you HAVE to be married. a girls parents aproval of you dating her is not enough.

So does that mean we always have to have an arranged marriage? that our parents decide?

This question has being asked a number of times before. Insha Allah see the following threads for details on the subject:


http://www.islamicboard.com/marriage-islam/739-relationship-before-marriage.html

http://www.islamicboard.com/recycle-bin/15148-girlfriends.html

http://www.islamicboard.com/marriage-islam/38327-marriage-education-family-male-friend.html

http://www.islamicboard.com/general-chat/43532-mixing-freely-its-consequences.html
http://www.islamicboard.com/basics-islam/35362-intermixing-between-sexes-explained.html


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