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i want some hadiths and ayyats about hijab(pardah) of a women.and her satar from mahrams?

plz i need urgently i want to tell them all to one of my class fellow. plzzz
   
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وَقُل لِّلْمُؤْمِنَاتِ يَغْضُضْنَ مِنْ أَبْصَارِهِنَّ وَيَحْفَظْنَ فُرُوجَهُنَّ وَلَا يُبْدِينَ زِينَتَهُنَّ إِلَّا مَا ظَهَرَ مِنْهَا وَلْيَضْرِبْنَ بِخُمُرِهِنَّ عَلَى جُيُوبِهِنَّ وَلَا يُبْدِينَ زِينَتَهُنَّ إِلَّا لِبُعُولَتِهِنَّ أَوْ آبَائِهِنَّ أَوْ آبَاء بُعُولَتِهِنَّ أَوْ أَبْنَائِهِنَّ أَوْ أَبْنَاء بُعُولَتِهِنَّ أَوْ إِخْوَانِهِنَّ أَوْ بَنِي إِخْوَانِهِنَّ أَوْ بَنِي أَخَوَاتِهِنَّ أَوْ نِسَائِهِنَّ أَوْ مَا مَلَكَتْ أَيْمَانُهُنَّ أَوِ التَّابِعِينَ غَيْرِ أُوْلِي الْإِرْبَةِ مِنَ الرِّجَالِ أَوِ الطِّفْلِ الَّذِينَ لَمْ يَظْهَرُوا عَلَى عَوْرَاتِ النِّسَاء وَلَا يَضْرِبْنَ بِأَرْجُلِهِنَّ لِيُعْلَمَ مَا يُخْفِينَ مِن زِينَتِهِنَّ وَتُوبُوا إِلَى اللَّهِ جَمِيعًا أَيُّهَا الْمُؤْمِنُونَ لَعَلَّكُمْ تُفْلِحُونَ

024.031 And say to the believing women that they should lower their gaze and guard their modesty; that they should not display their beauty and ornaments except what (must ordinarily) appear thereof; that they should draw their veils over their bosoms and not display their beauty except to their husbands, their fathers, their husband’s fathers, their sons, their husbands’ sons, their brothers or their brothers’ sons, or their sisters’ sons, or their women, or the slaves whom their right hands possess, or male servants free of physical needs, or small children who have no sense of the shame of sex; and that they should not strike their feet in order to draw attention to their hidden ornaments. And O ye Believers! turn ye all together towards Allah, that ye may attain Bliss.


Sahih Al-Bukhari Volume 6, Book 60, Hadith # 282
Narrated Safiya bint Shaiba (Radhiallaahu Ánha) "Aa'ishah (Radhiallaahu Ánha) used to say: "When (the Verse): "They should draw their veils over their necks and bosoms," was revealed, (the ladies) cut their waist sheets at the edges and covered their faces with the cut pieces.

Sahih Al-Bukhari Volume 1, Book 8, Hadith # 368
Narrated 'Aa'ishah (Radhiallaahu Ánha) Rasulullah (Sallallaahu Álayhi Wasallam) used to offer the Fajr prayer and some believing women covered with their veiling sheets used to attend the Fajr prayer with him and then they would return to their homes unrecognized . Shaikh Ibn Uthaimin in tafseer of this hadeeth explains "This hadeeth makes it clear that the Islamic dress is concealing of the entire body as explained in this hadeeth. Only with the complete cover including the face and hands can a woman not be recognized. This was the understanding and practice of the SAHÂBAH and they were the best of group, the noblest in the sight of Allaah (swt) with the most complete Eemaan and noblest of characters. so if the practice of the women of the sahabah was to wear the complete veil then how can we deviate from their path? (Ibn Uthaymeen in the book "Hijaab" page # 12 and 13)
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I didnt knew on which topic i can ask for advice, so im doing it here. I want to put a hijab but my father is not for that. Im struggling with this a half of year and im not giong very well. Hes not good muslim and he doesnt want to hear about that. I talked with a lots of people but i want to hear more opinions. Thanks forward..
   
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sorry to hear that sister, if he doesnt understand...even after you explaining to him (that aayah and Ahadeeth that brother Abdullah gave are excellent for that) then i think all you can do is pray for him.

Oh and one more thing...how about asking your mother? or explaining to her why you wish to wear the hijab? I'm sure you'll find it easier Insha'Allah

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My mother is for that but theres no way she can have influence on him. She told me to wait a while and when I go to Sarajevo on university to do it. But Im really scared for me and for him. He never went to salat or even mosque. And a few my friends have the saim issues. People here hate that so much and theyre telling theyre muslims? Everybody is saying i can do it when i grow old or when i get married but thats not right. Every day Im scared for myself, when i will be asked for that... every girl in my town has that problem so they all get married or do it on force. I have boyfriend hes in islam too but he cant help me so much.. SubhAllah..
   
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My mother is for that but theres no way she can have influence on him. She told me to wait a while and when I go to Sarajevo on university to do it. But Im really scared for me and for him. He never went to salat or even mosque. And a few my friends have the saim issues. People here hate that so much and theyre telling theyre muslims? Everybody is saying i can do it when i grow old or when i get married but thats not right. Every day Im scared for myself, when i will be asked for that... every girl in my town has that problem so they all get married or do it on force. I have boyfriend hes in islam too but he cant help me so much.. SubhAllah..
sis, i'm sorry I just saw this post...

I'm having the same problem with my family about observing the niqaab, whilst they havent opposed me outrightly, I know they'll have a problem with it. But...I would never let my family get in the way of my hijaab...if you went out one day wearing it...what is the worst that could happen?
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I dont understand what ure trying to say..?
   
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Sorry sis...which part wasnt clear? I didnt mean to confuse you
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What I do wrong?
   
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i believe there was just a simple misunderstanding on the thread and that things are now back on track.
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Nothing sister lets just concentrate on you wearing the hijab, Masha'Allah its great that you're trying to...Just one question, does anybody in your family wear it?
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My grandmother wears it...
On my mothers side everybodys in islam, but fathers not so.
   
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My grandmother wears it...
On my mothers side everybodys in islam, but fathers not so.
ok Insha'Allah, maybe you need to sit down and have a chat with your father, explain to him how important it is for you as a Muslim woman to observe the hijaab, the evidences for it being comulsory in Islam and how determined you are to wear it...when he sees your sheer will and determination...i cant see him refusing to let you. But I do know that many sisters go through this same thing...my advice is probably not very helpful as i cant relate to your problem, May Allah help you sis
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ive had so many of coversations with him im kind of losing hope to explain something.. He says why cant i be muslim without it.. To find a middle.. thats extreme etcetc
   
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