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Default Re: Du'as urgently required!!!! - 09-24-2007

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My fiancee has been having trouble with the fasting, and now she says that she doesn't want to be Muslim anymore, and that she doesn't believe in it and doesn't think it is the truth. This has made me extremely sad and hurt and it means that we probably can't get married. Please make du'a that she will return to the truth of Islam and that we can get married.
Peace brother,

From what I understand Islam is new to you both. If this is so be gentle. The path is new and lots of things have to be learnt by you both. Start slowly with a good intend and a sincere heart and pray to God for His help.

Talk to her and tell her you understand, give her time to adjust and to see the beauty of Islam. Fasting is tough, but with the right attitute it can be done. I really enjoy breaking the fast at the end of the day with brothers & sisters feeling such a sense of acheivement and pleasure.

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Default Re: Du'as urgently required!!!! - 09-30-2007

I hope deep in my heart that allah will lead you to the right way brother and sister in Sha Allah
   
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Default Re: Du'as urgently required!!!! - 11-05-2007

اسلام عليكم

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Default Re: Du'as urgently required!!!! - 11-05-2007

]ur always im my du3a bro.may everthin work out 4u
try explaining 2 her the value of fasting and the many benefits one gets
   
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Default Re: Du'as urgently required!!!! - 11-06-2007

Orthodox Christianity is paved with a great many fasting days. Did she not fast on these days while a Christian??? Fasting cannot be a litmus test for truth...
   
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Default Re: Du'as urgently required!!!! - 11-06-2007

Michael, keep us posted on what happens.

You might be in love with her, but still you cannot allow anything like that stand between you and Allah.
   
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Default Re: Du'as urgently required!!!! - 11-27-2007

michael, so how is it goin?
hope shes a muslim. Allah ma3akum
   
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Default Re: Du'as urgently required!!!! - 11-27-2007

Last I heard, Michael apostated. Make dua for him. He's a very confused young man who can't seem to stick with one religion.
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Default Re: Du'as urgently required!!!! - 11-27-2007

Asalaam
first of all Ameen to all dua, secondly don't worry inshallah Almighty Allah will do best with you, keep faith in him.
best of luck in this hard time.
never loose hope, you never know in What Almighty allah has chosen best for you.
   
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Default Re: Du'as urgently required!!!! - 11-27-2007

sorry but this is about more than just fasting..your fiance has already told you she doesnt believe in islam..seems you have converted and just assumed that your finacee will share your love of islam..she tried fasting because she loves you..but she has told you she doesnt believe in islam..what more do you want her to say..you made your choice ..now she must make hers..
   
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