Du'as urgently required!!!!

Michael · **Du'as urgently required!!!! -** 09-23-2007

My fiancee has been having trouble with the fasting, and now she says that she doesn't want to be Muslim anymore, and that she doesn't believe in it and doesn't think it is the truth. This has made me extremely sad and hurt and it means that we probably can't get married. Please make du'a that she will return to the truth of Islam and that we can get married.

^..sTr!vEr..^ · **Re: Du'as urgently required!!!! -** 09-23-2007

yes inshAllah evrythg will we awlright ...just try ur best ..

bewildred · **Re: Du'as urgently required!!!! -** 09-23-2007

Hi Michael,

Sounds like the road to Islamic spirituality for your gf is paved with burning stones. May allah lead her to the light and please never doubt your choices brother.

Bewildred S.

Kittygyal · **Re: Du'as urgently required!!!! -** 09-23-2007

Salamualikum.
Aww don't worry it happens to me at times aswel.. Everything will be fine dearest... Gave it a day or two...
May Allaah make it easy for you and your wife .. Amin
Tace care ma'assalama

Da'watul-Allaah · **Re: Du'as urgently required!!!! -** 09-23-2007

You guys can still get wed ya'know

inshaAllah all the best

Ameen to all du'as, May Allah (subhana wa ta'ala) guide us all. Ameen (say Ameen)

**'Aisha** · **Re: Du'as urgently required!!!! -** 09-23-2007

May Allah (swt) guide her to the deen. Ameen to all the above duaas.

Bint Abdusattar · **Re: Du'as urgently required!!!! -** 09-23-2007

Need to make lots of dua for her as well as using wisdom to talk her back into islam again.
I know you can still wed - but look at the consequences and effect of unislamic influence on the children.
You need to be brave and make the correct decisions if she does go away from islam - my duas are with you and even more duas that you fiancee comes back into islam witha passion.
Ameen

Muslimah421 · **Re: Du'as urgently required!!!! -** 09-23-2007

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You guys can still get wed ya'know

yup
Ameen to the duas
try to speak to her
and give her dawah

piXie · 09:46 PM

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Originally Posted by Michael

My fiancee has been having trouble with the fasting, and now she says that she doesn't want to be Muslim anymore, and that she doesn't believe in it and doesn't think it is the truth. This has made me extremely sad and hurt and it means that we probably can't get married.

But how come ?

talk to her gently and ask her why she feels this way. If its the fasting that she finds difficult, tell her that she doesn't have to do that. Islam is an easy religion, she doesn't have to start doing all the rituals at once if she feels she can't.

Keep by her side n just be understanding and supportive. Maybe she wasn't ready for the change n she'll come round eventually.

u are both going to get through this together insha'Allaah, because u entered it together. n Allah knows your situation more than we do, He's up there watching n He will definitely help u. so don't despair or be sad.

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Please make du'a that she will return to the truth of Islam and that we can get married.

Allah descends to the lowest heaven when a third of the night remains, saying : "Who is supplicating to Me that I may answer him ?
who is asking of Me that i May give him ?
Who is seeking forgiveness of Me that i may forgive him ?" [Sahih al-Bukhari]

so brother, during this time especially, you must pray for her and yourself and we also will pray for u both insha'Allaah

because Allah the All-Merciful, the All-Compassionate, has promised that He will reply to a believers supplication and
He who is far from imperfection does not break His promises.

It is Also the Month of Ramadan, and the nights of this Blessed Month are not like ordinary nights either. n neither are the days like ordinary days.

May Allah give us all the Tawfeeq to wake up and pray for u both.

Because when two people who love each other accept Islam together and get married, it is a very beautiful thing. n what is half an hour of sacrificing our sleep to stand up and supplicate to Allah, who is the controller and changer of hearts, to keep u both steadfast on the true deen so this beautiful marriage can take place and we can all be happy Allah willing.

Du'a can even change a persons destiny.

May Allah keep u both on the right path, make it easy for u and make u both husband and wife who are content and Happy with each other. Ameen

north_malaysian · **Re: Du'as urgently required!!!! -** 09-24-2007

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Originally Posted by Michael

My fiancee has been having trouble with the fasting, and now she says that she doesn't want to be Muslim anymore, and that she doesn't believe in it and doesn't think it is the truth. This has made me extremely sad and hurt and it means that we probably can't get married. Please make du'a that she will return to the truth of Islam and that we can get married.

try convincing her to fast half day then....

Lots of six year olds can fast for the whole month.. with no problems...

May God give you and her strength...

syilla · **Re: Du'as urgently required!!!! -** 09-24-2007

lol...

tell her, she doesn't have to fast yet...

lol...she sounds cute

let her learn the basic of islam first...before doing the hard ones...

north_malaysian · **Re: Du'as urgently required!!!! -** 09-24-2007

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Originally Posted by syilla

lol...

tell her, she doesn't have to fast yet...

lol...she sounds cute

let her learn the basic of islam first...before doing the hard ones...

Good advise

buriedaway_4536 · **Re: Du'as urgently required!!!! -** 09-24-2007

Ameen to all du'as.
Yeah. It does sound like it's the fasting that is getting to her.
You guys have only been Muslim for less than a week this far, yeah?

May Allah (swt) give you both strength in Iman and continue to guide you.

Malaikah · **Re: Du'as urgently required!!!! -** 09-24-2007

May Allah guide her. I'm confused- does she doubt Islam because fasting is hard?

Sister-Ameena* · **Re: Du'as urgently required!!!! -** 09-24-2007

May Allah strengthen her imaan, and keep her on the path of Islaam!

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Michael Member Status: Offline Posts: 95 Reputation: 650 Rep Power: 6 Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: Dunedin, New Zealand Gender: Way of Life: Muslim	Du'as urgently required!!!! - 09-23-2007 My fiancee has been having trouble with the fasting, and now she says that she doesn't want to be Muslim anymore, and that she doesn't believe in it and doesn't think it is the truth. This has made me extremely sad and hurt and it means that we probably can't get married. Please make du'a that she will return to the truth of Islam and that we can get married.

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^..sTr!vEr..^ ^Ara'aF...hEiGhTsSs~ Status: Offline Posts: 747 Reputation: 1075 Rep Power: 19 Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: Gratitude at..when..if..and... Gender: Way of Life: Muslim	Re: Du'as urgently required!!!! - 09-23-2007 yes inshAllah evrythg will we awlright ...just try ur best .. __________________ "O Muslims! If anyone among you worshipped Ramadan, then know that Ramadan is dead. But those of you who worshipped Allah, then know that Allah lives and will never die. Indeed Allah created Ramadan and He also, in truth, created Shawaal, Dhul Qidah, Dhul Hijjah, and all the rest of the Months..."

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bewildred Member Status: Offline Posts: 91 Reputation: 284 Rep Power: 6 Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: Somewhere over the rainbow Gender: Way of Life: Muslim	Re: Du'as urgently required!!!! - 09-23-2007 Hi Michael, Sounds like the road to Islamic spirituality for your gf is paved with burning stones. May allah lead her to the light and please never doubt your choices brother. Bewildred S.

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Kittygyal Im a Cat! Status: Offline Posts: 13,009 Reputation: 13722 Rep Power: 45 Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: Yard سولجا_جيال Gender: Way of Life: Muslim	Re: Du'as urgently required!!!! - 09-23-2007 Salamualikum. Aww don't worry it happens to me at times aswel.. Everything will be fine dearest... Gave it a day or two... May Allaah make it easy for you and your wife .. Amin Tace care ma'assalama

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Da'watul-Allaah 'Slightly' mental_ Status: Offline Posts: 8,096 Reputation: 29312 Rep Power: 60 Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: UK Way of Life: Muslim	Re: Du'as urgently required!!!! - 09-23-2007 You guys can still get wed ya'know inshaAllah all the best Ameen to all du'as, May Allah (subhana wa ta'ala) guide us all. Ameen (say Ameen) __________________ I request all brothers and sisters to make du'aa for ME. That Allah grants me shifaa. Abu-Darda' reported: I heard the Messenger of Allah (Salallahu Alayhi Wassalam) saying, "Whenever a Muslim supplicates for his Muslim brother in his absence, the angels say: `May the same be for you too'.''

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'Aisha ummAbdillah Status: Offline Posts: 1,906 Reputation: 7763 Rep Power: 30 Join Date: Apr 2005 Gender: Way of Life: Muslim	Re: Du'as urgently required!!!! - 09-23-2007 May Allah (swt) guide her to the deen. Ameen to all the above duaas. __________________ إِنَّ الشَّيْطَانَ لَكمْ عَدوٌّ فَاتَّخِذوهعَدوّاً إِنَّمَا يَدْعو حِزْبَه لِيَكونوا مِنْ أَصْحَابِ السَّعِيرِ Verily Satan is an enemy to you: so treat him as an enemy. He only invites his adherents, that they may become Companions of the Blazing Fire. [35:6]

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Bint Abdusattar LI Senior Member Status: Offline Posts: 159 Reputation: 156 Rep Power: 20 Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: Scotland Gender: Way of Life: Muslim	Re: Du'as urgently required!!!! - 09-23-2007 Need to make lots of dua for her as well as using wisdom to talk her back into islam again. I know you can still wed - but look at the consequences and effect of unislamic influence on the children. You need to be brave and make the correct decisions if she does go away from islam - my duas are with you and even more duas that you fiancee comes back into islam witha passion. Ameen __________________ SMILE! ALLAH LOVES YOU

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syilla not trying hard enuf Status: Offline Posts: 4,477 Reputation: 13301 Rep Power: 34 Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: malaysia Gender: Way of Life: Muslim	Re: Du'as urgently required!!!! - 09-24-2007 lol... tell her, she doesn't have to fast yet... lol...she sounds cute let her learn the basic of islam first...before doing the hard ones... __________________ 25:36 And the true servants of the Most Merciful are those who walk the earth with humility and when the ignorant address them, they respond with words of peace.

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buriedaway_4536 It broke! Status: Offline Posts: 585 Reputation: 1986 Rep Power: 12 Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Melbourne, Australia. Gender: Way of Life: Muslim	Re: Du'as urgently required!!!! - 09-24-2007 Ameen to all du'as. Yeah. It does sound like it's the fasting that is getting to her. You guys have only been Muslim for less than a week this far, yeah? May Allah (swt) give you both strength in Iman and continue to guide you. __________________ [MuslimVillage]

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Malaikah Extremophile Status: Offline Posts: 6,480 Reputation: 22495 Rep Power: 53 Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: Swimming with thermus aquaticus in Yellowstone National Park Gender: Way of Life: Muslim	Re: Du'as urgently required!!!! - 09-24-2007 May Allah guide her. I'm confused- does she doubt Islam because fasting is hard? __________________

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Sister-Ameena* al-Muslimahಌ Status: Offline Posts: 1,094 Reputation: 5147 Rep Power: 14 Join Date: Jul 2007 Gender: Way of Life: Muslim	Re: Du'as urgently required!!!! - 09-24-2007 May Allah strengthen her imaan, and keep her on the path of Islaam! __________________ يَا أَيُّهَا الَّذِينَ آمَنُوا اصْبِرُوا وَصَابِرُوا وَرَابِطُوا وَاتَّقُوا اللَّهَ لَعَلَّكُمْ تُفْلِحُونَ O ye who believe! Persevere in patience and constancy; vie in such perseverance; strengthen each other; and fear Allah; that ye may prosper. [Surah Aali Imraan 3:200]