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Cool New Convert to Islam - 11-02-2007

Hi Everyone.

As of about over a week ago I now a Muslim. I converted though a converting web site but I can't remember which one.
I've converted for Christianty to Islam and I'm really happy as I feel more at peace within myself.
I'm just scared to tell my family as they are elders of the church I did attend. I'm also scared to tell my christians friends too.
Any advice on how to tell my family will be welcomed.
I've told most of my friends that are outside my christian circul of friends and they are all happy with it.
I've started to wear my hijab and I'm very happy with it and everyone says it's sutes me.
   
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Assalamu Alaikum (peace be upon you),

Welcome and congratulations! Make yourself and home, and check out my siggy for helpful websites for converts
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assalamu alaikum sister

congratulations on accepting Islam, may Allah Most High continue to bless you and guide you and keep you and me on the straight path always ameen.

If you are in the UK, whereabouts do you live?

It is difficult to tell family members especially if they are active practising Christians. It's fairly likely that they will freak out, I'm afraid, given most peoples false ideas about this deen. Did they know you were investigating Islam?

I advise you first and foremost to pray the 5 daily prayers and stick to them as if your life depended on it.

   
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mashallah that is very good !!! it brings a tear of happiness to my eye.
   
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Asalaamalayakum sister!
MashaAllah, welcome to Islam! ^^
I remember reading your intro hehe.
Don't stop praying for your family, and inshaAllah even if it takes some time they will be okay with it.

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MashaAllah! Welcome to Islam dear sister. It is great to have you join our Muslim "family."

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Hi Everyone.

As of about over a week ago I now a Muslim. I converted though a converting web site but I can't remember which one.
I've converted for Christianty to Islam and I'm really happy as I feel more at peace within myself.
I'm just scared to tell my family as they are elders of the church I did attend. I'm also scared to tell my christians friends too.
Any advice on how to tell my family will be welcomed.
I've told most of my friends that are outside my christian circul of friends and they are all happy with it.
I've started to wear my hijab and I'm very happy with it and everyone says it's sutes me.



MashaAllah n welcome to the way to jannah, InshaAllah

How did you start wearing hijab, as you mentioned your family doesn't know that you reverted to Islam, they didn't ask about your wearing hijab?

AND yeah, there is a noor ( light ) on everybodys face who wears hijab, Alhamdulilah

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asssalamu aleykum.
thats really great sis, welcome to islam.
May Allah guide u 2 do wat He loves and avoid what He hates.

Its a blessing from God for He guides whom He wills to the right path.
   
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Asalaamalayakum sister
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Dear Sis
May Allah guide you always to the true path. My warm congrats.
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Congratulation sister.

May Allah guide us and have mercy on us. Can you advise me of Taking Shahad Online website

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assalamu alaikum sister

congratulations on accepting Islam, may Allah Most High continue to bless you and guide you and keep you and me on the straight path always ameen.

If you are in the UK, whereabouts do you live?

It is difficult to tell family members especially if they are active practising Christians. It's fairly likely that they will freak out, I'm afraid, given most peoples false ideas about this deen. Did they know you were investigating Islam?

I advise you first and foremost to pray the 5 daily prayers and stick to them as if your life depended on it.

I live in Dorset in the UK.

Only one person knew I was investigating Islam but no-one from my family knew.

I've told my parents now and they were a little shocked and just couldn't understand why I converted to Islam so I gave them a letter I wrote to them and all was explained and they understood but still a little mythed.

When they saw my Hijab, I told them that God told me to wear it and then after that I told them I am now Muslim.

I have been praying 5 times a day but when I'm at college I have to fit it round my lessons.
   
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I live in Dorset in the UK.
assalamu alaikum

snap! I am in Weymouth at the mo although I have to divide my time between here and London. Muslims are a bit thin on the ground here in the South West, I do know an English couple near Yeovil, and there are some good sisters in Southampton masha'Allah an excellent study circle there I believe.

well alhamdulillah your parents know now it must be a relief?

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Default Re: New Convert to Islam - 11-04-2007

Congratulations! You've reverted to your natural birthright! I'll repeat some of the advice iven to you by others in your situation:
  • Show that you've changed your behaviour and attitude for the better before telling her, so that when you do tell her, she;ll realize it;s for the better
  • Stress that you haven't changed who you worship (i.e. God) and you still highly respect Jesus Christ as a Prophet in Islam
  • Tell her that the religion of Islam is nothing to do with terrosim, or anything that the media portrays it as, and that Islam is wrongfully thrown into the world's major politicial crises, and exploited an as excuse to commit hideous crimes, and that Islam condemns these
  • Pray to Allah, asking for Help and Guidance

Just remember, you've turned a new leaf, but you're still the same old self with a fresh new start and approach to life!

May God ease your circumstances, and guide you through this splendid time,

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assalamu alaikum

snap! I am in Weymouth at the mo although I have to divide my time between here and London. Muslims are a bit thin on the ground here in the South West, I do know an English couple near Yeovil, and there are some good sisters in Southampton masha'Allah an excellent study circle there I believe.

well alhamdulillah your parents know now it must be a relief?

wassalam
That is were I live, where you are at the mo.
Yep Muslims are a little thin in the South West as there are no big citys that everyones knows. I do get a lot of looks from people in the town becuse I'm wearing a Hijab.

My parents are a little anioyed but I am happier but feel a little guilty as I've turned away from there faith but being Muslim is the right thing that I've done.
   
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