I hate talking to boys. I hate sitting or standing next to them. (This does not go for the dar brothers on this thread-YOU are brothers....this partcular boy....is a freak!!!!)

How do I approach him without going beetroot red?

Im confused and scared.
I have a physics test at 2:30pm today. I cant concentrate on any revision bcuz I cant stand the thought of going into the class.

[quote=zAk;108724]just one ? ah then either kick him[wid a shoe on] or hit him wid a stick !

Yeah and then Ill get suspended or expelled and then Ill never be ANYONE......ill just be a NO ONE!!!!

sister

I really think what you need to do is change your seat so that at least your at the side of him or sit behind him.....try speaking to the teacher and explain that you feel uncomfortable with that guy. he/she may be able to have a quiet word or change the seating positions within the class.



Rabi'ya:rose:

salam
then the best thing to do is ignore him sis
wasalam

I knew sum1 was going to say that: Its not u who has to do experiments evry physics lesson and has to either:

walk passed him
ask him for the stupid matches
Ask him to excuse....cuz he is in the WAY!!!!

Not getting anywhere am I?

I just hope and pary he doesnt cum to lesson today!!!Ameen!!!!

The other tables have boys on them.

The table I sit on has three girls and two boys. The boys on my table joke with me but I soon put them in their places.....Evil luk is my method with them!!!!

Plus!! WE HAVE SWIRLY chairs. And he always swirls on his chair. so!! it wudnt make a difference where I sat.

salam
just sit somewhere far away from him so that you both don't get in each other's way
wasalam

U just dont listen do u brother!!!!

Read wat I have written on the prev. page.

hmmmm, this seems to be a tough one....have you ever actually had a conversation with him?

may seem wrong but..if he understands how u feel and think maybe he'll be sympathetic and actually wanna do a good deed. you say hes not religious but im wondering if he fasted during Ramadan. People who do fast during Ramadan even if nto practising during the rest of the year have a basic concept of right and wrong and im sure he doesnt want to make you feel uncomfortable.

duno if that will be possible sis.....you say you have spoken to other guys in your class so talking to him shudnt be that embarrassing



Rabi'ya:rose:

salam
sis try and talk to him or complain to the teacher and tell your teacher to allow you to sit on a table that only has girls on it
or switch to another class
wasalam

[quote=Rabi'ya;108741]hmmmm, this seems to be a tough one....have you ever actually had a conversation with him?

No....other than 'yes' and 'no'
Or....'brother can u plz get the thermometer'.


may seem wrong but..if he understands how u feel and think maybe he'll be sympathetic and actually wanna do a good deed. you say hes not religious but im wondering if he fasted during Ramadan. People who do fast during Ramadan even if nto practising during the rest of the year have a basic concept of right and wrong and im sure he doesnt want to make you feel uncomfortable.

He has fasted but thats wat he sed. I dont know whether he did.

duno if that will be possible sis.....you say you have spoken to other guys in your class so talking to him shudnt be that embarrassing


With the others. I tell them in a nice tone to get lost. I can say stuff like that to the english boys bcuz they wudnt end up like this one is at the moment. U get wat I mean sis?

[quote=metsudaistwice;108746]salam
sis try and talk to him or complain to the teacher and tell your teacher to allow you to sit on a table that only has girls on it

Im going to blow in a minute....u have not been reading my other post have u!!!!!!!!! I DO SIT ON THE GIRLS TABLE!!!!!!!

but we have swirly chairs so he swirls and (with every excuse) and just boldges at me!!!!!
or switch to another class
I cant........this is the ONLY AS level class!!!

sis, just because they are english boys and you dress modestly does not mean that they will nto become attracted to you. they may find you, astaghfirullah, a challenge and therefore try harder to tempt you. I know from experience sis.

the best thing you can do is speak to this "brother" and tell him how you feel and that its simply makes you feel uncomfortable. he may just be intrigued as to why you dress like that, or impressed that your iman is so strong. he may be jealous and wanting guidance himself. you shudnt assume he didnt fast just because he wears gold and is a "bad boy".


Rabi'ya:rose:

salam
sis on the table where he can't swivel next to you
wasalam