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| IB Oldtimer Status: Offline Posts: 3,063 Reputation: 20800 Rep Power: 49 Join Date: Dec 2006 Gender: Way of Life: Muslim | I seek refuge in Allah (The One God) from the Satan (devil) the cursed, the rejected
__________________With the name of ALLAH (swt) -The Bestower Of Unlimited Mercy, The Continously Merciful Assalamu Alaikum Wa Rahmatullahi Wa Barakatuh (May the peace, mercy and blessings of Allah be upon you) &&& Brother , pl. explain more. I did not understand the meaning/moral of this hadith. "Do not enter upon your women when returning from a journey at night." Does it mean that a man must not go to his own home just because it's night ? Where will he stay the whole night ? I guess , spying on wife .....is that prohibited cause it mentioned in the hadith that 2 men secretly went home or simply entering home at night is not allowed ? Thanks. "My Father is greater than I." John 14:28 Christ will never be proud to reject to be a slave to God , nor the angels who are near ( to God ) .....holy Quran, chapter Women , 4: 172 recitation:http://quran.jalisi.com |
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| Skillganon Status: Offline Posts: 2,491 Reputation: 3280 Rep Power: 30 Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: London Gender: Way of Life: Muslim | The first one can be found in:
__________________Volume 7, Book 62, Number 173: Narrated Jabir bin 'Abdullah: The Prophet said, "If you enter (your town) at night (after coming from a journey), do not enter upon your family till the woman whose husband was absent (from the house) shaves her pubic hair and the woman with unkempt hair, combs her hair" Allah's Apostle further said, "(O Jabir!) Seek to have offspring, seek to have offspring!" Some of them need explaining, and scholarly work may be required. |
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| Khatib al-Hoor Status: Offline Posts: 7,943 Reputation: 72594 Rep Power: 127 Join Date: Mar 2005 Gender: Way of Life: Muslim | I am not sure what the exact explanation of the Hadith is, but the reason it was quoted in this article was to give an example of what happened to those that disobeyed the Messenger (saws). The example of those who take allies other than Allah is like that of the spider who takes a home. And indeed, the weakest of homes is the home of the spider, if they only knew. Indeed, Allah knows whatever thing they call upon other than Him. And He is the Exalted in Might, the Wise. And these examples We present to the people, but none will understand them except those of knowledge. [al-'Ankaboot; 41-44] |
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| Skillganon Status: Offline Posts: 2,491 Reputation: 3280 Rep Power: 30 Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: London Gender: Way of Life: Muslim | Quote:
Astagfirullah. So that will lead one naturaly to think, that your wife is with sleeping with another man. Do you see the problem | |
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| Khatib al-Hoor Status: Offline Posts: 7,943 Reputation: 72594 Rep Power: 127 Join Date: Mar 2005 Gender: Way of Life: Muslim | Quote:
59:7 ...And whatsoever the Messenger (Muhammad ) gives you, take it, and whatsoever he forbids you, abstain (from it)...The example of those who take allies other than Allah is like that of the spider who takes a home. And indeed, the weakest of homes is the home of the spider, if they only knew. Indeed, Allah knows whatever thing they call upon other than Him. And He is the Exalted in Might, the Wise. And these examples We present to the people, but none will understand them except those of knowledge. [al-'Ankaboot; 41-44] | |
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| Skillganon Status: Offline Posts: 2,491 Reputation: 3280 Rep Power: 30 Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: London Gender: Way of Life: Muslim | I am not student of Hadith
__________________I have no problem with what you saying. IT is the way you left the hadith. I also quoted the Bukhari, and this explained it further. It is not that you can't enter the house it is just that she does what is required. Anyway would merely disobeying the order necessitate a sin inflicted upon another person? |
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| Khatib al-Hoor Status: Offline Posts: 7,943 Reputation: 72594 Rep Power: 127 Join Date: Mar 2005 Gender: Way of Life: Muslim | Well there are rulings and such. But that itself is a Fiqhi issue, when to do what the Messenger said, in what context was it said, when does it apply, what are exceptions, etc. And that matter is left to the Scholors. The point of this article was a general warning of disobeying the Messenger and to give examples of what happened to those that disobeyed his command which is not neccasarily the same thing that will happen to another person that disobeys the Messenger in the same aspect. The example of those who take allies other than Allah is like that of the spider who takes a home. And indeed, the weakest of homes is the home of the spider, if they only knew. Indeed, Allah knows whatever thing they call upon other than Him. And He is the Exalted in Might, the Wise. And these examples We present to the people, but none will understand them except those of knowledge. [al-'Ankaboot; 41-44] |
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| Skillganon Status: Offline Posts: 2,491 Reputation: 3280 Rep Power: 30 Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: London Gender: Way of Life: Muslim | Quote:
It also may cause people to buy a camera and make them rush home. I provided Bukhari. Anyway the words attributed to the messenger is this: "Ibn 'Abbas reported that the Messenger of Allah said: 1. "Do not enter upon your women when returning from a journey at night." further in: 2. As provided in Bukhari. The incident of the men disobeying the messenger and finding their wifes in bed with another mens cannot be attributed to the lips of the prophet but a seperate incident the narrator heard. The way I see it the wife was commiting adultry, regardless of who ever was disobeying the prophet or not. In this case they got caught by their husband. Anyway what is the ruling of finding you wife in bed with another men such in the case of above? | |
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| Khatib al-Hoor Status: Offline Posts: 7,943 Reputation: 72594 Rep Power: 127 Join Date: Mar 2005 Gender: Way of Life: Muslim | Quote:
What occured to the two Sahabi was an isolated incident, and was Allah's way of punishing them for disobeying the Prophet. That does not mean, that someone else who disobeys the Prophet in this command of his will get the exact same punisment. They may be punished in another manner. Or they may be forgiven. That is upto Allah. And there can be exceptions to this if a person is ignorant of the command, or he has forgotten etc. The point of that narration is to give an example of what happened to two that disobeyed the Messenger. It is not a binding ruling that whoever rushes home by disobeying the Messenger will find his wife adulterating. That is not the case. Again the purpose of the entire article is a general warning of disobeying the Messenger. There was no need of even bringing the Hadith from Bukhari because it is not the text of the hadith, nor the ruling which we are concerned with here, it is to give a general warning to those that disobey the Messenger. Ps- I am not sure of the ruling, you can try www.islam-qa.com . The example of those who take allies other than Allah is like that of the spider who takes a home. And indeed, the weakest of homes is the home of the spider, if they only knew. Indeed, Allah knows whatever thing they call upon other than Him. And He is the Exalted in Might, the Wise. And these examples We present to the people, but none will understand them except those of knowledge. [al-'Ankaboot; 41-44] | |
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| Skillganon Status: Offline Posts: 2,491 Reputation: 3280 Rep Power: 30 Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: London Gender: Way of Life: Muslim | Quote:
I thought no one bears other person sin. I literated the "my percieved" flaw. I acknowledge your attempt in using this as admonishing the people who reject hadith. However I realy think it is quite innefective. It is the intepretation, or the way it is stated that is the problem, at least to me. How could Allah, punish someone by making his wife "cause" a grave sin ( a sin that holds a grave punishment), even if he did disobey intentionally. It should be explained that the wife was commiting a grave sin, regardless of them visiting the household or not. If you going to live it like the way it is it will cause more fitnah than any good brother. 1. It will make some people do is go and visit their wife with a camera. 2. Make them uneasy and cause more doubt. This send's a big warning to everyone "Do not visit your wife after a night journey because your wife might be commiting fornification "... "if you do not visit them they might be commiting fornification" | |
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I think its best we do not delve into this issue as it is getting Fiqh related and no one here is capable of answering Fiqh issues. The example of those who take allies other than Allah is like that of the spider who takes a home. And indeed, the weakest of homes is the home of the spider, if they only knew. Indeed, Allah knows whatever thing they call upon other than Him. And He is the Exalted in Might, the Wise. And these examples We present to the people, but none will understand them except those of knowledge. [al-'Ankaboot; 41-44] | ||||||||
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| Skillganon Status: Offline Posts: 2,491 Reputation: 3280 Rep Power: 30 Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: London Gender: Way of Life: Muslim | Assalamu alaikum brother.
__________________I rather not argue, I do not hold any knowledge to do so. Anway the point was missed by the first poster & me. Secondly if it is an isolated incident and and will get into fiqh related than how does it help as a warning? Secondly their is the Bukhari, someone will very well come by it. This very well changes the context. Anway I will leave it at that, no point in arguing over what I do not have clear knowledge about. Until than I will ask more question, if need be, on other points of the article. Jazak allah khair for the article. |
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| Khatib al-Hoor Status: Offline Posts: 7,943 Reputation: 72594 Rep Power: 127 Join Date: Mar 2005 Gender: Way of Life: Muslim | Quote:
It gets Fiqh related when one starts looking for the rulings pertaining to the issue to understand the legal implications of this Hadith. Quote:
When one wishes to understand the legal implications of this Hadith then that is the time one needs to refer to the scholors for explanations of this Hadith and this is exactly where it becomes a matter of Fiqh. The example of those who take allies other than Allah is like that of the spider who takes a home. And indeed, the weakest of homes is the home of the spider, if they only knew. Indeed, Allah knows whatever thing they call upon other than Him. And He is the Exalted in Might, the Wise. And these examples We present to the people, but none will understand them except those of knowledge. [al-'Ankaboot; 41-44] | ||
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