Jazakallah.
Sis your post was very helpful.
Wishing more such posts from you in the future.

jazaikhair sis for all the info.

Bismillaah!!

The Prophet Muhammad SAW

and Women
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The Virtues of Hijab

In the name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful

(5) The Hijaab Is Taqwah (Righteousness)

Allah (the Almighty) says:

} ‏ يَا بَنِي آدَمَ قَدْ أَنْزَلْنَا عَلَيْكُمْ لِبَاسًا يُوَارِي سَوْآتِكُمْ
وَرِيشًا وَلِبَاسُ التَّقْوَى ذَلِكَ خَيْرٌ ‏‏{ [الأعراف، 26]

"O Children of Adam! We have
bestowed raiment upon you to cover
yourselves (screen your private parts,
etc.) and as an adornment. But the
raiment of righteousness, that is
better."
(Qur'an 7:26)

The widespread forms of dresses in the world today are mostly for show off and hardly taken as a cover and shield of the woman's body. To the believing women, however, the purpose is to safeguard their bodies and cover their private parts as a manifestation of the order of Allah. It is an act of Taqwah (righteousness ).


(6)The Hijaab Is Eemaan ( Believf or Faith )

Allah (the Almighty) did not address His Words about the Hijab except to the believing women, Al-Mo'minat:

} ‏ وَقُل للمُؤمِناتِ ‏‏{[النور،31]

"And say (O Muhammad (PBUH) to
the believing women."
(Qur'an 24: 31)

In another Ayah Allah (the Almighty) also says:

} ‏ ونِسآءِ المُؤمِنين‏‏{الآية [الأحزاب،59]

"And the believing
women"
(Qur'an 33: 59).

A'isha (may Allah be pleased with her) the wife of the Prophet (PBUH), addressed some women from the tribe of Banu Tameem who camevisiting her and had light clothes on them:

"If indeed you are believing women, then truly this is not the dress of the believing women, and if you are not believing women, then enjoy it."(7)

(7) Reported in "Ma'alim As-Sunnan" by Abu Suleiman Al-Khitabi in his
explanation of Sunnan An-Nissa'ee V 4, p.376


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JazakAllah khair sister for ur posts...

Jazakallah again

Bismillaah!!

The Prophet Muhammad SAW

and Women
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The Virtues of Hijab

In the name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful

(7) The Hijaab Is Hayaa ( Bashfulness )

The Prophet (PBUH) said:

"إنَّ لِكُلَّ دين خُلُقاً، وخُلُقُ الإسلام الحياء"

"Each religion has a morality and the morality of Islam is
haya' (bashfulness)."(8)

He (PBUH) also said:

"Bashfulness is from belief and belief is in Aj-Jannah
(Paradise)."(9)

Furthermore, he (PBUH) said:

"الحياءُ والإيمانُ قُرِنا جميعاً، فإذا رُفِعَ أحَدُهُما رُفِعَ الآخر"

"Bashfulness and belief are fully associated together if one is
lifted the other follows suit."(10)

The mother of the believers, A'isha said: "I used to enter the room where the Messenger of Allah (PBUH) and my father were later buried in without having my garment on me, saying it is only my husband and my father". But when Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) was later buried in (the same place), I did not enterthe room except that I had my garment on being shy from Umar (may Allah be pleased with him)."
(11) The Hijab fits the natural bashfulness whichis a part of the nature of women.


(8) Narrated by Imam Malik in his "Mu'wata" (2: 905-Arabic). The hadeethchain is Mursal i.e. the chain of narrators is disconnected at one point oranother. For example to say: "On the authority of A, on the authority of B, on the authority of C that the Prophet said "...." . The hadeeth is 19Mursal if for example C did not hear directly from the Prophet. In the case of the above hadeeth, Ibin Habban connected the chain by two ways of narrators, both of them are weak.
(9) collected by At-Tirmidhi who said it is: "a good and authentic hadeeth".
(10) Narrated by Abdul'lah bin Umar as Related by Al-Hakim in his
"Mustadrak" (1/22-Arabic) who said: "it is a good and authentic
Hadeeth….." and Al-Thahabi confirmed Al-Hakim on this.
(11) As-Simt Ath'ameeen Fee Maniqib Ummahat Ul-Mu'mineen, p.91:A Book by Ibin As-Sakir that represents a collection of the great attributes of the Mothers of Believers (The wives of the Prophet-PBUH). Al- Hakim reported a similar narration and said that it is "good according to the conditions of Imam Bukhari and Imam Mulslim", noting that both Imams did not discuss the chain of narration itself. Al- Thahabi had no comment about Al-Hakim's narration.


(8) The Hijaab Is Gheerah ( to be Jealous Over )
The Hijab fits the natural feeling of Gheerah which is intrinsic in the straight man who does not like people to look at his wife or daughters. Gheerah is a driving emotion that drives the straight man to safeguard women who are related to him from strangers. The straight Muslim man has Gheerah for all Muslim women. Many in the world had lost this great moral aspect. In response to lust and desire men look (with desire) at other women while they do not mind that other men do the same to their wives or daughters! In "free" societies you see men sitting with strange women who are half-naked "enjoying" the scene! They introduce their wives to other strange men. Mutual looks here and there! Affairs develop and phone calls are exchanged. "Love affairs" destroys many families and children suffer most. What kind of "love" is this?

The mixing of sexes and absence of Hijab kills the Gheerah in men. The eyes "eat up" other men and women! The inner "justification" is: since I can look they can look. It's a " free choice"!! Few are those who feel anything when they discover their wives have "affairs". They become numb!! No dignity ! No honor! The bottom line is that in many societies of this modern World the animalistic behaviors are becoming very apparent.

Ali (may Allah be pleased with him) said: "It was related to me that you women used to crowd the Kuffar (disbelieving men) from the non-Arabs in the markets; don't you have Gheerah? There is no good in the
one who does not have Gheerah."

Islam considers Gherrah an integral part of faith .The dignity of the wife or daughter or any other Muslim woman must be highly respected and defended.






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mashaa Allah....^^

Alhamdulillah ! Allah gave us the ability to understand the truth.

Bismillaah!!

The Prophet Muhammad SAW
and Women
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The Disgrace of Women's Charm

The Disgrace Of Tabar'roj
( Display Of Woman's Charm! )

In the name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful

(1)Tabar'roj Is A Disobedience To Allaah & His Messenger

The one who disobeys Allah and his Messenger (PBUH) can only harm himself and cannot in any way harm Allah. The Messenger of Allah (PBUH) said:

"كُلُّ أُمّتي يَدخُلونَ الجنَّةَ إلاَّ من أبى" فقالوا: يا رسولَ الله من يأبى؟ قال: "من

أطاعني دخلَ الجنّة ومن عصاني فقد أبى"

"All of my followers will enter Aj-Jannah (Heaven) except those who refuse." They said, "O Allah's Messenger! Who will refuse? "He said, "Whoever obeys me will enter Aj-Jannah, and whoever disobeys me is the one who refuses (to enter it)."(1)

It is reported that Mu'awiyah (may Allah be pleased with him) gave a sermon in Humss(Syria) and mentioned that the Prophet (PBUH) prohibitedseven things and that he (PBUH) named Tabar'roj as one of them(2). Abdullah bin Mas'oud (may allah be pleased with him) reported that theProphet (PBUH) "used to dislike ten kinds of behavior and he(Abdullah) mentioned amongst them: "Tabar'roj by means of displaying beautification in an improper place."( 3) Imam As- Siyouti, may Allah's mercy be upon him said: "Tabar'roj by displaying beautification is showing off to strangers and this is disliked. This is the explanation of "an improper place." It is not so if the beautification is done for the husband.

(1) Saheeh Al-Bukhari (English-Arabic, Dar Al-Arabia, Publ. Beirut, Lebanon), V.9, hadeeth # 384, p.284

(2) Narrated by Imam Ahmed in his Mussnad 4/101-Arabic.

(3) Narrated by An-Nissa'ee in his " Sunan "Arabic 8/141.

(2) Tabar'roj Is A Grave Destructive Sin!

Umay'mah, the daughter of Ruqay'ah came to the Messenger of Allah to acknowledge the message of Islam and that he (PBUH) is the Messenger of Allah (THE ALMIGHTY). The Prophet (PBUH) told her: "I give my acknowledgment that you must not set partners to worship besides Allah and that you don't steal or commit fornication and adultery, that you don't kill your child, that you don't commit any falsehood before your hands and between your legs, that you don't wail, and that you don't make Tabar'roj like that of Jahilyeeyah(4). It is clear that the Prophet (PBUH) associated Tabar'roj with grave

destructive sins.

(4) Narrated by Imam Ahmed in his "Mussnad" 2/196. The scholar Ahmed Shaker, may Allah's Mercy be upon him, said : " Its chain of narration is good". He also said that Ibin Khatheer in his "Tafseer :Explanation of the

Qur'an 8: 327-328" mentioned this hadeeth saying, "its chain of narration is good" and he narrated it to At-Tirmidhi, An-Nissa'ee and Ibin Majah.

(3)Tabar'roj Bring The Curse And Expulsion From The Mercy Of Allaah.

The Messenger of Allah (PBUH) said:

"سيَكُونُ في آخِر أُمَّتي نساءٌ كاسِياتٌ عارياتٌ، على رُؤوسِهِنَّ كأسنِمَةِ البُختِ،
إلعَنوهُنّ فإنَّهُنَّ ملعونات"

"There shall be, in the latter part of my nation, women who are dressed but (in fact) naked, on their heads are humps like those of Bukht (one kind of camels), curse them for they are

surely cursed."(5)

(5) At-Tabarani narrated this hadeeth in "Al-Mu'jam As-Sagheer" p.232 and Al-Albani said it Saheeh as in his book "The Hijab" p.56. As-Siyouti narrated on behalf of Ibin Abdul'barr that: "The Prophet (PBUH) intended women who put on light clothes that shows off and shapes the body descriptions. In reality they are naked although they have clothes on them!".

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mashaa Allah ...^^

Bismillaah!!

The Prophet Muhammad SAW
and Women
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The Disgrace of Women's Charm

The Disgrace Of Tabar'roj
( Display Of Woman's Charm! )

In the name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful

(4)Tabar'roj Is An Atribute Of The People Of Hell

The Messenger of Allah (PBUH) said:

"صِنفان من أهلِ النَّار لم أرَهُما: قومٌ معَهُم سِياطٌ كأذناب البَقر يضرِبونَ بها
النَّاس، ونِساءٌ كاسِياتٌ عارِياتٌ، مُميلاتٌ، رُؤوسَهُنَّ كأسنِمَةِ البُختِ المائِلة، لا
يَدْخُلنِ الجنَّةَ، ولا يَجِدْنَ ريحَها، وإنَّ ريحَها لَيوجَدُ من مَسيرةِ كذا وكذا"

Of the people of Hell there are two types whom I have never seen, the one possessing whips like the tail of an ox and they flog people with them. The second one, women who would be naked in spite of their being dressed, who are seduced (to wrong paths) and seduce others with their hair high like humps. These women would not get into Aj-Jannah and they would not perceive its odor, although its fragrance can be perceived from such and such distance.( 6)

(6) Saheeh Muslim (English-Arabic, Published by Dar Al-Arabia, Beirut.

Lebanon) V. 4 hadeeth # 6840 p. 1486.

(5)Tabar'roj Is Darkness On The Day Of Resurrection!

It is narrated that the Prophet (PBUH) said:

"مَثَلُ الرَّافِلَةِ في الزَّينَةِ في غيرِ أهلِها، كَمَثَلِ ظُلْمَةٍ يوم القيامة، لا نور لها"

The parable of a woman who moves with slow sweeping motion, trailing her beautified clothes, performing not for her husband, is like darkness on the Day of Judgment; she has (or comes with) no light,"( 7)

"خَيْرُ نِسائِكُم الوَدود، الوَلُود، المُواتِية، المُواسية، إذا اتَّقيْنَ الله، وشَرّ نِسائِكُم

المُتَبَرَّجات المًتَخَيَّلات، وهُنَّ المُنافِقات، لا يَدخُلِ الجنَّةَ مِنْهُنَّ إلاَّ مِثلُ الغُرابِ
الأعصَم"

(7) Narrated by Imam At-Tirmidhi in his "Sunan" # 1167. Al-Albani said it is a weak hadeeth (See Al-Albani's collection "Ad-Da'eefah" (Collection of Weak Hadeeths) # 1800. Abu Bakr Bin Arabi, may Allah's Mercy be upon him, said: "At-Tirmidhi narrated this hadeeth and said it is weak but its meaning is correct because the "enjoyment" in disobedience is in fact torture and suffering……". The meaning indicates that this type of women will come on the Day of Judgment Blackened in darkness as if she physically originated from darkness. In contrast, what appears to be difficult and painful in performance of obedient acts, is a true enjoyment

because of the reward awaiting those who obey Allah and His Messenger e.g. the odor of the mouth of a fasting Muslim may not be pleasant in this world. To Allah, however, it is better than the odor of Musk because the Muslim had obeyed Allah and performed what is due upon him from fasting. Similarly the woman wearing her Hijab may be looked upon as "reactionary, old fashioned, a walking tent! etc." She is the winner on the Day of Judgment and those who mock her put themselves on a dangerous road. They may be subjected to the wrath of Allah.

(6)Tabar'roj Is Nifaq ( Hypocrisy )

The Prophet (PBUH) said:

"The best of your women is the affectionate , the fertile (in productivity), the propitious (favorable), the consultative if they fear Allah. the Most evil of your women are the Mutabar'rijat (those who do Tabar'roj), the Mutakhayelat (who strut/the Almightyagger), and they are the hypocrite ones. Those who enter Aj-Jannah are like the Cough Crow."( 8) The Cough Crow has a red beak and red legs. This is an expression of metonymy indicating that few women enter Heaven because this kind of crow is rare.

(8) Reported by Al-Baihaqi in "As-Sunan" V.7 p.82. Also reported by Abu Na'eem in "Al-Hiliyah" V. 8, p. 376 with a reference to Abdullah bin Masoud (MAY ALLAH BE PLEASED WITH HIM) as the narrator. See also Al-Albani's "Chain of Authentic Hadeeths - Arabic" # 1849 and 632.

(7) Tabar'roj Is Disgraceful!!

The Prophet (PBUH) said:

"أَيُّمَا امرأةٍ وَضَعَت ثِيابَها في غيرِ بيتِ زَوجِها، فقد هتَكَت سِترَ ما بينها وبين الله عزَّ وجَلَّ"

"Any woman who takes off her clothes in other than her husbands home (to show off for an unlawful purpose), has broken the shield between her and Allah."( 9)

Imam Al- Man'nawi, may Allah have Mercy upon him, said: "the saying

of the Prophet (PBUH) ' any woman who takes off her clothes in other than her husbands home' means showing off her beauty to strangers by taking off her shield of clothes. She "has broken the shield between her and Allah" because Allah had said:

يَا بَنِي آدَمَ قَدْ أَنْزَلْنَا عَلَيْكُمْ لِبَاسًا يُوَارِي
سَوْآتِكُمْ وَرِيشًا وَلِبَاسُ التَّقْوَى ذَلِكَ خَيْرٌ ‏‏
الآية[الأعراف،26

"O children of Adam! We have
bestowed raiment upon 'you to cover
yourselves (screen your private parts
etc.) and as an adornment. But the
raiment of righteousness, that is
better."(Qur'an 7:26)

So if a woman does not fear Allah and uncover her private parts then she is breaking the shield between her and Allah, Most High. And because she uncovered and dishonored herself and committed a treason with her husband, Allah will uncover her shield, she will be in a scandal... "

(9) Narrated by Imam Ahmed and Al-Hakim in his "Mustadrek" (Arabic) V.4, p.288 who said it is Saheeh (authentic) according to the conditions of Muslim and Al-Bukhari, and Ad-Dahabi agreed as well as Ibin Majah.

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I will miss your posts....may Allah reward you with Al Jannah

Ameeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeen

(that day I wrote a message for yah replying on you but I couldn`t send it to you)....

Bismillaah!!
The Prophet Muhammad SAW
and Women
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The Disgrace of Women's Charm

The Disgrace Of Tabar'roj
( Display Of Woman's Charm! )

In the name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful

8) Tabar'roj Is An Unchaste And Disgraceful Sin!

The woman is A'wrah, All of her body is not to be shown To wear the clothes that show off and shapes her body features is disgraceful and Allah (THE ALMIGHTY) orders His slaves to stay away from disgraceful sins:

}‏ وَإِذَا فَعَلُوا فَاحِشَةً قَالُوا وَجَدْنَا عَلَيْهَا آبَاءَنَا وَاللَّهُ
أَمَرَنَا بِهَا قُلْ إِنَّ اللَّهَ لَا يَأْمُرُ بِالْفَحْشَاءِ أَتَقُولُونَ عَلَى
اللَّهِ مَا لَا تَعْلَمُونَ ‏‏{[الأعراف،28]

"When they commit a Fahisha (evil
deed, going round the Ka'ba in naked
state as in the times of Jahilyeeyah (Pre Islamic Paganism),every kind of unlawful sexual intercourse etc.), they say: 'We found
our fathers doing it and Allah has
commanded us of it.' Say: "Nay, Allah never commands of Fahisha. Do you say of Allah what you know not?"
(Qur'an 7:28)

It is Shaytan (Satan) who orders such disgraceful sins. Allah (THE ALMIGHTY) says:

}‏ الشَّيْطَانُ يَعِدُكُمُ الْفَقْرَ وَيَأْمُرُكُمْ بِالْفَحْشَاء‏‏{

الآية [البقرة، 268]

"Shaytan threatens you with poverty
and orders you to commit sins. "
(Qur'an 2: 268)

The Mutabar'rigah is a sinful virus that spreads disgraceful sins amongst the Muslim society. Allah, the Most High, says:

}‏ إِنَّ الَّذِينَ يُحِبُّونَ أَن تَشِيعَ الفَاحِشَةُ فِي الَّذِينَ آمَنُوا
لَهُمْ عَذَابٌ أَلِيمٌ فِي الدُّنْيَا وَالآخِرَةِ وَاللَّهُ يَعْلَمُ وَأَنْتُمْ
لاَ تَعْلَمُونَ ‏‏{النور،19

"Verily, those who like, that (the crime
of) illegal sexual intercourse should be
propagated among those who believe,
they will have a painful torment in this
world and in the Hereafter. And Allah
knows and you know not."
(Qur'an 24:19)

Tabar'roj is a leading cause for the spread of Zina (illegal sexual intercourse).

(9) Tabar'roj Is A Satanic Way!!
The story of Adam and his wife demonstrates how the enemy of Allah, Satan, was so covetous to incite them to show their private parts in order to spread evil and disgraceful sins. It also shows that the Tabar'roj of women is a primary goal for Shaytan to achieve. Allah (THE ALMIGHTY) says:

}‏ يَا بَنِي آدَمَ قَدْ أَنْزَلْنَا عَلَيْكُمْ لِبَاسًا يُوَارِي
سَوْآتِكُمْ وَرِيشًا وَلِبَاسُ التَّقْوَى ذَلِكَ خَيْرٌ ‏‏{الآية [الأعراف،26]

"O children of Adam! We have
bestowed raiment upon you to cover
yourselves (screen your private parts
etc.) and as an adornment. But the
raiment of righteousness, that is
better."
(Qur'an 7:26)

It is clear that Satan is the one who established the call for Tabar'roj and show off and that he is the leader of those "leaders " who call for the "liberation of women". Satan is the "Imam" of everyone who obeys and follows him in disobedience to Allah (The Most Merciful), especially those Mutabar'rijat who harm the Muslims and deceive their youth.
The Prophet ( PBUH) said:

ما تَرَكْتً بَعدي فتنةً هيَ أضَرُ على الرجالِ من النِساء""

"I have not left after me any (chance) of turmoil more harmful
to men than the harm done to the men because of women.(10)

Adam forgot, made a mistake, repented and asked forgiveness from Allah and Allah the Oft-Forgiving accepted Adam's repentance. The struggle between Adam's off-springs and Shaytan continues. The devil still whispers to drive us , men and women, to disobey Allah and follow sin. There is no safeguard except in the return to Allah in good faith and repentance, remembering Allah, asking His help to overcome lust and desire.

(10) Saheeh Muslim (English translation; published by Dar Al-Arabia) V. 4, hadeeth # 6603, p. 1431

mashaa Allah...and no matter how many times we fall in shaitans webs, we will get up saying Aotho bellah and asking Allah for his forgiveness and Allah is the most Compassionate the most Mercifull Alhamdoo lellah....but never think that you are secure from his torment.....and that called fearing Allah...

Originally Posted by Amat Allah

mashaa Allah my dear Khayal subhaan Allah ,Allah has given to you so much blesses and one of them the inventiveness mashaa Allah......

I loved your thread it is beautifull, may Allah love you....

may Allah make you one of those who will enter the paradise with out being reckoning...

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Same to you as well, InshaAllaah & Aameen!!