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| ..The Aunty of LI.. Status: Offline Posts: 10,430 Reputation: 26435 Rep Power: 57 Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: In a world full of trials and tribulations... Gender: Way of Life: Muslim | "Truly in the heart there is a void that can not be removed except with the company of Allah. And in it there is a sadness that can not be removed except with the happiness of knowing Allah and being true to Him. And in it there is an emptiness that can not be filled except with love from him and by turning to Him and always remembering Him and if a person were given all of the world and what is in it, it would not fill this emptiness." - Ibn Al-Qayyim - "And from misery is that you love, and (the one) who you love, loves other than you, or that you want good for a person, and he wants to hurt you". Imam Ash Shafi'ee ![]() Rhymes Thread Stats - Click Here |
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Online Posts: 321 Reputation: 2616 Rep Power: 9 Join Date: Jun 2007 Gender: Way of Life: Muslim | Good Manners in Dealing with the Ignorant By Imam Ibn al-Qayyum al-Jawziyyah Ar-Risaalah at-Tabookiyyah After a person turns away from the company of those [ignorant associates], and he turns to the company of those who are absent in person - but whose bounties and good influence continue to exist in the world, he would then inquire a new zeal and a new direction, and he would become stranger among the people - even if he be a relative or a close acquaintance. This would make him a dear stranger to people. He can clearly see the obscurity that they suffer, but they cannot see the splendor which he enjoys. He excuses them as much as he can, while enjoining and advising them to do good with all of his power. Thus he looks at them with two eyes:
If a person abides by this aayah, it would suffice and cure him. It calls for:
"Verily! Those who brought forth the great slander [against `Aa'ishah (radhiallahu `anhaa)] are a group among you. Consider it not a bad thing for you. Nay, it is good for you…" [An-Noor 24:11] And He addressed His Messenger (sallallahu `alayhi wa sallam) by saying: "So forgive them, ask Allah to forgive them, and consult them in the affair. Then when you have taken a decision, put your full trust in Allah." [Aal `Imraan 3:159] This aayah instructs the Messenger (sallallahu `alayhi wa sallam) to fulfill Allah's rights and the people's rights. When people do wrong, they would either be violating Allah's limits or harming His Messenger personally. If they harm the Messenger (sallallahu `alayhi wa sallam), he shoud respond by forgiving them. But if they overstep Allah's limits, then he (sallallahu `alayhi wa sallam) should ask Allah (Ta`aala) to forgive them and to soften their hearts. Also, he (sallallahu `alayhi wa sallam) should extract their opinions by consulting them, because this tends to make them more obedient and willing to advise. Once he forms his decision, he should seek advice no more, but rather put his trust in Allah and go forth to fulfill what he decided, for Allah loves those who trust Him. The Prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم said, “Verily rifq (gentleness) does not exist in something, except that it beautifies it. And it is not taken out of something, except that it harms it.” [Related by Muslim (no. 2592)] |
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| LI Senior Member Status: Offline Posts: 241 Reputation: 669 Rep Power: 8 Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: Dubai Gender: Way of Life: Muslim | Quote:
Important Plz read: May ALLAH TALLAH save us from backbiting.May no muslim men wear silk Ameen. | |
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| LI Senior Member Status: Offline Posts: 241 Reputation: 669 Rep Power: 8 Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: Dubai Gender: Way of Life: Muslim | Quote:
May Allah reward u and increase ur knowledge and good deeds, for sharing this with us Important Plz read: May ALLAH TALLAH save us from backbiting.May no muslim men wear silk Ameen. | |
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| LI Senior Member Status: Offline Posts: 241 Reputation: 669 Rep Power: 8 Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: Dubai Gender: Way of Life: Muslim | Quote:
This was just wonderful . Jazaikhair for posting Important Plz read: May ALLAH TALLAH save us from backbiting.May no muslim men wear silk Ameen. | |
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