Why dont you talk much ??

i have the same problem

i can't talk to no one only if ive known them for a while and know them very well.
some people just look at me and they propley think that am not friendly blah blah

i cant even make friends easily takes a while :X

and nah this aint strange its not bad neither its just u gotta practise and see what kinda stuff ur boss or aunt like to talk about and bit by bit u will start to talk to them abiut anything and thats where they wish u never talked to them

format_quote Originally Posted by Güven

but I just dont know what to talk about with my boss or my aunt

Ask him for a raise.

format_quote Originally Posted by Muezzin

Ask him for a raise.

lolz

its not strange it happens to me too.

is ur boss a muslim?

The opposite of this question is being asked to me ;

why do you talk much?


it is not a a big deal.

On the contrary it is a really good thing GO ON

^^^ Same here. People can tell I'm in another room coz apparently I can go on an on...
I wish I was able to keep my mouth shut on many an occasion.
So consider being quiet a good thing

format_quote Originally Posted by Periwinkle18

its not strange it happens to me too.

is ur boss a muslim?

yep

format_quote Originally Posted by Muezzin

Ask him for a raise.

lol i already asked but hes greedy

format_quote Originally Posted by aysegul

The opposite of this question is being asked to me ;

why do you talk much?


it is not a a big deal.

On the contrary it is a really good thing GO ON

format_quote Originally Posted by Musaafir

^^^ Same here. People can tell I'm in another room coz apparently I can go on an on...
I wish I was able to keep my mouth shut on many an occasion.
So consider being quiet a good thing

Well it is a good thing i think but when im at work talking to people , having communication is an important thing you know ...

format_quote Originally Posted by be sensible

DOnt worry too much about it its normal it happens to most of us. I find it really hard to talk to my relatives sometimes its always the same converation hello how are you etc thats just far as it goes lol. I guess sometimes older person or a boss can come across intimidating at the point it can make it difficult to communicate. Or sometimes you may not find shared or common goals with the other person which again makes it difficult to communicate. In one of my jobs i started of really quite until i got to know everyone at the point i used to always get told off for talking too much or always being called a big mouth lol but when i went to work in the head office for a short contract i was quite as a mouse and everyon kept telling me are you always this quite the people even gave feedback to my manager stating that i was really quite and my manager was just in a shock and she just wouldnt believe them lol.

But the thing is we can talk for hours and end with the people were most comfortable with or some one who we have common interest with. Every one is different some people like my self takes time and gets to know the people and environment before getting comfortable.

Its just way of life some people you will get on with while others you may not get along so well. You cant make everyone happy there will always be something or other. Try to get to know them see if the helps at all. Just be who you are thats all you can be your still young dont worry you got plenty of years to make good friends.

lol i guess you are right...its not like am all quite I talk alot sometimes too but you know they say talk , say something....and then im just stuck because i have NOTHING to say.

is he convert or born muslim? if hes a convert then ask how he converted tht would be interesting or talk to him abt islamic books. if he asks u to talk tell him abt Li

format_quote Originally Posted by Hanz

Try and talk about a subject that you can go on and on forever.

lol Like what ? if i talk about islam it will end up in 5 minutes
soccer 10 minutes , food 10 minutes , future plans 10 minutes and school atmost 15 minutes i guess

format_quote Originally Posted by Periwinkle18

is he convert or born muslim? if hes a convert then ask how he converted tht would be interesting or talk to him abt islamic books. if he asks u to talk tell him abt Li

hes a born muslim ..sometimes there will come people who talk about islam and its quite interesting

so the nxt time he asks u to talk wht will u say?

format_quote Originally Posted by Periwinkle18

so the nxt time he asks u to talk wht will u say?

I dunno lol

format_quote Originally Posted by Hanz

There you go! Almost 1 hour of talking - he'll never say "why don't you talk much" again.

1 hour talking i am there 8 hours then that mean 7 hours silence

^Well then jus say, I never came to work to talk, I came to work...