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    Asalam alaikum,
    I am a revert and I am inshallah getting married soon, that is when I find the right person.
    my question comes about after nikkah is done, then on the wedding night what is supposed to happen? I won't know this person alot, so Is expected to be intimate that first night or can you wait until your ready and know them more? I'm to nervous to ask this in person
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    Re: what happens on wedding night?

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    format_quote Originally Posted by Sahabiyaat View Post
    thanks hun, InshaAllah, i hope so too.xx
    khyer insha'Allah.. I think the confusion over your siggy is because it might be misspelled? I believe this is the proper spelling of it insha'Allah
    cheetah..


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    Re: what happens on wedding night?

    format_quote Originally Posted by Muezzin View Post
    Well, if the husband and wife love each other very much they turn on the PlayStation and whup the hell out of each other on Street Fighter.
    I'd be so blessed for a wife of the sort.

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    Re: what happens on wedding night?

    format_quote Originally Posted by Sahabiyaat View Post


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    Re: what happens on wedding night?

    format_quote Originally Posted by Sahabiyaat View Post
    thats is all ver'ahhhhhhhhh' ^ but what would families actually think of this whole getting out of the house on the first night.

    I bet they would find it seriously weired and would even assume somethings wrong!! , that u wanna leave the house!

    u can only do these things if you have ur own home, which most people dont when they first get married.
    In Somali culture it's seen as ''shameful'' for the couple not to stay/live with each other for at least 7 days.

    what happens on wedding night?

    *Acausal synchronicity*

    Please make du'a for my mom and Dad.

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    Re: what happens on wedding night?

    It is an offence to your husband not be intimate sexually with him on your Wedding Night.

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    Re: what happens on wedding night?



    I was dead tired on my wedding night, I went straight to sleep Wasn't thinking about anything else but I would of loved to play playstation if I had enough energy
    what happens on wedding night?

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    Re: what happens on wedding night?

    format_quote Originally Posted by Bagwell View Post
    It is an offence to your husband not be intimate sexually with him on your Wedding Night.
    if he shows intent on that regard, entertaining him would be advised. if it's too uncomfortable for you, you can of course say so.

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    Re: what happens on wedding night?

    what happens on wedding night?
    You go to bed, that's what.
    what happens on wedding night?

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    Re: what happens on wedding night?

    format_quote Originally Posted by Gossamer skye View Post
    khyer insha'Allah.. I think the confusion over your siggy is because it might be misspelled? I believe this is the proper spelling of it insha'Allah
    cheetah..

    whatever are you talking about gossamer, please check my post and signiture, you will find i have, cough, spelt it quite correctly!
    what happens on wedding night?

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    Re: what happens on wedding night?

    format_quote Originally Posted by Sahabiyaat View Post
    whatever are you talking about gossamer, please check my post and signiture, you will find i have, cough, spelt it quite correctly!








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    Re: what happens on wedding night?

    format_quote Originally Posted by aamirsaab View Post
    what happens on wedding night?
    You go to bed, that's what.

    AsSalamOAlaikum WaRehmatuAllah WaBarkatuhu

    Yep thats right, akhi!!

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    You don't have to do anything you don't want. Just take things as they come inshaAllah until you feel more comfortable
    what happens on wedding night?

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    Re: what happens on wedding night?


    format_quote Originally Posted by Sahabiyaat View Post
    Rather I think you should relax, talk, watch a movie, or even go for a walk! (without the knowledge of the sleeping household ofcourse, otherwise they will find this very strange!).
    lol hmm i like that walking idea. by myself that is yh ill walk...and walk...and keep on walking then ill break out into a run and run away and never come back :X ugh! marriage just terrifies me i wanna stay at home with my fam
    Last edited by Ummu Sufyaan; 04-18-2009 at 12:52 PM.
    what happens on wedding night?

    ...desperate for husnul-khitaam...


    please make dua that Allah grants me a good end (to my life). please make dua that Allah guides me.


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    Re: what happens on wedding night?

    ^ hahahaha


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